Me and my 7 months girlfriend haven't had sex yet...after 7 months. We are both 26.
FML
Will give all non-identifiable details in trade for good advice
Is she a virgin? Are you? Does she have a reason? Religion, wanting to wait till marriage? Have you talked about it? Did she told you no? Did you ask why? What was her answer?
Come on dude...
>>17223501
Neither of us is a virgin. We have oral sex with each other soo there are no religious motivations behind anything.
I know that she has a complandescent himen or something that hurts her every time like it was the first time. We talked about it but months have passed and nothing changed.
>>17223451
> le sex obsession meme
If you wanna fuck, then fuck you idiot
>>17223533
I wanna fuck and I guess she whants too...but guess what it hurts her a LOT
>>17223525
If there is a medical problem she needs to find a solution and atleast TALK to you about it... Does she expect you to just go withiut sex forever? Does she hope the problem takes care of itself?
>>17223451
>>17223451
okay, listen up. you start with some smooth background music with a repetitive beat (chill electronic music, liquid dnb, chillstep, downtempo, minimal, something that you both like).
drink some fine booze, like some classy wine/champagne. still alcohol is better, it won't get her the burps, she'll feel more comfortable. any basic vodka mix will do the thing, go for strawberry syrup or something like that, women like sugary shit with vodka.
get massage oil beforehand, and start undressing her, just tell her that you're going to give her a relaxing massage. don't oil her up yet, after you undressed her, let her lie on her tummy on the bed. start with small kisses on her neck, and wander down through her spine, all the way down to her legs. that'll make her wet, i guarantee it.
now after she's all spiced up, blow some of that oil on, and give her a good massage. do it slow. set your mind like you're on a trip, walking through all her curves. explore her body with your hands. don't ask if you're doing good, just try to watch her reactions. i'm pressuring the thing, do it SLOW. you'll be hard as rock by this time probably, but don't let your instincts take over. follow the same pattern, start from up her new down to her legs. once you're down at her calves, start slowly going up to her butt. massage her thighs with slow motions, but start going in the direction of her pussy. take a good five minutes with exploring her downs, but don't touch her pussy yet. she'll be wanting you to fuck her like a mad man by that time.
once you've got the feel to it, you just need to watch and listen to all her reactions, and you're good to go.
she's been waiting for 7 months for you to make a move, you basically can't fuck it up at this point.
just take your time for a good, long foreplay to get her fired up good.
>>17223535
Stick it in her ass
>>17223552
thanks for the very detailed plan...but I have made her come numerous times (doing thigs like that maybe) going down on her ok. We have oral sex, and after 7 months of nothing else let's say I got quite good at it....I just never had the pleasure of penetrating her, and that's messing with my mind.
Stll... great advice
>>17223559
Well, that's an idea... how do I introduce that to her. We never talked about it
>>17223566
from what you've told so far, she's afraid of penetration because of bad experiences/the fear of pain. you just need to get the right setting, so she can let those thoughts go. it may sound like a fucking twilight drama, but good sex should be done without thinking, just connecting your minds and bodies. alcohol can give it a push, but it's not necessary. one of my ex gfs had some pretty bad experiences with forced sex from her past, and we had a similar problem. after a few similar nights, she was almost like a nymphomaniac.
>>17223566
also oral sex. if she's up to that, try various positions to lick her. from my experiences, women go crazy from licking their pussies in doggy position for example.
>>17223525
First off, you really should understand her fear. "or something" doesn't sound very caring.
I guess what you mean is a 'Complacent (or dilatable) Hymen'. Basically a hymen that does not break from normal sex. The easy solution is have it surgically removed, a very simple procedure. But you'll have to discuss this with her.
(There is also a condition call 'female genital prolapse', sometimes referred to as decent hymen. The can be serious, if this is the condition she should be under medical care.)