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2016-06-11 02:37:56 Post No. 17242865
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2016-06-11 02:37:56
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I need some help with myself and the way I think. I've tried this before, but people usually just say "grow up" or "you're being a faggot" I know these both to be true but I want advice to help me get over it and methods to train myself to think better.
>have gf of 4 years
>she has always been the most loving person to me
>I still get jealous whenever she is having fun with someone else (her friends)
>It's a controlling feeling projected by my fears of her realizing other people are more fun
>logically this doesn't makes sense because she shares almost all of her life with me, but I have insecurities
>I've tried my hardest and practiced methods to being okay with her having fun without me but I cant ovecome this jealousy of her growing as a person without me
>I don't have many opportunities to work on myself and grow as an individual because of work and finishing up college, on top of other errands and such.
What can I do to help myself understand that I am who she wants forever and the fun she is having is not a deal about I love her more then she loves me. She is very reassuring and always lets me know that she wishes I was the one she is with doing the activities, but I'm fucked up in the head. How can I help myself? Thank you.