I've just started having sex with my bf, I tried giving him a blowjob, but he didn't cum or enjoy it. I want to improve my bj skills.
How to give the perfect blowjob?
Virgins need not post. The more cumdrinking slut you are the more respect to you. All my love goes out to sluts. Please post your experiences.
I suck my own dick and have came from it, can I throw in my two cents? Make sure your mouth is hydrated (no one wants sand paper giving them a blowjob), where the base meets the head is a very sensitive area and feels good when licked and focused on.
He'll potentially never cum from a blowjob alone and it's not your fault or a reflection of how good it is.
>>17213700
are you a girl? If you are a guy you already know what you should do
>>17213700
>How to give the perfect blowjob?
Deep throat. Always deep throat.
You start gagging? No problem, just read this shit. It's fucking Magic!
>http://lifehacker.com/5858128/shut-off-your-gag-reflex-by-squeezing-your-left-thumb
Get your hands going in there a bit too, practice getting down low, etc. Personally, I find that if the tongue is right along the bottom (basically, like your picture there) it feels the best.
He also has to tell you what particular patterns and such feel good.
My bf goes crazy when I lick the shaft while bobbing my head up and down really fast. We also found out by accident that shaking my head to make like a vibrating motion with my tongue on his dick feels good too. Pretty much the best thing you can do is show him you're into it though. Attitude matters more than anything else.
Also tease him a bit. Then it won't take as long. And don't stop bouncing your head.
Ask him what he likes and do that. It is not that difficult to figure out
>>17213700
As a dude two pieces of advice: make sure he isn't death gripping his cock when jerking off or he is never going to be able to cum, and watch the fucking teeth god damn it.
>>17213700
Don't bite - I don't know why some girls think this arouses the guy, but it just hurts (mabye some guys do get turned on by this? I dunno).
>>17213715
He said he didn't enjoty it.
>>17213784
19/f
>>17213798
Thanks, very helpful.
>>17213924
The vibrating part is very interesting, I will try this. How do you show attitude with a dick in your throat? Thank you for your answer.
>>17214174
I don't, I wouldn't want to be bitten on my junk either.
>>17214258
> How do you show attitude with a dick in your throat?
You moan. And you look into his eyes. Fuck it, might as well post a vid b/c lisa ann is the best in the business. Go to around 4:30 and pay attention to what she does.
http://www.xvideos.com/video15545533/pervcity_lisa_ann_blowjob_mature_superstar
>>17214258
>Thanks, very helpful.
No problem, I'm glad to help. Also, remember practice makes perfect. There is no shame in trying out new techniques on a dildo by yourself.
>How do you show attitude with a dick in your throat?
I personally love it when my gf moans like crazy and maintains eye contact while giving me head. And sometimes she gives me a sexy little wink while teasing before going deep, that's the fucking best!
My ex couldn't go down very far, so she'd jerk the shaft while sucking on the tip. Felt like she was sucking the whole thing that way.
Tbh though, best blowjob I had was after a great one. After I came, my ex didn't do anything but keep sucking softly and slowly. It felt so fucking amazing man, like I wish I could go back to that moment.
>I tried giving him a blowjob, but he didn't cum or enjoy it.
Wow, I can't even imagine how fucking bad you are lol. There is nothing more straight forward than that.
>>17214502
Any advice to be better? If none, just fuck off.
Don't worry. Many times is not just ur fault.
What I want to say is that he might be not enough sensitive in the penis to seriously enjoy a blow job. I never cum in bjs cuz I simply almost dont feel anything. Just with an heavy handjob I cum, after having great sex.
The point is that you have to ask him what does excite him more... If you might understand the way he masturbates himself, you can help your blowjobbing with your hands making his same movements, and holding it stronger or more softly...
It's all about right holding, position and movement of the hand/tounge
>>17213700
First of all ask him.
My bf likes when I really squeeze my mouth around his dick while moving up and down especially right before he's about to cum. I also use a lot of saliva, jerk him off and lick the head. Works every time!
>>17213700
Don't ignore the balls.
I'll get my hand REALLY sloppy wet after I've sucked him a bit, then go really slow jerking him off and licking his balls. Just really get in there and lick around. Try to suck on them, one at a time, but always...ALWAYS keep one part of your mouth (like tongue) on him at all times. Try to get both in your mouth and kinda get faster with your hand.
I cannot stress it enough to pay attention to his balls.
If he doesn't like it, or it tickles, just go as far as you can down the shaft with your tongue/mouth.
Deepthroat that shit like nobody's business.
If you can't deepthroat, suck on the tip a bit, make SURE its wet. Always work the shaft. Squeezing at different times is good for some. I had one guy who wanted me to jerk him hard, fast, and as tight as I could.
Showing attitude? Just go to town on that shit like the cock worshipping slut he fantasizes about. Moan, show him how wet your mouth is, but only very briefly.
It's an art, and every man is different, but it isn't hard to figure it out if you REALLY get into it. You'll never find out what he likes until you try it.
Make sure everything is wet.
Wetness.
Always.
I have faith in you.
Now I want to suck a dick.
>>17214598
>>17214607
Fuck! You guys are saints and I applaud you.
Do any of you dominate him using a bj? Like just take full control at that single moment?
>>17214607
such a fkin hoe, i'd fkin rape u
>The more cumdrinking slut you are the more respect to you. All my love goes out to sluts
>has a bf
youre a fucking tard op
>>17214616
Idk about "dominating using a bj" but my bf and I would just be talking in the kitchen and I'd just walk up to him, kiss and lick his neck and shove my hand down his pants. Just randomly. Always ended in a blowjob. We'd try to finish before his roomates would walk in. So fucking hot. Some dudes like that kind of thing, so you should try it.
>>17214621
Just like to please my men. But I am monogamous, though.
>>17214598
Thanks, I will try!
How strong do you sqeeze the mouth?
>>17214607
Very helpful, and detailed. Makes me want to suck one too. My bf said he isn't all that enjoying ball licking, but we were talking about it.
You're a lovely cock worshipping slut though. Thank you!
>>17214616
Never thought of it. I just want to pleasure him. How can you even dominate with a bj?
>>17214634
>Never thought of it. I just want to pleasure him. How can you even dominate with a bj?
Made me chuckle/10.
Seriously, you are holding probably his most sensitive part and prized possession in your mouth. If you want, you are physically able to bite a dick off. I think any man would be stupid to fuck with a woman when she got his dick in her mouth.
>>17214643
I don't want to piss him off, I want him to feel himself the greatest joy.
As I said, virgins need not post. Keep your aggressive fantasies to yourself.
>>17214631
>>17214634
No, it has never occured with me, but as I read both your posts I thought of a scenario in which sex is limited to just oral and a woman demands it on her terms. With risk of being caught or something like pushing him onto the couch and straight up blowing him like an animal.
But sounds the same as me. As much as I like a blowjob, I like to eat pussy. Nothing like having your face rammed in a rythmic motion by some nice hips.
Wrap your lips around your teeth if you're worried that you're accidentally biting him, and actually suck instead of just moving your mouth and tongue up and down. It's an entirely different experience if you create some suction.
If you suck his cock like you worship it then you're doin it right.
>>17214924
How to do that?
There's different elements.
>looks
Virtually all men like a sexy picture. Do it in just your sexiest lingerie, with your hair down so he can play with it and keep it out of your face, kneel down between his legs while he is sitting or standing so that he has an optimal view of what you are doing.
>mindset
Make a show out of it. Flirt with him. Show your body off a bit beforehand while you strip down. Run your hands over his body. Suggestively lick your lips or show a bit of tongue in a smirk. Show him what you're about to do on one of his fingers while looking up at him. Make a big deal out of undoing his pants.
>moves
Use every part of your body. Smile at him and lock eyes, use your hands and mouth and combine them, press your tits up against him. Make sure you are well lubed, just thinking about your mouth watering will make it happen and make it slippery. Cover your teeth by imagining you are trying to pick up an ice cube with just your lips.
The frenulum (fold at the front of his dick), taint, peephole and corona (ridge where the head meets the shaft) are sensitive spots. Most men enjoy having their balls gently-but-firmly sucked on and pushed down a bit once they rise up to the shaft. Try things out and make mental notes of his personal favorite spots.
>rhythm
Keep mixing it up. Tease him, drive him crazy with something only to back away. You want to keep him yearning for more, don't stick with one thing for so long that he desensitizes. Go slow and sensual then wild and frantic, frustratingly light then sloppy and wet - you are in control, keep it unexpected and varied.
And show him how turned on you are. Moan against his dick (when it actually feels nice, no constant fake pornmoans), make him finger you or reach down to wet your fingers and wipe your juices on him, let him feel by how you touch and hold him that you want him, he turns you on, you enjoy pleasing him like that.
>>17214929
This.
The best head I ever got was from a girl who acted like my dick was sent from heaven. She wasn't even attractive, but after that she was all I wanted
>>17214964
Thanks for the very detailed guide. How do you stimulate the sensitive spots, especially if they are drop down your mouth?
>>17214981
How do you do that?
Please don't try so hard OP when you suck his dick next time you'll come off as a crazy ass bitch
>>17213709
how did you gain such skills?
Find your closest guy friend and ask him to help you learn by giving feedback as you suck his dick repeatedly, so you can surprise your boyfriend
>>17215574
That's why I'm here, to come off as a cockloving dirty slut, and not as a crazy bitch. Any advice?
>>17215594
I won't cheat on my boyfriend. My mouth only worships his cock.
>>17214566
I'm just surprised at how fucking bad someone could be at something as simple as that, lmao :^)
>>17215747
I'm just as experienced with se as you are madvirgin, the only difference is that tonight I will be making sweet kinky cock wirshipping love while you will angerfap to the thought that girls will never love your cock. Stay triggered.
>>17213700
Repetition. Stick to a move he likes and just keep going until he cums.
Bleh this thread is sad. Enjoy your gym loser boys. I dated a slut that acted this way once, turned me off big time, like a shitty porno.
I prefer girls that do it with style.
>>17215879
How do you do it with style?
>>17213798
That doesn't work
>>17215891
Tone everything back that everyone has mentioned in this thread. Don't go 100% on all that shit or you just look like another slut.
>>17215896
Don't gotta like that? When you're their personal slut?
>>17215909
That's so cringe
>>17215909
Guys, sorry, bad auto correct
>>17215913
bitter, sexless hambeast detected
>>17215909
Some dudes don't want a personal slut for keeps. Think about it.
>>17215563
Press your tongue down on them, lick them, any soft pressure is good if you keep it moving so that the sensation doesn't grow stale. Sucking is good too just don't do it too hard. You choose between taking him further into your mouth, or keeping him in your hand while licking the head/balls. Of course you can also feel up his balls while you have him in your mouth. If you do that, your goal is basically to simulate a vagina with your mouth. No teeth, curl your tongue a bit so it wraps around him as well as you can manage. If your mouth is big enough/he's not too girthy, you can wriggle your tongue a bit up and down his shaft. Or make a sort of swallowing motion so the head with your tongue stuck to it is pressed more firmly against your upper lip.
No problem!
>>17215921
Cringex2
My ex used to love giving head but I only managed to cum from it once or twice. She'd insist on giving a BJ pretty much every time we had sex, so probably over 100 times total. Hardly ever enjoyed it. Wasn't her fault, she was a trooper.
This one time she got upset because nothing was happening. Yeah that kind of ruined the mood.
Just chill
>>17215896
Not every guy is so paranoid that he thinks if you take pride in pleasing your lover, that must mean you fucked everyone and their brother.
>>17215975
You totally missed my point.
>>17215584
lots of stretching for a long time
>>17214258
My gf cant make me cum from oral but i can if i fuck her face, my advice is let him fuck your mouth
>>17214566
Nice Dubs, you can try gently tickling his balls and... She actually can't deepthroat btw, i just love bumping my cock against the back of her gullet, she doesnt gag unless i go overboard.
>>17214566
OOOH let him play with your pussy : the look of my gf cumming sends me right over the edge. Swallow and your level goes way up in his mind too
DO NOT USE TEETH
>>17214631
Lol you said "men" you fkin whore
Make sure he's comfortable and into it. And don't just mechanically add all this stuff together. Trying to act like a porn star megaslut might just make him laugh, and it might make him feel like a stud. I don't know, I'm not him.
>>17213700
For starters, the term 'blow'job is a bit ironic. You'll want to actually suck his dick. Like literally. You want the pressure within your mouth to be negative compared to the outside air. Create a seal with your lips as you do this. This is probably the rookiest of mistakes.
Tongue work. Basically just think of how you'd want someone to eat you out and apply that to the male anatomy. The most sensitive parts being the head, the upper shaft and the banjo string(that little flab of skin on the underside that connects the head to the upper shaft.
Deep throating is a huge plus as well. Learn to control your gag reflex and take him to the hilt. If you've never tried this before, I recommend doing it on an empty stomach just in case.
Also you don't have to facefuck yourself. Take it slow and steady. Be smooth about it. Assuming your man isn't stone face 24/7 you should be able to read his expressions and find the best technique. If not, just fucking ask him what feels good. Sex is all about communication. Hope this helps.
>>17213700
Personally, I fucking love fingering my gf while she gives me a bj because she'll start to really get into it (her g spot is super sensitive).
I don't know if you can work with something similar?
If you don't get good at blow jobs, try giving him anal
He'll love it
>>17215761
>I will be making sweet kinky cock wirshipping love
right.. watch out your bf doesn't gain any self esteem and drops an embarrassing weirdo like you
>>17214867
>actually suck instead of just moving your mouth and tongue up and down. It's an entirely different experience if you create some suction
+1 on this replying just in case OP didn't see
>>17213700
If you're only doing it for 5 minutes that's one problem it can take an hour for someone to cum from a bj
>>17217277
But they're right there how the fuck are you supposed to seal your lips around the dick without your teeth touching it
>>17221301
Stop trolling my thread.
>>17221531
How am I trolling?
>>17221580
Everyone knows how to suck without teeth, just see op pic.
>>17221589
I clearly don't know if I'm fucking asking how to it you ass
>>17221595
You open your mouth and close your lips.
>>17221600
My teeth are still there.
>>17213700
Blowjobs are very overrated, hand job will make him cum
