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My gf had a mmf threeway before she met me. She was in an abusive relationship and her bf at the time made her do it, according to her. It bothers me to this day that she was also a bit slutty. She's changed and says she regrets that life she had. Any advice to get rid of my constant feeling of anger and disgust I have about her past life?
How long have you been together?
Easy, kill yourself OP. You are the one with the problem.
>he made me do it!
>ok, maybe I was a bit slutty but I've changed for you!
>I only love you anon, he's just a friend
LMAAAAAO bro, never trust a roastie
how many guys she fucked
>>17227239
I'm not sure less than ten I believe but she's posted some slutty pics and sexted a lot.
>>17227218
Over a year
>>17227221
I've heard that can you expand on this?
>>17227229
Is this common
>>17227259
>Is this common
Extremely. Get ready for her to fuck someone else and claim she was drunk (if she hasn't already)
>>17227263
I don't want to condone prettying up your past antics and avoiding personal responsibility in the meantime, but realize that part of the reason why girls pull this shit is because guys act like if they do sexual things because it gives them pleasure and makes them feel desirable and alive, that means they are trash to be shunned. So if you want to fess up but not be seen as a shitty person you can come up with this story about how you did it but it does not relate to your personal choices at all.
Just break up with her. Arguments and not seeing eye to eye in a relationship, sure. Disgust has no place in a relationship with someone you love, especially in the middle of your supposed honeymoon phase. There are plenty of girls who have not done something like this, and plenty of guys who would not care to know what she did in her past. It's just all around better.
>>17227263
I'm afraid of this
>>17227279
This helped me a lot more than anything I've read
>>17227206
You are better off dumping her, what she told you will always remain in the back of your head, nagging at you.
Why would she even tell you this? Did the boyfriend force her by gunpoint or forcefully drug her then hadall her holes creamed? If so then there is some leeway. However I'm sure she wanted the Ds at the time and now she referred it then blames the "abusive boyfriend"
Remember that there are always 2 sides to a story.
>>17228422
No referred, I meant regretted.
>>17228422
I always wonder if she wanted it. She said he took her home and she was disgusted the whole ride home. And I asked about her history. I asked for a lot of details because I was obsessed with avoiding being a cuck. I learned a lot of details which make me insecure.
>>17227206
>My gf had a mmf threeway before she met me
lol
>>17228545
If you didn't want to know, you shouldn't have asked.
Now you can't live with yourself.
>>17228545
Listen, man. I understand what you mean- I was trying to get back with my ex not too long ago until she told me she fucked more than 10 guys. Now, I wouldn't be too upset about this shit, if she wouldn't have fucked them when she was in High School- in one year. Any who, your girl was obviously willing. Think of it this way; your girlfriend simply wanted some more dick, because I guess her ex couldn't give her all that pleasure, so she wanted more- instead of her ex getting cheated on, he decided to cuck himself by having a 3 way with another dude. In the end, your girlfriend felt ashamed, but obviously liked it. Maybe your ex broke up with her because he couldn't live knowing that his grill was seeking other guy's dicks. Or, maybe she left him because she wanted to hopefully try this shit again with another victim. In the end, your girl wasn't raped, she wasn't forced into anything. As much as I hate dissing women; most women tend to be huge liars, or low-key whores. It's not your fault for all of this, but it will be if you choose to stay with her.
In my personal opinion; women like that can't be trusted- no matter what. First it's one cock, then it's a flock.
>>17228556
With?
>>17228575
Yeah I don't regret asking I don't want to be the idiot who doesn't know
>>17228588
Idk if she liked it i know she was all about that party life which fucks me since im not that type. She's saying shes excited to turn 21 in a few days since she'll be able to go to clubs with her cousin and also with me. Worries the shit outh of me but if we break up I'm worried about what she'd do to me or herself
>>17228556
I meant to ask what you meant
>>17228664
Drop that shit now, OP she's not going to go with you and will end up doing something she regrets. I'm the same way as you in that I don't club or party and it's not worth that fear and anxiety that she could be not holding up her end of the bargain by remaining faithful
OP you will get answers from a bunch of jealous, virgin cucks.
Do you believe her when she says she'll be faithful? That's all that matters. Don't think that every single girl falls into a specific category based on what they may have done in the past.
And if she cheats on you, cut contact with her and move on to the next girl. No big deal
>>17228664
OP, if she's not willing to give up the party life-style for you, or at least give it a rest, drop her like a rock. You don't need that anxiety shit in your life.
I don't understand what the problem is. If she has genuinely changed then why hold it against her? It's your problem not hers. Do you watch porn? What if she found out about all the dodgy porn you watch and didn't want to be with you anymore? Are you perfect? Hypocrite.
>>17228978
>everyone is equally bad so anyone with any standards must be a hypocrite
>>17228741
>jealous of a guy with a gross gf
>not having a gross gf makes you a cuck
Kek. OP, don't listen to these anons. They probably have a promiscuous past or have a partner with one, so it's understandable that posts like these trigger them.
You can easily find a girl who hasn't had a threesome, doesn't party, and who has a low partner count. Don't waste your time with girls like your girlfriend. Find someone compatible with the same type of past and values as yourself.
