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How do you substitute romantic relationships when prostitution/casual sex/just having really close friends is not an option?
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>>17228241
masturbation
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>>17228241
lots of masturbation
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>>17228244
>>17228246
No can do for the same reasons as no prostitution/casual sex. I can only make love to someone I love and I fucking hate myself.
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You don't.

You either are getting the real thing or living a life of constant denial.

The latter is for pansies who are afraid of getting their feelings hurt. Just put yourself out there, bro. There ain't no gain without pain.
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>>17228257
Inbf b4, but I'm an unpassing, pre-everything gay transsexual.

Should I try to keep chasing normal gays in vain, or do I pick up someone who's straight and just hide the whole trans thing entirely?

I don't think I'd be able to enjoy love or sex from someone who sees me as the wrong gender.

Do you think it'd do?
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>>17228260
*inb4 b8, excuse my english I am russia
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>>17228260
>I'm an unpassing, pre-everything gay transsexual
Irrelevant. There are always people out there interested in that sort of thing.

>Should I try to keep chasing normal gays in vain, or do I pick up someone who's straight and just hide the whole trans thing entirely?
Don't specifically go after normal gays, but don't rule them out either. And DO NOT hide the trans thing from anyone you're interested in, because it only makes things easy for your short-term. Long-term, no.

You need to seek out people on the internet over various dating sites. Trans people always have an easier time on the internet versus real life.
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womemes are a meme and sex is actually incredibly disgusting if you think about it.

Become the ascetic!
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>>17228283
I've already tried the internet. I'm on tinder, grindr, okcupid, reddit and tumblr and there's fucking nothing.
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>>17228288
Disregard that, I see you are a deviant. Your only option is to die at 30 from chronic AIDS after getting snatched up by a jewish prostitution and pornography ring.
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>>17228260
Fuck gender. You're a person, not a gender.
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>>17228292
No one has responded to you at all? Have you actually tried any of the trans dating websites?
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>>17228260
You are in a challenging position to be sure. Do you have access to a mental health professional so you can work on liking yourself during the long process of transitioning? I think that should be a priority. Other than that, all you can do is be honest about who you are and what you are experiencing. Don't pretend to be a gender you're not, that will be so damaging in the long run. There are gay men out there who are ok with a vagina on the right guy! That said, you really need to be in a better place before you put yourself out there, and the inevitable rejection you'll experience through dating will be so devastating if you can't love yourself.
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>>17228251
Could you learn to love a blowup doll?
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>>17228298
False. If gender didn't matter, nobody would date the opposite sex.

>>17228307
Haven't heard of them.

What are my chances of finding someone normal there?

>>17228310
The mental ward is an enemy, not a friend here. I need a pristine mental record to be allowed to transition, so I can't afford to show any weakness before I'm safely on hormones.

>>17228326
I have a vibrator. It doesn't help.
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>>17228487
>If gender didn't matter, nobody would date the opposite sex.
You're drunk. Go to bed.
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>>17228494
I'm at work and I mean it.
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