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How do I deal with the fact that while I don't really enjoy
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2016-06-17 00:14:37 Post No. 17262230
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Anonymous 2016-06-17 00:14:37 Post No. 17262230 [Report]
How do I deal with the fact that while I don't really enjoy other people's company I still want to cared for? Does anybody else feel this way? For example, I'm feeling lonely so I make an account with a dating site and start looking through profiles. Literally nobody interests me, I cannot see myself enjoying an evening with any of them. The only ones that I find somewhat interesting are those that I share hobbies with but everything else about them I find uninteresting, I might as well just enjoy the hobby by myself. Wtf is wrong with me?
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Anonymous 2016-06-17 00:30:12 Post No.17262284
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Anonymous 2016-06-17 00:30:12 Post No.17262284 [Report]
So basically you are me.
I have 2 people I can tolerate and one will be moving soon so I will have to meet new friends. It's so difficult for me to make any new meaningful relationships.
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Anonymous 2016-06-17 00:48:27 Post No.17262366
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Anonymous 2016-06-17 00:48:27 Post No.17262366 [Report]
>>17262284
So how do I fix this? It's making me miserable.
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Anonymous 2016-06-17 01:59:02 Post No.17262628
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Anonymous 2016-06-17 01:59:02 Post No.17262628 [Report]
I have three very close friends. One's a bro who I talk about guy stuff with, another is a female-to-male trans who i discuss deep emotional shit with, and the last is a heterosexual female who i disturb the peace with because we're both introverts until we feed off of eachother's presence.

Honestly, thats all I need. This triumvirate even makes romantic relationships pale in comparison.

tl;dr keep a close circle of friends who you're joined at the hip with.
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Anonymous 2016-06-17 02:03:21 Post No.17262640
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Anonymous 2016-06-17 02:03:21 Post No.17262640 [Report]
>>17262230
Just have the confidence to not need to be cared for---that's weakness.
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