>>17238575
Get good at putting it on without having to stop everything.

Keep sucking on her breasts, eating her out, etc. It's not too difficult.

>Get the thinnest condom you an find
>Keep it in your hand a while so it's warm
>Put a drop of lube on the INSIDE
>Ask HER to put it on for you

>>17238575
get properly fitting condoms.

>>17238580
I only get hard by being blown. I've fingered girls all the way to orgasm while my D stays soft.

>>17238581
Hey, good idea. Girl I'm currently with is very shy, so it'll be a kick trying to get her to do that.

>>17238584
Does this mean they're too small? Big? I'm probably average or slightly below. I don't even want to measure to find out the truth.

>>17238591
>I only get hard by being blown.

Wow, you've got way bigger problems, bro. You masturbate way too much and too hard. Failing that, possible mild ED or anxiety that you can't get it up. Figure that shit out, because that's not good or normal.

>>17238575

It just takes time to get used to performing the admittedly awkward task of unrolling a lubed-up balloon down your dick, while in the presence of a woman you're attracted to.

I had issues at first. For me, it was mostly about becoming more comfortable with the whole having-sex thing (which, for something so fun, has an absurd number of social pressures attached to it), partly about getting the right size condom, and partly about giving myself a shot of fantasy to stay in the mood. So for example, while rolling it on, I make an extra effort to connect with the feeling that I'm selfishly corrupting an innocent girl, which is the sort of thing that gets me going.

>>17238604
I've always had this problem, unfortunately. I only masturbate a few times a week at the most, and sometimes even abstain for 1 week for no reason at all. I've also got clinical premature ejaculation, life is truly suffering

>>17238575
Have her put it on. Make it part of the foreplay.

>>17238622
>putting on a rubber barrier to ensure your semen does not enter her
>corrupting her

>>17238692

I said it was a shot of fantasy. And anyway, sometimes she's tied to the bed, sometimes I'm taking her up the ass, and sometimes both, so...

>>17238591
condoms that are too tight will affect blood flow. too loose and it could slip off. you should look up a condom sizing chart or something similar.

you can be soft while giving foreplay. who the fuck is hard as diamonds while eating a girl out? that doesn't mean you're not aroused or having fun, it just means you're not erect.

do you have issues reaching orgasm during sex/foreplay? maybe you just deathgripped the feeling out of your penis and the rubber is the nail in the coffin.

>>17238622
>>17238704
Gotta love those girls who are innocent/shy in bed but you know they LOVE it.

>>17238717
Not at all. I'm actually premature. I can never bang a girl for hard or long. Sex is only partially pleasurable because the overwhelming feelings of inadequacy make me unable to fully immerse myself.

>>17238762
you gotta get out of your own head.

i used to have issues with going soft but that's normal. i had started a new relationship and i naturally put a lot of pressure on myself to "perform" and to make things enjoyable for her. it happens to a lot of guys. no need to take it so personally.

i also have issues with PE. it gets better with practice and some mindfulness. thankfully my gf is very understanding of the PE. i just slip off the rubber and grab another one if i cum a little bit (to avoid spillage).

it's strange. i've had occasions where i can fuck for a long time. i haven't been able to pinpoint exactly what the reasoning is but my gf is always pleasantly surprised when it occurs i think it was just me thinking a little less. the anxiety and feelings of insecurity/inadequacy are just in my head and when i choose to ignore it i usually do a lot better. i put more attention on her and my breathing and less attention is spent on myself and my perceived issues.

take breaks while fucking when you get close. use this as an opportunity to change positions, kiss, some oral (giving or receiving). don't be afraid to slow down. you don't have to be fucking hard and fast all the time.

>>17238623
>only few times a week
Masturbation is not some kind of workout. You don't do it _ever_ if you (want to) have sex with a partner. Same with porn.

Get a flavored condom. Put it on before she goes down on you. Problem solved.

>>17238791
Same here, there's random (though very rare) times when I can go for longer. I do take breaks, but the problem is I have to every few seconds. Even if I stopped for a minute, it'd only mean I can go for 10 seconds straight instead. It's that bad.

>>17238804
That's very arguable anon.

>>17238912
I always wondered how those were. They probably aren't that pleasant either way.

>>17238762
Sounds like everything is in your head.

Try doing kegels, its a good way to control that

>>17238935
Been doing Kegels for three years m8, also practice the start and stop method and squeezing the frenulum. No matter what, I can never go more than 10 seconds straight (regardless of how long my breaks are). Fapping beforehand has no effect either. I'm broken.