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2016-06-12 06:53:42 Post No. 17247060
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2016-06-12 06:53:42
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What is the easiest way to get someone to hang out with you?
Context, I've been living alone in a new city/state for 6 months now and have gone to churches, bars, rock climbing gyms, meetups of online groups, and ton of other shit, so don't suggest that. Every time I have an actual conversation with someone, especially women, I end up making super good friends with them. The thing is, I haven't had that happen with anyone except 2 people so far (one is newly married and can't hang out ever because netflix and chill 24/7, and the other was college/military dude that got deployed after graduation). With that, I still have zero friends here. At work, they just started this thing with new college hires (I still count in that regard although I'm pretty much everyone else's senior by a year or two) so I have a decent handful of acquaintances there. Thing is, I work in a restricted area filled with really old people so I only ever see the other young people I want to make friends with for more than a minute or two a week. I need a good line that will almost guaranteed get someone interested in hanging out with me. Has to be about three sentences or less.
I'm just really not sure how to communicate that I desperately want to hang out with someone without coming off as completely desperate (because admitting to being desperate has NOT worked ever before).