Hey /adv/, had a very unsettling experience with a female friend that I've known for a few years. As a backdrop to this story, my female friend went through a string of very abusive relationships in her teenage years. She always struck me as someone rather fucked in the head, but harmless otherwise.
>be me, be straight male with severe anxiety and depression
>be Friday, get invited to chill at friend's house and get drunk because she had her 21st birthday recently
>notice right off the bat that it's just me and her at her house, nobody else, had been lead to believe there would be a lot of people attending
>friend invites me up to her room, asks me to avert my eyes for a second because she needs to change out of her clothes (she had just gotten back from a job interview)
>mentions that she's not wearing any underwear or anything
>I ask her if she wants me to leave the room, it's not a big deal, but she insists I stay and just avert my eyes
>she gets changed, we start drinking
>at one point in the night we end up saying the same thing at the same time, I yell jinx and go to throw her a high-five
>pull back my hand at the last second and go "PSYCHE, HAHA"
>she straight up slaps me across the face, not a play slap, but a full slap
>I'm confused and asked her what that was for
>she goes on some bullshit spiel about how she was abused in an old relationship years ago and tries to justify it
>I tell her I'm not into rough stuff like that
>she says, "well, I am"
>I tell her that she realizes that she can't do anything if I don't consent, tell her a story about a woman who held a guy prisoner for 3 days and raped him when he tried to rob her store, and how she ended up being arrested instead of the robber
>she tells me "I could totally see myself doing that"
>I ask her, "You could see yourself holding a guy hostage and raping him?"
continued
>female rapist
There's no such thing. Drop it and get over it.
>>17256343
>There's no such thing.
>>17256338
>she looks at me with a straight face and says "yes"
>I am very uncomfortable at this point, excuse myself to go to sleep
>go to sleep in her guest bedroom around 1 in the morning, wake up at 3am to hear some weird rattling outside the bedroom door
>she's masturbating right outside the door, being loud about it, moaning
>get up and lock the door, try to fall back asleep
>wake up at 6am, bounce the fuck out of there and never look back
What the fuck, /adv/, can I press charges for this?
Just to be clear I have NEVER shown any sexual interest in her and from my perspective it was a purely platonic relationship.
This shit was so unsettling and I get the feeling that I would never be taken seriously because I'm a male.
What do I do?
>>17256343
>dick is the only tool of rape
There's no such thing. Drop it and get over it.
>>17256343
t. a female rapist
>>17256343
Once again, tripfags prove themselves to be retards
>>17256343
Hannah I would rape you so hard
Uh, how about you stop being her friend and get the fuck out of dodge?
>>17256408
Well I already did that like I explained at the end of my story. I broke off all communication with her and have been ignoring her texts.
What I want to know is what my options are as far as the law is concerned. Is what happened grounds for a lawsuit or restraining order or would I have had to be physically violated for that?
As it stands, I feel I was already violated enough just by having her pull that shit she did outside the bedroom door and also when she slapped me.
She did not rape you. At most you could have her for assault but I doubt you would not have much legal ground.
Just cut her out of your life.
Women can be dodgy as fuck I was taken advantage of by a girl.
>>17256353
That's pretty fucking creepy, but dont press charges. Just never look back. If this continues, like if she starts harassing you over the phone, you may want to seek help.
>>17256444
>>17256437
>>17256408
The general consensus seems to be to just ignore her and move on with my life, so I guess that's what I'll do.
Thankfully I moved recently so she doesn't know where I live and can't physically stalk me.
Thanks for the advice, guys.
>>17256353
Nigga if she was hot you should have given her the d.
>>17256343
Come on now
>>17256424
if you have no proof, there's nothing you can do. the courts aren't going to bother if it's a he said she said situation.
If you had a recording or something, lots of proof of texts containing harassment, that's a different case.
>>17256338
PSYCHE, HAHA
>>17256883
That's the wrongggg number
>>17256343
Wow guys come the fuck on
>>17256338
>I tell her that she realizes that she can't do anything if I don't consent, tell her a story about a woman who held a guy prisoner for 3 days and raped him when he tried to rob her store, and how she ended up being arrested instead of the robber
I've seen that porn too!
>>17256338
>she goes on some bullshit spiel about how she was abused in an old relationship years ago and tries to justify it
Yeah, wait. Maybe she isn't the violent type at all. Maybe she just wants you to be violent and doesn't really know how to tell you. So she ends up slapping you hoping you would slap her back.
>>17256424
What do you imagine you could go to the cops with? This girl offered me sex, and when I refused, she went off and masturbated.
Where's the crime? Where's the threat to you that requires a restraining order?
The ABSOLUTE WORST that could be said to have happened is that you spent an unpleasant evening with a girl you will never see again.
Big deal.
>>17256424
You could probably get her for sexual harassment. Definitely not rape though.
>>17256338
>female rapist
HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA
>>17257597
Well its not joke
My younger brother who is slightly mentally unstable was almost raped in his room by an female friend of my dad, my dad caught her but it fucked up my brother even more for a year he was even afraid to come out of room. So FEMALE RAPIST EXIST
>>17256338
>>17256353
I'm masterbaiting reading this
>>17256343
Obvious bait is obvious.
>>17256338
Well, don't call the cops. Try to discuss it. If you cant hell her, then cut her off and make sure she knows she made you feel very uncomfortable.
>>17256343
Bait. Feminist dont even believe this.
>>17256343
How does it feel to be retarded tripfag?
