What do you do if you have a large social difference between you and a girl you like?
We're physically and intellectually compatible, but she just seems to have so much more going on than me socially.
How big a problem is this when you date someone? And it's not that I'm not willing to do these things I just never was really socially capable.
Either way what can I do to make up this social difference?
plz
Why would this make a difference in your quality of relationship?
>>17249867
girls not wanting to date someone who is below them socially speaking.
Not wanting to date someone who would be boring to them.
Not wanting to date someone who stays at home all day doing nothing.
etc etc
>>17249882
>girls not wanting to date someone who is below them socially speaking.
It's 2016, not the 1800s
>Not wanting to date someone who would be boring to them.
True, but being boring is not the same as not having an active social life. You can have one without the other; having one doesn't mean you have the other
>Not wanting to date someone who stays at home all day doing nothing.
Some people can appreciate both going out and staying in
>>17249896
I get where you're coming from but I'm not looking to make excuses, I just want to know what I can do to be more socially appealing.
Hobbies I can get into to make more friends, fun activities I can do outdoors.
I want to know how to be a high functioning normie
>>17249896
Note, I'm not OP.
This is completely retarded advice. Social hierarchy is still definitely real and people definitely don't want to socialise downwards.
To pretend otherwise is a masturbatory feel-good fantasy that sets people up for failure and disappointment.
plz again