Should I Hookup?
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Hey /adv/,
So I just got off a relationship with a girl a month ago. It was serious, but I'm already over it. However, recently a discrete "bi" kid offered to sleep with me (I'd top), I told him I'd do it but I'm having second thoughts. I thought I was bicurious, I fap to gay porn sometimes, but I can't tell if I'm nervous or if I really don't want to do it. What should I do?
>>17214546
once you go bi
you regret it till u die
think about that
>>17214546
If you have any sliver of doubt, don't do it. I don't think you should push yourself to do something new, especially if it's as personal as sex and you're nervous about it.
At least wait until the desire outweighs the fear/uncertainty. You homosexual
>>17214568
Why is that?
>>17214573
Also, rereading it again, you make sound like its a "business deal" that you'd like to get it over with. Again, I reiterate to wait until you find the right person
>>17214575
Causr you can't be straight anymore
Much easier
>>17214579
>>17214903
I think I'm going to do it cause I'll never have the chance again I don't think. If I don't do it, before I know it I'll be old and undesirable
>>17214546
do it anyways? you literally want to experiment but are afriad to do it cuz you might not like it?
you ever eat a meal you were curious about but thought it was just 'meh'.
you may not be gay you may not be bi. there is a spectrum and at best you are probably 'homo erotic' which means you get off on the idea of a gay edge but not balatant gayness.
but the worst case scenario is you have mediocre sex, and know not to do it again, and next time just have a threesome with a dude and a chick where the balls touch but not much else.
Worst comes to worst, you don't enjoy it stop part of the way through and move on with your life. Best cause scenario you find out your bi, have a good time, and open up new doors. If you think you are okay with living the rest of your life knowing you fucked a man and are okay with it even if you didn't enjoy it then go for it. If it's going to be some terrible shameful secret that'll keep you up at night then avoid it.
>>17216154
Yeah that's a very good point. I might be homoerotic though I didn't know that was a thing.
>>17216198
I mean it has to be a secret or my family and friends will move away from me. But for myself I don't think I'd be guilt ridden. It'll be fine probably even though it is a secret right?
