Basically, i have sex only for the validation and attention. It doesn't "get me off" and i hate that it is that way. I think i do that because i my selfesteem is extremely low. I feel desireable, wanted and needed when i do that. How do i get sane again?

I'd suggest in you try a bit of sensory/motor deprivation play in the realms of bondage and s&m with specific regard to blindfolds and handcuffs.

Not a sex doctor though, just a pervert. Anyways, good luck.

>>17257319
You mean, so i have to rely on physical sensations to get off? I can give it a try, sure

Thanks for the input, anon!

>>17257233
What do you think about, look at or read when you masturbate?

>>17257337
That changes constantly. Latest searches included post orgasm torture, forced orgasm, electro-stimulation, hands-free cum shots or plain old painal.
When i fantasize, it's usually about some age-gap powerplay. It's mostly someone forcing himself on to someone else who gets off from it witheout wanting to. I fantasize about being both the predator or the "victim".
I've read some books like "120 of sodome", but i stopped because it was way too drawn out and the actual interesting scenes where pretty scarce.

Is it too late to fix me? Pls, send help /adv/...