I like this girl a lot but she has a kid. She'll always love this kid more than me. How to deal with this feel? I think I'm going to break it off.
>>17253442
>that timeline
hormones aren't magic pills that reshape your face and become twenty years younger
>>17253446
>not knowing who eggman is
>>17253442
Do it. Why are you crying on here in the first place?
>>17253442
Grow up. If you marry a virgin and have a baby with her, she will always love the kid more than you (and there is a very good chance that you'll feel the same). That's life.
>>17253442
fake
>>17253442
>She'll always love this kid more than me. How to deal with this feel?
By learning to distinguish parental love from romantic love.
>>17253442
you are ridiculous..
what will you do when you at some point are making a family? of course she loves her child more than you, but that doesn't mean she doesn't love you at all, she can love both.
you have a very childish mindset and cannot expect her to only love you, or love you more than her child. if a woman loves her husband/ boyfriend more than her child it's a serious red flag!
Pitching in as a dad here: while OP worded his feelings weirdly, he has a valid point. What I was told repeatedly is that the partner always has to come first in a parents/kid relationship. This of course doesn't mean you leave your kid alone while you go fuck in the woods, but you always take your partners side and not question his/her authority in front of the kid. This applied to us though as we were both the parents and of course in a relationship since well before we got the kid.
Knowing the people on this board though, OP is probably jealous or expects what I described above 3 months into his relationship with the girl or something like that.
So OP, what is it? Are you demanding 5h fuck-sessions or do you want to be an authority figure to the kid after 2 weeks?
>Grow the fuck up
Have you been a supportive father figure for 3 years and it still feels like you're always fighting against 2?
>Man the fuck up and get some counseling
Also give additional information:
>age of all three
>relationship length
