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2016-06-10 01:43:22 Post No. 17239401
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2016-06-10 01:43:22
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Hello I'm a 24-year-old-female anon and I'm in a 2 year LDR with someone who lives on the other side of the USA. (2,000+ mile difference). I just have some bad thoughts I want to write about. Maybe you guys can give a fresh pair of eyes on the situation.
We've never met. I'm a virgin. He's a virgin. I'm the first girlfriend he's had, but, he isn't my first boyfriend. I had 3 in real life ones: they were all during high school. All used me in some way. None loved me. It was all just dumb high school shit. My first boyfriend ever actually raped me (it took me many years to realize it, and after asking many people's opinion, and by that time I had already gotten over it). He made me do oral sex on him and I repeatedly told him no (as I had been saying for several days prior) but he still forced it into my mouth.
So the point is, I've never had a boy love me before. I've never been held gently. I've never been cuddled. I don't get hugged by anyone. Unfortunately I am extremely cuddly, touchy, and affectionate, and having a LDR relationship makes that even more difficult.
So my boyfriend is on a vacation, and even though he's been keeping me updated on all the cool stuff he's doing, I haven't felt farther from him in a long time. Every day I come home, I think, I'm still alone. I have urges to break up. From time to time I think of past crushes and cuddling them. I have a past of trying to "escape" from my boyfriend because I felt so unsatisfied/unhappy. In fact I have even emotionally cheated on my boyfriend: on a few occasions I hung out alone with crushes and I actually got hugged and that was the extent of it. Physically it wasn't cheating but emotionally it was.
It's bad to think like that when everything is practically going excellent in my relationship, but I still feel so alone
tl;dr: don't do online or long-distance relationships kids