>work part time in a restaurant/cafe
>we also supply food to a bar just down the road
>often have to deliver food to the bar
>really cute girl, who also lives with a friend of mine, works at the bar
>make her laugh every time i go in there, starting to know her more
>she asks for a dish for herself that we don't sell and i go out of my way to make it for her
>she touches me quite a lot today (shoulder/arms), makes lots of eye contact and stands very close when talking to me
should i just ask her out or is she just being "work friendly"?
>>17228017
if someone touches me they are not being work friendly(for instance, the barista doesn't touch you, just flirts).
I'd say she's either into you or using you.Either way you can probably get with her.
Go for it. You'll never really know until you do. Touch that she's a bartender though, she literally flirts all day to get tips. Like, that's her job.
I'd say 50/50 with just going on what you wrote. Better odds than most.
I touch my dog but I don't want to have sex with it.
>>17228024
>>17228023
im pretty good friends with her housemate and i'm hanging out with him this week, how should/can i take this further?
i feel somewhat uncomfortable approaching her at work tbqh
>>17228030
Okay
Does she know that you're friends with her flat mate?
If so, have either of you acknowledged the fact?
If not, use it for what it's worth
>hey btw, who're the girl living with anon, right?
>sure
>we should hang out some time, go for some drinks, lemme grab your number real quick
If yes, just idk, unfuck your uncomfortability and just ask if she wants to grab some drinks after work one day. You're not really a stranger to her, so just act like it's the most natural thing to do when you're both people and you both like each other enough to touch and think about each other. Be charming! I hate myself it's 3.30 am and I'm amazed this thread is still alive.
>>17228432
yeah she does know, I didn't realise who she was at first when I first met her at the bar but then was in her house one day and met her again/made the connection
>>17228457
So next time she touches you, touch her back (literarily), smile, look her in the eyes and say 'alright, so when can I pick you up?'
Wait for her reaction.
If bad, laugh and say 'relax, I'm joking.'
If good, words these are obviously words I'm putting into sentences when I should be sleeping.
In both cases, leave smiling soon after.
Bonus: turn around before you exit the door and say '8 o'clock?' loud enough that people will hear. She'll be positively embarrassed.
Easy as banana pun.
>>17228475
gonna find out if she's single from her flatmate and then execute this plan, thanks anon
