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2016-06-09 20:11:02 Post No. 17238299
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2016-06-09 20:11:02
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ITT clingy girlfriend
I'm used to relationships where I'm the center of the world, pretty much. My past relationships, I always came first, they always wanted to be with me, they always wanted me around, they talked to me everyday, they would even get moody if I didn't say anything. If friends were around, they would involve me too, or if they would go out with their friends, they would tell me so. It's not like I demanded to know where they were at, it just naturally happened, like "hey tonight I'm going out drinking with my buddies see ya tomorrow", messages like that.
In this relationship, I'm obviously the last priority. He talks to me when no one is and he's bored as fuck. He comes saying "amg no one's up everyone is at work or sleeping I'm so damn bored". I send him messages (usually questions), he doesn't reply. Once his friends are up, then it's over. We won't be talking of the day at all, or maybe even the week if I'm that unlucky. Hell, it's his friends who tell me news from him (ex : "hey you must be happy that your bf is back home :D oh what you didn't know he was back from his trip? hahahaha that's so funny :D")
How do I deal with this? I understand that his friends are important, especially since it distracts him from cutting himself, but this is the first time where as a romantic interest, I come in last, and that much. If he didn't confess about his problems to me, that I know he doesn't talk to anyone else, I would think that I'm just an acquaintance. I feel like I'm that person you talk to when there's no one else and there's nothing on TV. And no, I got nothing against his friends; I'm friendly with them, they are even the ones who usually ask me to tag along with them, and when I do, my boyfriend barely chats with me. His best friend is a good friend with me, and I either just hang out with him alone, leaving my bf with their other friends, or I just leave because I feel like I'm in the way since my bf wants friend's attention.
