I was looking through my bfs porn folder and I see he's super into bandage and being a dom. Up until now we've kept it vanilla and since today is his birthday I wanted to do something nice. So far I've decided to use some cloth belts I had in my closet to basically bind my feet and legs, and gag myself with and I have a spare set of handcuffs our police friend left here a few weeks ago (yes I do have the key and tested them!) So what else can I do? I was thinking about basically kidnapping myself and wait for him to find me bound in the back of the walking closet or restroom but idk. I've never done anything to deviant before I just want to make him happy! Can anyone help a girl out?
If he really loves that stuff then he will very likely love the surprise, or be confused, or excited, or all three.
Do you have any trustworthy friends to help you out with the bindings and stuff?
>>17247621
Not really... I didn't even know he liked this stuff. I knew he liked to be rough sometimes but not like this! I'm mostly just copying what I saw in his porn.. gonna get a blindfold going too I think
>>17247624
Tough situation. How flexible are you? It might help you out to bind yourself.
But what If he won't find you?
Kekekeke, this ends with him thinking you've been raped and having a heart attack trying to ungag you. Sex mood will not be present.
>>17247684
this... i cant believe you thought this was a good idea lmao
I think he'd get it but maybe just say something like I have a surprise for you when you get home, do anything you want with it. Are you into at all?
>>17247710
this
>>17247613
Jeez, just tell him to tie you up, that's like half the fun
>>17248084
Don't forget your safe word, most people use the good ol' "Red", I use blancmange.
>>17248084
This.
First, tying yourself is hard, and you'll do a half-assed job.
Second, if you do it with clothes on, it's impossible to get them off. If you do it with clothes off, he'll be probably be shocked - it'll lead to sex, but it will be awkward.
Let him know the day before you want to do something new in bed (but not necessarily what). Agree on a safe word or behavior.
On his birthday, lay around the stuff in the bedroom and keep it closed. Then wait for the right moment, stare him in the eye and show him the cloth belts.
You're welcome
What the other anon said, be really flirty, when he grabs you, whisper in his year to tie you, "take me" stuff like that, look all frail and weak. Basically you want to make him feel like you belong to him and he can do whatever he wants with you. If he hasn't done too much so far then he loves you enough to know what will be the limit.
At least that's what got me going with this girl (only once). He'll figure it out from there, don't worry.
You're awesome for giving him this by the way. I'm jealous beyond belief
