>>17226527
Yup. I just fap to Facebook threads on /b/ now.

>>17226527
>>17226530
You're getting numbed and desensitized after too much of it. The same happens if you take too much of any drug.

If you want to "go back", you have to stop jerking off or at least cut down on it. Switch to less intense porn if you have to do it. You might want to check out yourbrainonporn.com

I quit watching because I found my tastes getting more and more specific.

It's easy to forget that there's a real world out there. It's easy to get too consumed with the virtual one.

>>17226527
Maybe this is related to this issue, but I find it very hard for my bf to
Immerse himself
In " real world" sex.
He always seems to be finding something small to get hung up about during sex and cant seem to relax. I can feel his expectations heavy in the air when we fuck and if one thing doesnt seem up to porn fantasy standards he loses it....
Is this relared to porn watching?

>>17226540

>encouraging people to remain dependent on porn

Absolutely disgusting

>>17226571
Most likely caused my too much pornography.

>>17226573
Are you actually retarded or just pretending?
If anything, I encouraged OP to reduce his porn consumption and linked to a website that can help him do that.

>>17226527
>Has this happened to any one of you guys?
Yes, only my fetishes (all very vanilla) arouse me. It's because you understand that the majority of porn is staged and dishonest.

Same here.
I developed more and more extreme fetishes up to a point where i couldnt find the extreme things i had in mind anymore, it has all gotten boring.

Then i switched to more softporn, erotic pictures and literotica. They aroused me much more. I found that the most important thing is often the story behind the sex. At some point i only watched the beginning of milf porns.

Finally now, i dont wank at all and it feels the best. Last two days i started wanking and watching porn again, but it felt so incredibly bad, that im happy to have ended it again. I watched porns of my old fetishes and i felt nothing... i just felt overall bad in my body. Maybe you come to that stage once too.

>>17226571

Not necessarily related to porn, but that might be one of the causes.

Sex is just as much a mental exercise for men as it is for women. Sure, when you're really young and virginal just seeing the curve of a nice calf might give you a raging boner but as you get older and especially as you get more used to a single lover that giddy excitement isn't there anymore.

There's no reason to be upset or hung up on that - there are some people who "chase the butterflies" and constantly sleep/date around to get that feeling back and it's literally the same as drug addiction due to the chemical reactions in your brain - you'd just be chasing the high.

That being said, your boyfriend might also have the problem of being too focused on the orgasm and wanting to achieve it. I've done it too - like there's always something that I focus on (a mental image of an upskirt of my gf or my gf splayed open against a wall or something) when I want to get that building climax sensation.

Other times I just get really into the entire love-making session itself and I'd rather not orgasm to make it last longer, but I'm so horny that it comes inevitably when I'm plowing the shit out of her. I feel like this usually happens when she's wearing something I really like, it's been a while since we had sex, or she's putting in extra effort to be a sexy minx.

All in all... it's complicated. It's also not an easy subject to talk about because you can definitely end up killing the vibe. As an initial step, I'd suggest just trying different things and keep track of what seems to work better, then draw a conclusion from that. If it's a total cluster and you can't find a way forward, then it might be time to have a conversation with him.

>>17226571
>porn fantasy standards
>related to porn watching
Obviously. You answered your own question essentially.