I need your help /adv/
It's been a few months that my boyfriend insists on making me cum through penetration alone or even "just when he sticks it in". How do I tell him that's absurd and most likely will never happen? No matter how much I enjoy it, I just can't do it, also because we don't even have enough foreplay (5 minutes at MAX) before intercourse, since everytime we have sex I'm always really dry and he has to bruteforce his way through as well.
When I talk to him about this, he just bullies me because I'm not in the 20% of women who can cum during intercourse, and changes the subject linking me other stuff. Today he linked me an article of a pig that played dead to save her owner.
I love him but I don't know how to communicate with him, and he doesn't make an effort to listen either. This is really making me sad. What do I do? I don't want to hurt him
Tell the truth. I would want it if I was in his shoes.
I've been in a similar situation. The guy eventually felt really shitty about himself and cheated on me "cause i wanted to make someone cum just from my dick".
Luckily not all guys are that insecure. Just tell him over and over again that it is not physically possbile for you?
>>17260587
literally every girl needs to rub their own clit during sex to cum. Like, the guy will do the rubbing with their thumb or something while thrustin away but when it comes down to cumming.... the girl needs to be doing it themselves.
Sex is just better that way.
>>17260587
Give him a book on female sexuality and let him learn something.
He sounds like a shithead.
When I had a girlfriend, she also couldn't orgasm easily. So I just out in the work to see on what she likes. He has to learn about you, what gets you off. Not that it has to be about yourself on sex all the time, but he has to put the effort to help you get off, do foreplay that helps you, and not only waste five minutes.
>>17260587
only 20% of men even care what you think or feel so you got a brute that has watched too much porn and falls in the 80%
The ex I remember most got me so worked up I would cum soon as he started to penetrate me but that is the exception. He was mind fucking me more than physically fucking me. I would literally gush just thinking about him when he wasn't even around.
>>17260587
Leave that zero and get youself a person that eats pussy
>>17260587
Wow. What a piece of shit. Why are you still with that faggot? You're wasting time, love. He's a loser. Will be forever. Talk him into a cuckold. Tell him you're tired of his little boy penis. Tell him his ideology is that of an uneducated pornstar. He's worthless, OP. Find a man. That's a lil fagboy.
