I've got to get over my coworker. It just has to end. I completely adore her, I think she feels close to the same about me. There's no keeping away from her in the workplace, but we hang out every weekend, get drinks after work, text and call when we don't need to, and at work waste time just flirting with each other.
We have a mutual friend that I trust for the most part. Should I lay out to her how I feel, and ask her to help pull us apart? I don't know any other answer anymore.
Why do you need to get over her? Did she turn you down once already or are you in a relationship with someone else?
>>17247330
I just don't want a girl in my life. I like being single
If you adore her, and you keep doing the things you're doing with her, then you don't like being single. Being single means you don't get to have someone like her in your life at all. You need to dive into that bitch head-first and never come up for air. Also, make babies. The world needs more smart people.
>>17247334
Bait.
>move along, nothing to see here
>>17247334
This person isn't OP.
I am. Whatever is going on between she and is irrelevant because she has a boyfriend and a kid. I have posted about this. I know I can not pursue this.
>>17247357
sounds like you need to find another grill pretty soon. ask the mutual friend if she knows anyone who you can hang out with to get your mind off the coworker. you're only going to stress yourself out obsessing over her, but it would be a shame if you lost her as a friend due to muh feelings
Bumping this for the daytime crowd.