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Should I get over it?
2016-06-05 04:41:31 Post No. 17221451
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Should I get over it?
Anonymous
2016-06-05 04:41:31
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Meet a guy online, talk to him for a month and we live about 1 hour away from each other. Finally decide to go out on a date, it goes really well. He's very sweet to me, we have a lot of fun, he's paying for everything. After this we follow up with 4 more dates, basically weekly, either me driving to his side of town or him coming to mine. Eventually we have sex, amazing chemistry, a lot of fun on the dates, he pays for everything, invites me to stay over a few nights on the days I'm on his side of town (only do this once). Blah blah blah. So from what he's told me he has a history previously with a very upsetting break up and he's been diagnosed bipolar. So he told me early on he was nervous about dating again, but things seemed to be getting so great and I was really excited. After our last date (5th date, second time we had sex, I stayed the night at his house) I sent him a text the following day telling him that I was really happy to be spending time with him and I was looking forward to what things hold for us. This scared him because it was too serious, but I felt upset because after all the intimacy we shared and how into each other we seemed, it only felt natural to express my excitement for a potential relationship. He abruptly told me he things we should "take a break" and hasn't talked to me since, except when I sent him a message telling him I respect his wishes and hope if he ever wants to continue anything to let me know. Now it's been nearly a month and I can't stop thinking about him. I want to send him a message but I don't know what to say. Even if he doesn't want a relationship I'd still like talk to him, I feel like things stopped so abruptly and didn't get any answers. I know he's stubborn and might just not want to talk to me at all, but I still had a really great time with him. Maybe I want closure? Should I try harder to move on or try to find out what's going on? The sex was amazing and we had such a nice time together/a lot of interests.
