>can't do that to someone online
Why the hell not?? It seems like both of you love each other a whole lot!

>>17220221
>>17220234
Love is a strong word for this situation...

>>17220221
This is not a good idea unless you two are able to meet in real world (aka in person).

She will see you most likely as some nice daily distraction and this will end terribly for you in the long run.

Either ensure contact in person, or cut off the "love" part. Otherwise you will end up in LDR (long distance relationship) and it will inevitably fail horribly.

>leddit

surprised the first two comments weren't telling to fuck off desu.

if you really feel the need to break away from this, then do something else. find a hobby, or friends, or places, or just something that makes you feel content that isn't THE BIG OL PUSSYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY.~

but desu it does sound like you're in love with her. that, by itself, is actually fine. if you're willing to take the risk of being shanked by a 40-year old in a bad tracksuit and/or the risk of a long distance relationship (of which there is, what, a 15% chance of it actually working at best? no matter who the hell it is), then go for it senpai

I'm taking a shit while I respond via mobile, and will continue my post until I'm done in the bathroom 2bh.

Anyways I think in a case like this there's no rush, simply get to know them better and enjoy the time. You'll have to start making decisions evebtually but for now I'd just keep interacting with them because you enjoy to do so. There's nothing necessarily stopping you from having a long distance relationship, and they do work out in some instances, so why not take the chance? Not like you have much else going on at the moment.

Right, tata then!

>>17220236
>>17220257
>>17220268

i didnt say that i love her. i think the problem is that we're just talking a lot and since ive never had any kind of relationship before, i think that talking casually means something more than it is

it isnt like i dream about her, or think about her all day long, or prioritize her over real life stuff

Is this kind of like what happens with people in online relationships? Those are a pretty regular thing nowadays aren't they?

OP listen to me, I'm only a couple years older than you but I've been there, the whole internet deal.
>meet girl online, lives far away
>start dating, start visiting her
>this goes on for 4 years
>on a good year, we were able to spend maybe 3 weeks together
>on a bad, busy/broke year, maybe a week together
>out of the whole year

the biggest thing I want to put out here is that it took me 4 years to realize we just weren't made for each other because of the distance. We texted all the time, we spoke and skyped daily, we cammed, we had phone sex, etc etc, but none of that is a real match for companionship.

A very simple scenario I can give you to showcase how this online relationship is just not the same as an in-person relationship is this:

Day in the life of an online relationship: When you are home, you can do whatever you want. Maybe you are watching netflix, or playing a game, or just browsing the internet, and all the while you are texting/skyping/messaging your gf. If you are tired, you text her good night and go to sleep. If you want to do something with your bros, or you want to play a video game or whatever at home, you let your gf know via text that you'll be busy, and then you go do it, and when you are done you check back in.

Day in the life of an in person relationship: Specially if you live together, if you are home, you can only do what the other person approves of. Porn? probably not. Video games more than 1 hour? Problably not. If you negotiate maybe she'll let you binge on your vices, but the big thing is that if the both of you are together at home, then you should be doing things together, otherwise the other person gets bored, grows recentful of your lack of interest in her, etc etc. Wanna go out with your bros? Sure, if your gf has class or is working, but if she's free then it probably won't happen as she wants to spend time together. Sure she can come, but your bros cannot be themselves with a girl around.

DON'T DO IT,

>>17220419
I don't quite understand your last piece about comparing online and in person relationship. I know that this is just an online thing and is completely different from something in person

I don't want this to become any kind of online long distance relationship, and it isn't going to. We still go about our daily lives like normal

And yes the skyping and phone sex and calming is all in one. We do it all on cam on slype

Anyone else able to give advice?

>>17220221
How long have you guys been talking/known each other?

What subreddit did you use to meet your waifu?

I think you should stop talking to her every day and get out of the house.

I had a ldr before. After a year of talking and skyping every night, we decided it was time to finally meet and shit. We had a 3 year relationship but it ended not bec of the distance but bec of something else. Idk it sounds like you both like each other a lot. I suggest just continue with it but just in case something happens (maybe one day she will not go online and you both lose contact of each other or smthng), prepare yourself. If you feel like you really want this chick and pursue an actual relationship with her, maybe you both can meet in person. Everything is about taking risks tbqh. If it works out, great! If not, move on. But dont regret bec at some point, you've wanted it.

>>17221332
We've talked on kik for like 2 months, and we've gone on skype 3 times within the past week (for a total of 10 hours overnight)

>>17221341
>What subreddit did you use to meet your waifu?

Dirtykikpals, basically just a sexting subreddit. But it quickly turned from just sexting to conversations with dirtyness mixed in

>I think you should stop talking to her every day and get out of the house.

I do leave the house, and have a job. But I'm a friendless autistic shutin otherwise.

>>17221351
She is saying how she wants to meet in person (other side of the country but she might be coming here during the summer sometime) but I am really scared of meeting, because she would see how much of a fucking loser I am, and I know my autism would rruin everytihng

>>17221381
I know it's very cringey to hear this but you just have to be yourself around her (and perhaps improve yourself). If she really likes you and really into you, she would accept and still want you no matter how much of a loser or autistic you are. If not, tough shit and move on. First meetings are always kinda awkward but that's totally okay. You gotta take risks if you want this thing to work out. You'll be fine, son.

>>17220221
don't do it unles you have the chance to meet her irl soon enough.

>>17221466
>you just have to be yourself around her (and perhaps improve yourself)

That's exactly what I do, and that's what she likes. It's why she wants to talk to me on Skype for 4 hours.

What I'm talking about is that I'm a friendless loser. She can like me all she wants, but I imagine if we meet and she sees that I'm a social life less loser shut in she would drop me quicker than anything

>>17221520
She doesn't know that you're friendless? Maybe mention that when you talk again about meeting irl. Have a "real talk" with her. If she thinks that's weird and drops you, I guess it's better she drop you now than later.

>>17221535
I dunno, I mean she already knows how weird I am (she actually likes that) and was even able to tell I was an only child right off the bat (bad sign) yet she still talks to me

She might already assume I have no friends/virgin but just doesn't want to say anything

>>17221555
So you're just assuming that she knows you're a friendless loser. You might want to make it clear for her. That will give you peace of mind bec it seems like this is the only thing that bothers you. To be sure that she's okay with it, you might want to tell her directly. Sounds like she's a cool chick who's okay with your weirdness anyway.

>>17221660
The friendless loser part really is only
What scares me about an IRL meetup. Friendlessness is what has made me never ask out a girl in my life

The main point of my post is that I feel really pathetic for talking so much with s girl online

>>17221747
I know the feeling. I have friends irl but we don't really see or talk to each other all the time. I talk to a lot of people online(we even cybersex sometimes lmao), as well but they come and go. I feel kinda pathetic sometimes but whatever. Once the new semester starts, I'm gonna be busy again and will probably not talk much to people online.

You'll be fine, famalam. I really hope this one will work out for you.

>>17220221
Just fucking ask her out. Spill spaghetti if you have to, just make your feelings clear and dont be ashamed or apologetic about them.
If she really likes you she will say ya. If she says no then dont sweat it.

>>17220419
Same deal here except for two and a half years, even talked about marriage. Listen to him, he is an internet sage. Don't do it, it'll blow up in your face.