Sleep Talking
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I am an avid sleeptalker, and overall I sleep pretty poorly.
After a few particularly violent dreams I decided it would be best to record myself while sleeping, using one of those auto-mic apps.
I have been recording my sleep for the last week now, and I have a recording of my (homosexual) roommate trying to talk to me in my sleep (time code around 4AM).
To my absolute horror, I responded to the homosexual innuendos he was making, even actively participating in the conversation (I have no memory of this, only the recording).
I said some very embarrassing, very homosexual things. This is shocking to me especially because I identify as straight.
I am afraid to go to sleep while he is here. I have been awake for the last 50 hours. I do not know if he was also recording the encounter.
I am running out of options.
Please help.
Here is my plan, lmk what you think;
1. Ask roommate directly about it (he will lie, confirmed sociopath)
2. Demand he unlock and hand over his phone (at gunpoint if necessary)
3. Check texts to find who he has told about the situation.
4. Check recordings/video recordings to see if he has a record of the incident.
5. Return phone, tell him that I will out him to his friend groups if anyone hears of this.
6. Send him sound bytes of himself from our "conversation"
>>17215632
sh8 b8 m8 I r8 .8 out of 888
>>17215674
>5. Return phone, tell him that I will out him to his friend groups if anyone hears of this.
this never ends well as not only will he do the same to you but you'll be treated like shit because that's an asshole move.
>>17215632
Be careful of the secrets that you keep while talking in your sleep.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JmGMzyajA2U
>>17215727
After what he has done, how is that an asshole move? What would you do??
>>17215699
I wish it was b8 m8.
I am not going to hurt anyone. I just feel very violated and hurt. I am prescribed ambien, but I am terrified to use it now. I need to defuse this situation before something really bad happens. He asked me several times to get out of bed and come talk to him (while I was sleeping) and I have heard of people having sleep sex before, I don't want to be taken advantage of.
I know how you feel OP. I once agreed to go on a date with a girl while I was in my sleep..
I would confront your roommate, tell him that you were asleep, you don't have those feelings, and that you are upset that he took advantage of you like that. If he does it again, kick his ass.
>>17215791
I feel so powerless, like there is someone else inside me working against me.
In case anyone was wondering, this guy subleased in when one of my original roommates graduated/moved out. I did not choose to live with him. He is african american (raised in san francisco), and he has a vicious sense of entitlement.
Never live with a gay.
>>17215878
100% truth
By the time my gaydar went off, the papers were signed..
>>17215926
Why's this guy coming into your room at night? Inform him that he is not to enter your room, and trying to take advantage of what you say when you're asleep is NOT permission. Lock your door.
Call the police the next time this guy comes into your room.
Have you seen a sleep specialist about your sleep talking? (If you haven't, this would be useful if for no other reason that you have medical evidence that it happens.)
>>17215632
lock your door?
>>17215926
>By the time my gaydar went off
>>17216120
>>17216134
I replaced my doorknob with a deadbolt the day i moved in, he's not getting in. My dr suggested writing me a referral for a sleep specialist actually, I was worried about the cost but at this point I have nowhere else to go.
>>17216138
I sense.. angst? You can make a choice, but only as an individual.
>>17215632
fuck him but do it so badly that he never wants to talk to you again
>>17215674
>5. Return phone, tell him that I will out him to his friend groups if anyone hears of this.
What if he isn't in the closet, smart guy?
>>17216213
He is entirely in the closet, he hangs out with very basic university frat boys/clingers.
He even speaks differently around them. When I found he had lied about his age to me, everything started falling into place.
2 months to go I guess..
>>17216192
With what? While I am attracted to the idea of male companionship/camaraderie, sexually I just cant get hard believe me.
Though some part of me wonders if you can actually grab the second sphincter and tug it out, if I fisted him.
you is a homo now
Jesus lol people are fucking weird. OP just talk to him and express your concerns like a normal human fucking being. Sexual identity doesn't make a person bad or good. If he fucks you over however, feel free to act accordingly.
