Do girls prefer getting fucked hard like in a porno, or fucked slow and sensually like in a hollywood movie?
Hard and choked plus spanking, but I know I'm freaky.
>>17247051
Male here, have the same question.
Am I fucked if I don't want it harsh and somewhat violent?
>>17247064
Not at all. I like all variations of sex. If i get off, i don't care how it was achieved. Slow, loving and sensual sex is just as good as fast, greedy and passionate
Completely depends on the person and mood. Protip: sex is awkward no matter what when you don't already know what they like, so just go full ham and ask them directly. After a few seconds of awkward conversation, you are better able to please them for the whole time.
>>17247066
So I can stop concerning, right? I've come to think everyone would rather have it rough and I've been feeling emasculated for it.
>>17247077
Definitely, yes. I'm a girl that does like rough sex, but i would me deeply concerned if that's the only way i have sex with my bf. There needs to be a balance. And also, if you have a lot of hard sex, taking it slow and loving can be extremely arousing. Simply for the novelty.
>>17247082
red flag
>tfw when sadist and dominant fetish but ex gf had rape trauma so it was out of the question
I've never told her, I had hard time coming because of that despite her really trying to satisfy me, finally I've learned to close my eyes and use IMAGINE, but it still was not the thing.
>>17247087
How so? Also, nice to read you again
>>17247082
Yeah, thing is, I just feel bad by being too rough or violent. I can't bring myself to do it at all. Makes me think it's going to be either boring for the other party, I'm going to get forced to do something I don't like and have my heart clenching the whole time, or that I'm going to feel not man enough for my girl.
>>17247051
some like it one way, some like it the other way, some like both, some may be into something else entirely.
don't ask us, ask the girl you're with what she likes.
>>17247051
Both, but rough if she doesnt like u that much, soft if she's in love.
>>17247093
>simply for the novelty
That part made me physically ill to read, you soul sucking demonspawn
>>17247103
I prob worded that weirdly, yes. What i meant is that if you are used to one way of having sex for a long time, switching it up can surprise you by being extremely arousing, juat because it's so different from what you're used to. I, for my part, have sex in all variations. I'm not stuck on "vanilla sex" or "rough sex" or whatever. But the OP implied that most girls are into rought sex and one anon was concerned about not being able to satisfy them, so i made that statement in order to show him that even girls who "like it rough" might get a lot out of "sensual lovemaking". They just need to try it.
Now be a good boy and shut your whore mouth
>>17247121
>Now be a good boy and shut your whore mouth
O-Okay geez...
>>17247136
How i missed you
>>17247097
/thread
>>17247142
I probably didn't miss you and hope you get killed by a random falling aircraft engine
>>17247149
I love you too
>>17247168
>Love
Nice fantasy there
>>17247187
It didn't work out, did it?
>>17247192
If you're who I think you are, then log into Skype
>>17247051
All depends on the girl. This one prostitute liked it when I shanked her in the liver. Liked it so much she didn't even charge me for the session, so I just left.
All women want to be dominated during sex, it's a primal urge that's been rooted in their brain for millions of years and you have to satisfy it.
The ones that don't like it are either traumatized from an actual rape or child abuse, but you shouldn't be dating either of those.
>>17247214
>>17247064 here. What if I'm totally uninterested on dominating?
>>17247223
Then you have to become interested, if you don't sexually and psychologically satisfy a woman, she will leave you for one reason or another.
Don't mix violent with dominant, you don't have to smack her face or cause pain. Women want to feel helpless, holding her hands behind her back while you kiss her neck/touch her pussy with your other hand.
Or using your bodyweight to immobilize her during prone bone - this is what makes women really enjoy sex.
Its not about causing pain or being violent - its about taking power away from her and giving it to yourself. Once you become more experienced and learn what a specific girl likes you can experiment with light pain here and there, but it takes time to learn what kind of pain and how much pain they like.
>>17247293
Reading what you had to say was more than enough to make my heart clench. The sole reason I've done a bit of that is because they enjoy it, not because I do. And I do have a feeling one of the reasons my ex used to break up with me so often was because I probably lacked on the sex department.
It's heartbreaking honestly and it makes me feel like I gotta do something I'm not apt for.
>>17247314
Don't lose hope, if you are a proud owner of an X and a Y chromosome you have it in you. Do you get enjoyment out of pleasing a woman sexually? Probably yes, I don't see why you can't make it happen then.
>>17247434
I like pleasing women sexually. I don't like feeling like I'm treating them badly, though. Even if they get pleasure from that.
>>17247440
You look at it from a wrong perspective. You are not threating them badly. It's actually not about being dominant. It's abouz being assertive and owning up to your desire. You see, we all want to feel wanted. And if you can make her feel like you "need her right now, right here and like that", it makes her feel desired, that's what it is about. The state a guy can get in where he is overwhelmed by his hornynes and just NEEDS you. THAT's insanely hot. It's the same the other way around. You wouldn't mind your gf pushing you down on the bed, climbing on top of you, ripping your pants off and moaning like crazy as she sits on top of your cock and grinds herself to orgasm, don't you? That's the kind of assertivenes girls like. It's not (always) about pulling hair or choking. And i'm pretty sure you have the passion this kind of sex requires in you.
>>17247453
If you're talking about desiring my partner and making her feel desired? I... yeah, I think I can do that, and after all it's not like you can't get more passionate after a while and then there's a point where you don't think anymore.
The issue is that I have a harder time asserting myself than to let the girl assert herself. It's more difficult for me to say "hey, yes, I desire you" unless I'm so horny I cannot stand it anymore. In my last relationship I basically had no idea about anything so I just acted on what little I knew and what she had taught me, but sadly, it wasn't enjoyable for her. I could feel it.
>>17247434
This picture is gross. Sorry just can't stop thinking of "a cow is in bed with me"
>>17247485
Being assertive and owning your desire requires confidence. Taking charge in bed requires you to be sure about your partner "wanting to be wanted by you". Iow you need to feel desireable to make someone feel truly wanted
>>17247499
I don't know familia the body is pretty hot
>>17247509
That's an interesting way to view it. I'll chew it in my mind.
I will go have some sleep for now, but, thank you for your words, they're valuable.
>>17247519
Good night, anon
>>17247051
The latter but it depends on the girl.
