I'm about to have a breakdown /adv/
I'm 19 and live in a city I moved to 5 years ago. I lost almost all my friends and didn't make any back in High School here. I took a year off and haven't done anything yet, but don't have a driver's license nor a job.
I have no friends. I have no job. I have no means of getting around out of the house. I sometimes can't get out of bed in the morning because I'd much rather be asleep where this shit doesn't bother me.
I feel so alone and it's making me panic. There's nobody to go to and I'm trying my hardest to get out of this rut but I just can't. I know breaking out isn't going to be easy but it feels so hard and there's just so much I need to do that it seems so impossible to me. I know I'm young yet but it feels like I've wasted my time to be a teenager and meet people and have a life before the adult world gets me.
What do I do /adv/? I'm a pretty self-sufficient person ever since I moved here but it's not enough anymore. It's getting harder and harder each day.
Join the military.
>>17258500
That's a pretty big commitment I'm not sure I'm ready for.
Get a job. Any job really, a source of income will motivate you like an getting adrenaline needle in the morning. Exercise (cardio/gym) -it restores serotonin and endorphin balance. You lack motivation because you haven't formed a plan/ambition for the future.
Ignore the join the army tard.
>>17258519
I have no idea what I want to do in the future either. I feel like I really fucked up in High School by not pushing myself, not having any sort of idea for the future.
I still feel so painfully alone. How do I get out of that hole?
Get a job, get your licence, or get a degree.
https://www.google.es/#q=bureau+of+labor+stats
https://www.youtube.com/user/EngineeredTruth/videos
Take piece of paper and a pen. Write what you believe your skills are and what skills you think you could learn with ease. Eg I'm good at coding, I think I could to software engineering.
Sort through jobs that would correspond to these. Look for high job growth.
In 2-5 years and not insurmountable work you can achieve income + fulfilling life.
>>17258513
Well your life seems pretty fucked. If you're not going to school, not working, not creating art or doing anything else and have no commitments/friends.. why not?
"Getting a job" isn't going to magically fix your shit.
>>17258491
Buy a bicycle.
>>17258547
I'll look into that, thanks.
>>17258549
That is true. I wouldn't exactly be leaving anything/anyone behind aside from my family and what little I own.
>>17258552
Maybe. I live in Texas, so I'd rather get my license and a car.
>>17258563
You can always move to another city.
>>17258591
I could try that, but I'm not really in a situation right now where I could just move like that.
