I'm 21 years old. There's a girl that I've never been able to get out of my mind since I was 15 years old. We went to high school together, but she transferred a year after we met. After we graduated, she went to college and I enlisted in the military. I'm out now, and she's on summer break from college. I deleted my facebook recently, which was the only way we could communicate. I would really like to see her again even just to have the closure I never got. Is there any way I can go about getting in contact with her without seeming like a creep? Should I even fucking bother?
No just no
>>17260613
care to elaborate?
>>17260611
by the way, she would message me on Facebook every once and a while to ask how I was doing. Sometimes I would respond, sometimes not. The last time was about a year ago.
bump :'(
>>17260611
Definitely think you shouldn't just forget about it and try to "get over" cos that shit doesn't always work.You sound like you need closure here.Concerning coming across like a creep when trying to contact her,you need to get that attitude out of your head.That same attitude cost me the chance at a relationship with a girl who LIKED me.I was so concerned with creeping her out that I didn't make any huge moves.Is there anywhere where you can bump into her?Does she have a summer job?Do you think she is in your league?Any mutual friends?Would you consider using facebook again?
>Is there any way I can go about getting in contact with her without seeming like a creep?
Only if you make it appear to be by chance. Figure out her routine, and find a way to cross paths by "coincidence". Creepy? Yes. Stalker-ish? Absolutely. But she doesn't need to know that. She would definitely detect the creepy factor though, if you tried to contact her from out of the blue.
