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TL;DR: How to move on
2016-06-04 10:55:40 Post No. 17218559
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TL;DR: How to move on
Anonymous
2016-06-04 10:55:40
Post No. 17218559
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Hello /adv/. I already posted a little bit of the story on the get it off your chest thread but this is getting out of hand and I'm freaking out because I don't know what to do or feel in this type of things.
Around two months ago I broke up with my first gf, we only lasted for about 3 months because she wasn't in love with me and both of us felt like it was a waste of time being together as we started arguing a lot. Before the break up I promised her I would go to the prom party even though I didn't want to; since I paid for it I went anyways when we broke up. The day after the prom she texted me asking how was I doing after the break up (it had been a month since then). She told me that she had really not been in love since the beginning, which hurt to hear because she totally acted like she was and she had long term plans that you usually wouldn't have with someone you wouldn't be with in a long term relationship (or so I think).
A month later (this month) I thought I had finally moved on and then a friend told me that in the party, just when I left, she started dating one of my "friends" that told me that she was pretty crazy and that she wasn't worth any time among other things when we broke up. Not only it seemed hypocritical from his part but it also hurt me how she started dating a guy who she never talked to and going so easily with him.
The fact that she had quite some hook ups before and how she suddenly "fell in love" with me so quickly after ending another hook up should have been a small red flag but I was dumb and went for it anyways thinking it was going to be a long term relationship. To top it off today I dreamed again with her, this time was about having sex and about how happy we were together again even though I just wan't to move on.
Do I have a right to be angry? After so much time I should have been able to brush it off and move on but I feel like I have been backstabbed and lied somehow. Is it normal to be still mad at the situation?
