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Girlfriend problems
2016-06-14 12:52:09 Post No. 17254443
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Girlfriend problems
Anonymous
2016-06-14 12:52:09
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I've recently found out that my girlfriend thinks we haven't been spending enough time together, our love life has been on the decline qnd in general she has not been happy for a few months. We have been living together for 6 months and been together 3 years. She is a very sensitive girl and when it comes down to things like cheating she would go as far to say speaking to another girl would be cheating.
She had met a guy from work a while a go and I found out today - instantly assuming she has been cheating . She explained to me yesterday how upset she is all what's wrong etc and we are starting from today to amend it , however I found her snap chatting another guy because I'm a snoop and had suspicions. Seems to be just flirty messages and council img kind of thing so I brought it up with her and her response is that she has been confiding in him to talk as he's in a similar situation - and that the furthest it's got is flirty which doesn't mean anything but basically that he's helped her and given her advice saying she should do this or that to make our relationship better.
Am I wrong to instantly think she's cheating , she insists she is not and is devastated that something like this could end it ... All the same I love you stuff.
From her view if I did that with a girl she would almost undoubtably break up with me, and shed consider it cheating and this is where my problem is -
Do I break up with her, is she lying ? How do I know that if I stayed with he she wouldn't keep speaking to him or think about him... She insists she only wants us and it's because she was depressed and she's upset that she's done it and feels bad but she is determined they have not slept together - not even kissed .
I'm lost because I genuinely do love her qnd want to be with her forever but my trust is almost gone ... What should I do? Feel free to ask further questions.