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Going to a music festival for a few days soon, can i pull off the bandana? Im usually pretty shy and not good with girls but i think the amount of drugs, music, alcohol, and sleep deprivation will change me.
Should i get a better bandana, do molly, and talk to festival girls?

>>17212206
Doesn't look too bad, but with full hair like that I wouldn't hide it if I was your stylist or your mother.

anyone else has anything to say about >>17212172

>>17212213
My hair is actually thin and pretty bleh, i think it helps make look full

>>17212217
Pretty bad luck there anon.

Try to start from somewhere easy like old people or people that do the same things you do or something I don't know really.

I guess since I asked it late I should direct people to my question

>>17212073

>>17212359
You're a girl, so at least getting laid is a choice for you and not really a question of 'if.' A relationship, on the other hand, is probably completely different. Honestly it's probably a plus, except for the fact that you're going to be awkward as fuck

How can I overcome/forget about frustrating crushes ?

>>17212359
What do you think the reason is you haven't formed a relationship with anyone. I'm trying to have sex with a 19 year old once kiss less virgin atm

>>17212359
I'm a girl and I was a KLV until 21. I have friends who haven't been in serious relationships and are definitely virgins at 23 too. It's not a big deal, I don't think.

>>17212160
I figured, though I wouldn't date someone who is an awful person, regardless of them fitting in my shallow tastes.

Is there any way I can address this?

>>17212477

Well... if there's a legitimate reason that they can't date you (they're with someone, gay, said no when you asked, etc.) I'd recommend letting it go. Easy to do this by reminding yourself it's pointless and a waste of time, and ignoring your feelings for them (or pretending the feelings or the person don't exist, if possible).

>>17212478
>What do you think the reason is you haven't formed a relationship with anyone


I never really tried desu
I was only friends with a couple of girls and a gay dudes in school and didn't go out to socialize much

>>17212484

I'm not sure this is super shallow, actually. Are there other important factors you think about? Because what it looks like is that you thought you had a problem and presented it like that's the only thing you think about when it comes to relationships. If not true, then not shallow.

Girls, how do I not suck?

>>17212489

Sounds pretty similar to the girl I'm seeing, it's definitely weird at 23 but not pathetic if you are content with where you are.

>>17212496
Well, I think my process would go like this

>check if a girl has a big butt
>is she friendly and approachable?
>do we have similar interests, or can we be ok even if our interests are different?
>Will she be an emotional and financial drain?

Even though the big butt portion is actually the objectively least important aspect to consider, I would only think of these other more important factors in the context of a relationship if my first in the checklist is checked.

I'm sorry if this is weird and stuff. I am a broken human being, though those specifics dont fit in this thread.

>>17212509
At what?

>>17212519

Not weird. It just sounds like a strong preference. I wouldn't worry about it so much. I mean, since you are considering other things, it's clear that you won't date/get into a relationship JUST because there's a big butt.

>>17212488
Well she and I are together in almost every course. She answers every time I write her in 10min at most but she's totally ignoring me iRL and only talking to me if she wants something from me. I still like her and it's hard to ignore her when I'm seeing her everyday. + she's abit taller and 2 years older than Me.

>>17212528
being a guy

>>17212551
This is very comforting, thank you

>>17212585

How can you suck at being a guy? You're either a guy or you're not. You can be a sucky person I guess.

>>17212569

Then it seems like she's being a shitty person and you don't have any business doting after her. Confusing that she talks when not IRL though.

>>17212591

No problem, Sir Mix-A-Lot ;3

My boyfriend and I have a good sex life. He's wonderful at giving head and although I'm also pretty good at this, I'm really looking for something else I can do to really turn him on.

The problem is, I have very little confidence in my body and have massive hang ups, which means I'm extremely self conscious about being on top and also being taken from behind. I prefer to cover my body up if possible because I'm convinced it's so hideous that he will be completely turned off if he sees me. He seems to love me but I spent a lot of years with a pretty shitty body and I'm finding it hard to get out of that mindset.

So what can I do for my boyfriend to really impress him and turn him on during sex?

Bonus question - how can I feel better about my body and gain more confidence during sex?

>>17212676
You can put on some sexy lingerie, surprise him, tease him, indulge in some of his fetishes, moan during sex (but only if you're holding them back, fake ones are not hot), ect. to turn him on.

To gain more confidence you can just remember how much he likes your body the way it is. To go the extra mile you could try improving your body by dieting and exercising.

I'm not a very appealing guy at the moment. I've got dandruff, some minor acne and acne marks, skinny fat.

I'm joining the Air Force and I'm hoping it's the impetus I need to get my shit together.

Will my confidence and game improve if I start taking better care of my hygiene and losing weight?

Also I have some fucking coarse wiry hair, is there like a way to make my hair soft and not stiff? It's like having pubes on my head ffs

>>17212716
Use a hair mask
Looks for things with "nourishing" in the name

>>17212689
>- how can I feel better about my body and gain more confidence during sex?
Try asking your bf what he thinks about it, in detail.
If he didn't love your body and want to see it, he'd just turn off the lights.
Don't need to be good enough for the imaginary judge in your head, you're not having sex with it.

Guys, girls, if you read, but don't reply to the close person who've wrong you, it means that you don't care about him/her anymore?

>>17212856
No. I could just be too busy to reply and forgot about it, I'm just mad at them at the moment, or any number of things.

>>17212856
>the close person who've wrong you
Repeat this in decent english.
But generally, no response means... nothing. At least to me.
They might be too busy to answer, might be in a public place with someone looking over their shoulder, might have bad social anxiety, etc.

Personally, I don't assume shit. I just wait for them to respond.

>>17212856
Depends on the person and situation. Also not everyone baby sits every digital conversation. I ignore a lot of stuff people send me, if it was actually important they'd call or talk to me in person.

>>17212905
Ok, if you do this for a month or longer?
It's obvious, that you have more important things to do.

Girls:

How would you feel if your serious boyfriend that you loved told you that he regularly has gay fantasies but doesn't intend to act on it?

>>17212963
Weirded out and confused. I'd try to be supportive as much as possible but from then on I'd always worry if he's actually gay, if I'm keeping him from being himself, if he's missing out staying with me, etc

Why do women tend to hate their boyfriend's social circle?

My girlfriend and I stay home most nights, watch movies, and do our own thing. It's nice! But the one time, every couple of months that I want to go hang out with my friends, she says things like, "I wish you'd stay home" and "You seem to be more excited about hanging out with them than me".

What is this petty shit? Why has every woman I been with been like this?

>>17213103
Maybe you have shit friends

Girls:

How often you do you guys have lesbian thoughts/fantasies?

And when did you come to the conclusion that you were bi-sexual?

My girlfriend had recently told me she was bi-sexual and I'm still trying to deal with it

>>17213109
What would be some characteristics of "shit" friends?

My friends are all general well mannered and pleasant to be around. They have a dinner party on occasion, and all have their own social lives that they keep up with.

>>17213103
Doesn't sound like she hates your friends, sounds like she wants to have fun with you. Maybe go out on a date night or something. Always staying home together sounds like the reason you aren't excited to do things with her. That's likely what she wants, unless you're leaving out anything negative she said about your friends.

>>17213103
I've seen my female friends do this. Personally, I like my boyfriend's friends. But we've been together for years, and I've gotten to know them well. I join their bro nights every once in a while.

I'm friends with one of my boyfriend's friend's girlfriend. And she dislikes most of them. I see her reasons. Most of them are worry. A few of the guys in my bf's friend group are kinda fucked up. Like they cheat on their girlfriends and do a lot of drugs.

She worries a lot that her boyfriend will get dragged into it. But she refuses to get to know any of them better.

From what I've seen hanging out with them. They just like to drink and talk. Sometimes some of them bring coke over. They don't really ask anyone to join.. And the guys that don't do it, just decline but are tolerant of being around it. And my bf is one of those guys that will be around it but honestly not try it. So I trust him enough to not go crazy and start using.

Other than that, she just generally gets upset over them going to bars. In case they meet women or something.

So yea, the main fears I've noticed in my female friends are: obsessive drinking, drug use, and cheating.

Yet from what I've noticed, my boyfriend hanging out with his friends is just a big sausage party.

>>17213122
I haven't really had any fantasies in a long time. I've been in a relationship with a man for several years, and I don't really fantasize about women I know in real life.

However, I only get off to lesbian porn. But it's generally because I like watching porn with oral given on a female or with toys, and heterosexual porn doesn't emphasize that. I actually just watch the lesbo porn, but imagine my bf doing oral on me. The porn is just to enhance visual stimulation.

I remember first feeling sexually attracted to a girl when I was 11. And I would catch myself glancing at my best friend in grade school. I didn't really like her that way, but it was just the closest I'd been to a female peers body.

I started having sexual relations with girls on and off when I was in high school. And didn't come out to friends until I was 16 or so.

>>17212484

I'm going to guess you've never actually been IN a relationship?

Because, no offence, but this sounds like a virgin fantasy/idealization/line that you think is reasonable when yo/re young and have zero experience, and then once it's actually relevant and you have any experience, it's a whole lot less important and you're just like.... did I really think that? Boy was I cringe worthy.

Girls: if you had to choose between a boyfriend who owns a fleshlight/onahole/plastic pussy, or one who has bought prostitutes in the past, which would you prefer?

>>17213260
fleshlight

>>17213260
Toys. I have toys too, but I'd feel outright disgusted if he's paid for sex.

I just started dating this guy that I've known and been friends for about 8 months. I really liked him when I first met him, but we ended up becoming super platonic friends, still hanging out even though I still liked him. Well he asked me to be official about a week ago, but the problem is I don't really feel that different or even that happy to be dating him. It's almost like we're still just friends. I enjoy hanging out with him and I like him as a person, but now when we cuddle or he gets really close to me it actually makes me uncomfortable, and I don't really find him attractive like I did before. He's not doing anything wrong, I think I might just prefer being friends. What would be the best way to end this?

>>17213144
This is pretty accurate

>>17213277
>>17213290

Fugggggggg
Oh well, I'll keep that in mind.

>>17213425
But if you've been to a whore, don't tell your girlfriend I guess? It's not like she'd randomly meet her in a café and tell her.

>>17213359
Just tell him there was no spark in the relationship. Condolence sex or setting him up with one of your friends would be an appropriate parting gift.

>>17213425
I'm a guy but is that really that big of a surprise dude?

Think about it:

One of those is buying an aid to self-satisfaction (which most women use on themselves anyway and can empathize with). In a way it's almost utilitarian and practical because it's something you can keep using.

The other involves paying for a sham of intimacy.
>It's basically a cheap and brief replacement for something that you're apparently too inept/lazy to obtain otherwise.
>On top of that you are putting yourself at risk for contracting all sorts of nasty shit (because the perception of prostitutes--whatever the reality--is that they're disease ridden.
>Even further than that, there even exists a pocket of women who get trapped in to what's basically a literal slave trade and have no choice, which basically makes you implicit in rape (I'm not saying all women are, just that ones who are definitely do exist. And even normal women who voluntarily opt for prostitution are never exactly really seen as clean/stable/etc. There is a social stigma against it)

A toy does not put you at risk of STD's, nor does it have all that negative shit behind it, nor does it imply you can't get it any other way, it's just an inanimate object that enhances what you already do.

That's not to say some people won't object to toys, but there are guys who think dildos are the creation of satan and anyone who has them are cock-gobbling sluts or whatever, soooo net null.

>>17213359
>I just started dating this guy but I don't really find him attractive like I did before. What would be the best way to end this?

Just say it's not working out, that you like him, but you don't feel any chemistry or spark between you guys. It's better to be upfront and give him a run around. If you put a solid reason in front of him, most guys will get that and find it easier to move on (I say most guys, but some guys will flip their shit no matter what). Maybe he's already feeling the same.

Girls, what the hell do I do on a first date? I am visibly nervous usually and I don't know what to do or say. I don't want to be an autist when I know I'm not bad looking and not too dumb. I don't want to throw it all away because of my fear of women.

How do I take advantage of a girls daddy issues?

Are black guys really bigger?

>>17213609
Yes, they're also dumber.
CAN'T HAVE IT BOTH WAYS NIGGERS!

i think I've stalked my crush/friend without realizing it.
i flew to another city months ago for a festival, when really I think i just went to see him. He didn't know i was even going, i showed up to an event he was at unannounced. Im just now starting to feel weird about this and its hit hard. other times i would go to certain events he would say hes at on social media, this went on since last year but i think it got more obvious when i flew to another city for the festival. I guess he couldn't have been too weirded out yet because he stayed at my hotel afterwards. After awhile i started talking to his ex, and talking lots of shit because he was treating me badly, of course he never found out about that. we've been fwb for 7-8 months. I'm pretty aware of the possibility that even if he knew all of this he wouldn't care because he just wants to fuck.
But i think i did too much. i did way too much. what have i done. this isn't really a question, i just feel stupid and cant tell anyone

>>17213490
>>17213436
Okay, that makes sense. Thank you anons.

>>17213609
According to the study on this I've seen blacks are the biggest and east Asians are the smallest. Blacks are 14.75 cm and East Asians are 12.9 cm, so it's not really a big difference.

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>>17212191
ITT:OP is a fucking faggot

my ex was texting me today and said my dick was small but she lied because she was my gf

Shit broke my soul.. Now I just feel like all she told me was a lie

Fucked up desu I never shitted on her for having a chest flat as a washboard

It's okay to shame small dicks but it's cool for women to have titties smaller than a millennial 12 year old?

Okay

Fuck you women

>>17213823

Ouch, but don't respond to her with the flat chest, you'll look like a bitch.

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>girlfriend of two months is pregnant
>she was told and even has medical documents saying she is infertile due to an ovarian disease
>she wants to keep it because doctors say it's a "miracle" and might be the only time she could get pregnant

The risk was like 0.01% and I just had bad luck. What do I do? I didn't see a future with this woman due to some ideological differences but it looks like I'm stuck.

>>17213842
Claim she cheated on you, break up and refuse to sign the birth certificate?

>>17213842
>The risk was like 0.01% and I just had bad luck. What do I do? I didn't see a future with this woman due to some ideological differences but it looks like I'm stuck.

Dude, even if you're selfish as fuck and don't want anything to do with this kid, on some level you gotta be happy for her.

This was something she thought was literally impossible, and probably something she thought she'd never have in her life. Now she gets it.

You're not stuck with her. You can always choose to opt out, and your involvement isn't even necessarily a requirement.

However you still have to take responsibility for sticking your dick in her. She didn't tie you down, force you to get hard, and ride your dick 'til you came in her against your will. Even if it was a .01% chance, you did it by your own volition, so you've got to be prepared and own up when it happens. That is always the risk and part of why they set and age limit on having sex--so that both parties can be responsible adults and own up when the act of procreation, actually procreates.

Stop being a fucking man-child and at least help finance the kids life if nothing else.

>>17213870
>Stop being a fucking man-child and at least help finance the kids life if nothing else.
kek

>>17213831
I'm the one that gets insulted and I look like the bitch? What logic is that

I don't even fucking care, just shows how trash women are

Grils,
what kind of porn do you like and how often do you watch it?
be as descriptive as possible.

Is there any general consensus on what girls think about feminine guys ? Or at least your own opinion.

Probably got this one before, but it's been three days without contact, should I try again?
>date
>Shitty start, amazing midway through
>already planning next date during current
>get text thanking me and telling me that she is looking forward to next
>get texts two days later asking how I am and how the rest of the weekend went
>was at work and cannot respond
>get off at midnight
>give reason for detail, explain and ask her about hers
>no response for three days now

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>>17214129

- bestiality
- selfsuck
- mmf
- straight up gay
- hentai

i watch the first two the most, but it's not often because i almost exclusively masturbate in the shower while fantasizing about those subjects

>tfw vanilla porn just won't cut it anymore

should i sell my canon rebel xti. i really like it but i dont really use it that much

>>17213823

Some people are cunts, more at 11.

Also size is pretty objective, you know how big you are.
Plus, it was good enough for her at one point, so even if it is objectively small, obviously you've got enough good qualities to compensate.
If someone eats at a fancy restaurant religiously for months/years, then one day walks out saying the food has always been terrible, that person just looks like a fucking idiot for eating there for so long.

Don't let some bitch poison you against women in general. Just find a woman who's better than her. She's not a cunt because she's a woman, that's a copout letting her off easy. She's a cunt because she, specifically, is a cunt.

>>17212689

This is a very common question among women.

You should not cover up. Neither should you point out to him that you are self conscious or what you are self conscious of. The thing about men is that when we are in love with you, the chubbiness, body freckles, folds, weird ribs and other things that you could be self conscious about, are the quirks that we find attractive. Mentioning how you feel about these things highlights them as flaws in mens brains and will eventually make them unattractive to your boyfriend.

We also want something to look at. I can't climax unless I can see my wife, and my wife was very self conscious for a very long time.

Stop reading women's magazines and visiting such websites for about three months. The pictures of the slender women with the nice, flawless (and heavily photoshopped) women which they put in the articles are casting a subliminal message to you which is making you think that there is something wrong with the way that you look.

To answer your question, ask your boyfriend about what he thinks of your figure, (don't tell him that you don't like the way you look to him) and ask him about something new that he may want to try when you are having sex. You could also try changing the location (the bedroom isnt the only place to have sex).

watch a sex tutorial with him and expand your sexual repertoire.
http://www.xvideos.com/video7320907/best_sex_positions
I know it's a common porn site, it's what a quick google brings up.

It's actually pretty good. I'm downloading it and I'm going watching it with my wife tonight.

>>17214442
http://www.xvideos.com/video438806/sex_positions

This one is even better. The other one is far too advanced.

As a high functioning autistic, it can be safely deducted that my success with women is all but nonexistent. I'm 20 and the farthest I've ever gotten was a cheek kiss before she moved. I was 17.

I've been doing my best to try and work with my condition, but sometimes it seems debilitating. I don't let anybody know I have anything wrong with me, learning wise, unless they have to know.

Unfortunately, I'm a wholly unattractive character as I'm not physically attractive, not very bright, and have a boring personality with few hobbies. I've been rejected around 7 times and the last one really stuck with me, and that's because she flat out told me that there's nothing to get out of investing herself with me, romantically.

It's cold, but probably most honest answer i've ever gotten before.

Ladies: Would you ever consider dating a sperg heavily focused on self improvement, even if it meant he was a good deal below you, financially and socially? Or, is this just one of the biggest turn offs ever?

Inb4 "fokus on urself first". I am focusing on myself, I'd just like to experience what romantic intimacy is like, even if it's just a hug or a kiss.

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>>17214442
>Mentioning how you feel about these things highlights them as flaws in mens brains and will eventually make them unattractive to your boyfriend.
Wait what? Personally i think most of those flaws are cute no matter what, and being embarrassed about them makes them even cuter.

>>17214129

>Anything that makes people lose bladder control due to sexual arousal - because I have a fetish
>het gangbang stuff, preferable with lots of anal
>gayporn with guys that look good to me (don't pay attention to how they look in het porn)
>weird hentai - the more freaky the better. I'm at the insect-impregnation stuff atm but that's something everchanging.
>mmf

>>17214129
>>17214514
>mmf
Would you go for it in the real world if your bf said it was okay?

To those guys who are into older women (5 - 10 years above your age):
Is there any specific reason why you are into them? (How) do you approach them?

To any guy:
What would you do if a decent looking girl came up to you and asked you if you'd fuck her if she paid you? Would you do anything different if you agreed compared to other sex you had (if you had any :P)?

>>17214517

my boyfriend already said yes, he's bi himself and I'd die for a mmf, but goddamn it's hard to find the second guy for this -_- we sadly don't really share a taste in men..

>>17214521
I might agree if she just asked if I wanted to fuck her, but the offer to pay me would make me extremely hesitant to accept.

>>17214521
>What would you do if a decent looking girl came up to you and asked you if you'd fuck her if she paid you?
I'd try and negotiate a higher price to make more money.

>>17214522
That's because while most guys love threesomes we prefer ffm threesomes.

>>17214527
Personally I'd prefer a mmf but maybe I'm just a closet faggot.

Guys, what's the deal with gangbang porn? Isn't that like... really gay? Why is it such a staple compared to harem stuff?
Meanwhile, ffm threesomes are always the way to go while mmf seems gay. Isn't that a contradiction?

>>17214473
There's an exception to every rule.

I'm the same actually. I also find it cuter when she's insecure about it.
It does get annoying sometimes though. When she's on top and riding me while sitting up. I really enjoy looking at her. It's such a huge turn on being able to see her riding me. Then she ruins my experience because she starts getting embarrassed and gives me this goofy smile bends forward and my nice view is gone, so is my enjoyment.

Ladies - please don't do that. Next time that you see him looking at you top to bottom during sex, instead of moving yourself from view, still make the embarrassed smile, but ask if he likes what he sees. When he answers that he does, rather try to highlight certain parts of your body that you know he likes (by taking his hands and making him run them up and down your waist, or have him squeeze your breasts).
It will help you gain more self confidence, and he him enjoy himself more.
Please don't be shy.

>>17214129
I can't watch porn with actors that aren't white, girls that look like bimbos and bad acting.
Other than that
>Normal lame sex
>Anal stuff (both sex and fingering/rimming)
>Threesomes (mff, sometimes mmf if the guys are bi)
>Lesbian

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Hey,
Why do girls (well one in particular) feel the need to hurt someone as much as they can, all the time? We are friends, platonic. I want more, she does when we meet up (live in different states). She gets mad upset and jealous when she sees me with women, but we won't kiss or fuck.
We are supposed to be friends, but she just drunkenly told me she fucked a guy, and loves him. I kind of had enough of this shit already.

Should I just not care anymore? I wasn't even hurt by this message desu, just disappointed.

Thanks.

>>17214555
Anon, you're an idiot.
If you want more and she doesn't, don't hang out with her, don't talk to her, and get over her.
She uses you because she wants to get your validation and your affection, and you're an idiot because you play at her game.
Stop talking to her and move on.

>>17214521
>What would you do if a decent looking girl came up to you and asked you if you'd fuck her if she paid you?

Even if I weren't in a relationship, i'd probably raise an eyebrow or two and say, "excuse me"? followed by an "uhh...That's flattering... but no thanks"

I don't look down on those who do it for money, and I've had my share of fwb's, one night stands, and the like, but uhh... I'd rather choose my own partners because I want to be with them (even if it was only for one night).

>>17214539
>Guys, what's the deal with gangbang porn?

It's one of those things that are about other things. It's not about the guys, it's about the girl, probably about the degradation, and also the sexuality of the situation. It's kind of like... the naughty innocent schoolgirl, or bad preaches daughter, or whatever else situation that shows a woman flagrantly flaunting her sexuality.

>>17214471
Straight dude here, but i wish there were more female spergs. My best friends growing up were autists and i wonder what it'd be like to date one.

>>17214555
>gets mad upset and jealous when she sees me with women
I don't get this shit either. Why the hell do girls get jealous when they're not actually interested in the guy, or have a boyfriend, or are married, etc?

>>17214590
>Why the hell do girls get jealous when they're not actually interested in the guy, or have a boyfriend, or are married, etc?
Because you're not giving attention to them anymore.

>>17214129
I've always preferred imagination to porn, but when I do watch/look at it, it's almost always hentai/doijins.

I'm still pissed that they got Queen Bee to adapt Secret Journey. They ruined one of my favorites.

>>17214521
Older women have fewer insecurities.
My wife won't be checking my phone everytime a message comes through. She doesn't phone me every five minutes to check where I am. An older woman is also more stable mentally and (there is an exception to every rule) is far less likely to cheat on me when compared to a twenty something year old. She also knows what she wants out of life.

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Femanon who has fallen for another girl back again.

I figure I'd update since I know there's at least one anon who was interested in this mess (thank you for all your advice and kind words before)

So I found out a bit more about how she feels. I forget what prompted her to say it but, she said she liked everything about me and she loved me. I told her when she says stuff like that to me it makes my heart race. And she said I made her feel like that too more often that she wanted to admit. I couldn't believe it. Like literally couldn't I thought she was just fucking with me. I asked her if she liked it and she said yes. Throughout the entire conversation I felt like I couldn't breathe. She is just as madly fucked up in love as I am with her. I don't really know what to say or where to go from here. I feel like this can't be real. It's like a dream. I want to take things super slow so I don't wake up from it.

>>17214539
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EGFNg62-A1c

girls - have you ever had a teacher crush?

>>17214614
I had a huge crush on my 8th grade math teacher. He was so funny and smart. And it was the type of crush where I did not at all want anything to come of it. Even the thought of that revolted me. I simply wanted to admire him as he was.

>>17214609
Anon here who asked about your story.

I would still really like to read your correspondence from day 1. I know that it's probably not possible, but I'm still very curious as to how all this came about.

>>17214612

Very interesting, thanks!

>>17214618
We started talking in a general. We ended up having so much in common in regards to our hobby we just would post back and forth to each other ignoring most of the other anons half the time. Then one day she asked for my email. She was afraid of losing contact with me. Then we kind of continued talking about the same kind of stuff, but even more topics since we weren't limited by 4chan anymore and we just clicked so well about so many things. She was actually the one at first who said she felt close to me and that we were becoming friends. But I think even back then I had tender feels for her they just weren't so intense like they are now. I mean I pretty much started going to the thread just to talk to her, I just thought she was so cute and cool and I loved talking about stuff with her.

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>>17214609
Happy to hear that, anon. Hoping it works for you two!

>>17212585
Start by not asking girls questions about how to be a guy.

>>17214213
Send ONE text asking if she got your earlier message, then drop it.

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Need answer from opposite gender:

I'm hungry… sticks hand into food basket, feels something long and soft… thinks a banana would be a good snack… pulls out a rolled up wet dripping pad soaked in menstrual blood.

Leaves kitchen, closes door, hand feels wet… WTF??? Hand is also painted red? Why are there blood soaked clothes hanging on door handles?

Goes in bathroom to vomit… finds tampons on top of toilet seat dripping… looks in the trash can right next to it… is empty… didn't even bother.

Sits on bed with hands on head asking what evil have I done to God to deserve such punishment? Wait, didn't know we had leopard spot blankets… why are the leopard spots hard? Not dried blood, please.

Repeat ad nauseum, month after month after month.

No, not a 12 year old girl… a 30 year old woman.

Ask /adv/ What can do?

>>17214710

i'm so confuseddddddd. What?

>>17214710

Move out and stop living with an unhygienic nutjob?

>>17214710
Stop, we've seen this pasta enough. I kind of laughed the first time, but come up with something new please.

any femanons up at this hour?

>>17214725

Just ask your question, faggot.

I don't know where else to ask this and a lot of kind anons here, gave great advice when I just felt lost.

I thought my bf was a good guy, he's been my best friend for many years.but
>6months in I find out he's messaging other girls. Confront/argue make up etc.
>few more months it's the same thing but these messages have clearly intensified. Massive argument, I want nothing to do with him etc etc. Somehow we sort of get past it. Therapy etc says it's something to do with low self esteem.
>during all this strangely enough I had my normal high sex drive.
>now months after, it's dried up.completely. I don't even want to masturbate. It's like I've been sterilised..
Any thoughts?

>>17214521
>What would you do if a decent looking girl came up to you and asked you if you'd fuck her if she paid you?
I'd assume there was a good reason she needed to pay instead of getting laid the normal way.

>Would you do anything different if you agreed compared to other sex you had (if you had any :P)?
Not stay behind and cuddle (that's extra).

>>17214764
>Therapy etc says it's something to do with low self esteem.
Whose low self-esteem? His or yours?
>it's dried up.completely. I don't even want to masturbate. It's like I've been sterilised..
Has anything changed health-wise? Started or stopped any medications, birth control?
Any major life changes? Stress at home or work, etc?
If not, consider asking a doctor, they can check hormone levels (thyroid, estrogen, androgens, etc) and tell you if that's the problem.
If that seems fine too, and you do seem sexually attracted to other men than your boyfriend, then consider whether the passion in the relationship is dead and gone, in which case a breakup is in order.

>>17214794
Sorry I could have written that better.
>His self esteem
>I stopped birth control a month ago, I wasn't on it long though.
>Stress.. Hmm, he recently quit his job and currently looking for work, he was stressed out about it, but he's had offers etc.
>will head to the docs too just in case ..it's just strange because it's not just my bf but all guys, hell I could even appreciate women but there's nothing now - I don't get that tingle or that fire. It's as if someone cut a wire.

Men,

Is my bf cheating on me?

He keeps picking fights with me lately. He wants to keep tabs on me when I'm out doing things without him. So he'll pick fights if I dont send him pictures and updates about what I'm doing. He told me I make him unhappy when we're apart because I don't text him enough. And he is really into his appearance lately, going to the gym all the time.

I feel like I'm being really manipulated and my gut tells me something fishy is going on with him.

so im a colombian girl studying abroad in the states. this guy who is my close friend said he saw an article with the title "how dating a colombian girl lets you learn about a new cultre". is he into me?

>>17214826
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.

>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

Read the OP.

>>17214826
That's not much info, but YES.
But, if you're long-time friends, he probably won't make any move (or he'd have already).

>>17214809
I don't think trying to randomly guess if people are cheating is healthy. It looks like you're experiencing difficulties in the relationship and you're looking for something or someone to blame. It doesn't have to be anyone's fault.

>>17214809
Try walking a mile in his shoes - what would you do, in his place, if you felt your gf was getting more distant?
>talk to her, and tell her you're unhappy
>do something to improve your sex appeal
that's what he's doing.
It doesn't sound suspicious, he might want more attention from you.

>>17214832
>Nothing significant
>>17214833
>That's not much info, but YES
eh? so does what he said suggest anything?

>>17214840
It's a reasonable assumption.
You're friends, he's joking about dating you.
It might mean nothing, but he's at least thought about it - still, you're probably overthinking it, he's not going to make a move anyway.

>>17214840
To me, no.
It's more related to the country than the dating, to me.

Like I have a friend who studies medicine, I read an article about "10 reasons why you should date a doctor", linked it to her. It's not because I'm into her, but because I thought she might find it funny/interesting.

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Ladies.

If girl so equal, why come girl no invent anything?

>>17214809
>if I dont send him pictures and updates about what I'm doing
He sounds crazy. I don't know if he's cheating, but he's definitely being controlling and mad uncool.

Third date today, I haven't kissed her yet though the second one was great(it was a simple walk, yet we walked and talked for 4 hours straight all over the city, I suppose that means it was good right?) but I for some reason hesitated.

How do I pick the right moment?

Also, I haven't kissed in a while, how not to fuck it up too much?

>>17214848
Well he doesnt live in the states so maybe he is not interested in dating me because of that
>>17214849
I was thinking it may be that as well

>>17214836
>>17214838
Thank you for saying that, I guess I'm just freaking out because I haven't seen him in a while (he is away with his family) and there is a girl from his work who I have been feeling jealous of too.

>>17214852
Yeah, he has been controlling since we first got together. I think its because hes almost 10 years older than me so he is afraid that I'm going to go wild and he'll lose me.

I'm a transwoman
How do I tell my current 'fuckbuddy' female friend that I want them to peg my ass and sit on my face rather than me always being on top

Serious question

>>17213103
Third answer is right. Even if they're not doing drugs or shittalking their girlfriends, most guys adapt a different persona among brotype friends than around their girlfriend. Girlfriends are often uncomfortable seeing this side of the guy who is so sweet and thoughtful with them.

That and other reasons can include: being more introverted and not understanding your desire to spend time with more different people, jealousy and possessiveness (what if they talk about the perks of single life or want to talk to girls with you?), feeling excluded from the group and insecure by you having a place among them.

>>17213122
Hard to say exactly how often. I'd say at least every other day I have a (fleeting) thought of it.
I told myself for a very long time that I was sexually open towards girls, but exclusively wanted to be with guys romantically. Then I befriended a girl who is not just stunning and sexy, but also sharp, witty and bold and made me feel all weak in the legs around her.

>>17214129
Prefer fantasy over porn by a landslide, but I do watch it.

Some stuff I like just to get in the mood, or if I'm very aroused I just want to see people go at it and it excites me to watch. I do not particularly like masturbating to this and usually just do it as "foreplay" before fantasizing.
This is tame regular stuff - pictures of cute girls and guys, oral, analingus and penetration gifs. I watch amateur videos occasionally but am really particular, it doesn't take for me to find it more fake or uncomfortable than sexy.

Apart from that I have a thing for stuffing (overeating) and watch videos of guys (and girls, depending on my mood, but I do prefer men) eating/getting their belly rubbed/burping etc. It's embarrassing but really gets me going, although I still prefer fantasy because it turns me on as much (and more if I'm really in the mood) and makes me feel better afterwards. Porn always leaves me with a bit of a gross feeling, even the sweet loving stuff with attractive people, not sure why.

>>17214858
It's the right moment when it feels right. You have these moments where you can just sense the chemistry, or sense that you are both lingering and wanting to part. Signs are a lot of prolonged eye contact, especially if mixed up with not meeting your eyes, fumbling with her hands/clothes/hair, blushing, lip biting, accidental/innocent touching, lots of short silences like you're both not sure what to talk about but don't want to say goodbye either.

Don't rush it, start with just a sweet, soft kiss on the mouth, no tongue. If you go slowly you offer her the chance to set the pace or take initiative and you can follow her movements. If you have to start, similarly, go slowly, give her lips a light lick before going in and so on.

>>17214899
If you ever talk about sex already, bring it up then. If not you can throw it in during dirty talk, when you're heated enough to not feel too shy tell her you fantasize about these things. If she responds normally, follow it up with confirming afterwards that you would very much like to give those things a shot.

Both:
>watch porn often when masturbating
>think it might be a neat idea to watch it with bf sometimes
>try it twice but meh
>we don't really get in the right mood and usually end up laughing more than being horny

how can i improve that? Or should we just stop and proceed as usual?

>>17214946
Did you try it before or after being aroused? Maybe it helps if you throw it in during sex and not expect it to be the initial turn on.

>>17214953
Nah, we watched after we where already a bit horny. Maybe we can try waiting till we're REALLY horny

>>17214955
Yeah, that might make a difference. I don't know what else to recommend, anything is subjectively a turn on or not depending on individual preferences. Maybe this is just not what work for you.

>>17214946
I'm kinda in the same boat, I like porn by myself but somehow it seems ridiculous with my girlfriend. I mean, she likes porn on her own as well but together we just laugh at how bad/weird it is. Dunno.

i just realized how hypocritical it is for guys to give women the advice to be blunt about things and less subtle when the guy they like isn't showing interest. yet when this type of thing happens to us in real life and she goes a bit too far it turns us off because it makes her seem like a slut and want nothing to do with her

never really thought about this before

>>17214978
Good to hear at least someone realizes it.

>>17214978
>it turns us off because it makes her seem like a slut and want nothing to do with her

Wait, what?! What the fuck, guys?

girls, is it always a bad sign if you don't reply to texts or wait so long to do it when you're online?

>>17215009
well i mean obviously guys like to fuck sluts but then they peace out shortly. i'm talking about relationship material girls

>>17214941
Thanks.

>>17215013
No. People have other things to do besides texting all day. I was at work the other day and had my phone unlocked and WhatsApp open beside me after a call and didn't pay attention and some guy chewed me out for taking so long to reply when he can see I'm online. Weird shit imo.
People survived without constant nonstop communication.

>>17214978

No... See...You're being hyperbolic... there's a pretty obvious gap between having a girl take the lead, and having a girl throw herself at you in a repelling and grossly inappropriate way.

Examples of the former:
>My girlfriend asked me out first (technically she beat me to it by seconds, but she still asked me out first lol)
>My first kiss was to a girl, I told her I was falling for her, she literally stopped me mid sentence with her lips on mine.

Examples of the later:
>"Oh you're an Aquarius? I've never been with one of those before"
>"So, how big are you?"

Respectful and appropriate is pretty much always well received and that actually goes for both genders. Even if the feeling isn't mutual or reciprocated, at the very least, it's not repulsive (unless you're not ACTUALLY being respectful, or they're just a plain asshole).

>>17215058
i just meant that girls have to dance much more of a fine line. guys can hound a girl pretty hard and get away with it.

>>17214978
I have attempted to "take the lead" in the past and some guys don't like it. They're put off by it. Granted, I'm not sure if they just didn't like me as much as I liked them. Or what...

With my current boyfriend it was successful. I asked him out first. He said yes. We dated for a few months (still exclusively), then he was the one to officially ask me to be his girlfriend.

>>17215069
>i just meant that girls have to dance much more of a fine line. guys can hound a girl pretty hard and get away with it.

And i'm sure there are guys for who that "So how big are you" line works too... I'm fact i'm pretty sure there are more guys that works on, than catcalls and the like work on women...

Most women I know are pretty adamant about not at all being impressed, and being pretty turned off, disgusted, and sometimes even intimidated by that shit.

>>17215095
Honestly I think that's because we get it so much. If men were the hesitant "waiting" gender instead we'd value the few who go out of their way to show interest highly.

>>17215095
i guess you're right. i posted because i had been thinking how i've given advice to women before thinking "it worked for me as a man to get women so it will work for a woman to get a man" when in reality that just isn't true.

>>17214978
>yet when this type of thing happens to us in real life and she goes a bit too far it turns us off
I have never been turned off this way, and have never met a guy who said he was turned off by this, in my entire life. In contrast there is vast evidence of the opposite. Just for example:
http://time.com/4253826/women-okcupid-dating-apps/
>The majority of women don’t send the first message in online dating conversations.
>The research, published by dating website OkCupid using data from the site, also suggests that the women who message first are more likely to chat with more attractive men.

girls, if you got abandoned in a desert then some smuggler that looks like harrison ford took you to a bar in the middle of the forest and got you drunk then offered you a 'job', what would you do?

>>17215013
Not at all. Even when I'm not busy and hanging around on my phone or online, I walk away from my phone or laptop and just start doing other stuff at home. While still appearing online...

It's not like I'm intentionally trying to ignore people, I'm just not really glued to the phone waiting to reply.

If it goes like over 72 hours without a reply and it was read, then maybe that's a little bad. I usually start ignoring messages after a conversation goes stale. Then I'll respond once something has happened that I want to talk about. Or I come up with something to talk about.

>>17215148
Depends. Does he look Arc of Covenant or Force Awakens? This is important.

>>17215160
he looks like han solo from a new hope. but with the return of the jedi bank account

>>17215172
Then I'm not interested.

>>17213823

It's your ex, she's probably making shit up just to spite you. Don't reply.

>>17215191
>Arc of Covenant
you know thats not a movie right

>>17215235
Raiders of the Lost Ark, sorry. In my language the title got translated to "Ark of the Covenant".

Guys,

I have a friend (21) whose fiance (20) is in the marines. She found out on from a girl in a different country that he was sexting. Before they got engaged, he's been caught hanging out and talking with his ex girlfriend on the phone also.

My question is, is this a red flag? They're supposed to be getting married next year, but I think they're way too young, and he seems to want more freedom. To anyone who does this, or experienced this kind of thing with their partner, how did situation turn out? Is/was it a phase, or did things get better?

Thanks in advance

>>17214978
No. You're an idiot if you get turned off.

>>17215267
Big red flag.

Friends, my crush seems to be too good for me. What do?

Like, this girl told me she admires my hair, she always waves at me and I started crushing on her. We haven't chatted much, so we're not friends yet.

>she is extroverted, I'm intro
>she's everyone's friend, I don't have any
>her job isn't that good, but I work for my family

Grilleroonies

How much do you like guys playing with your nips/boobs? I like doing stuff with them but i always feel awkward, like i'm doing something just for me. (i also have some trouble enjoying getting a HJ or BJ)

Reassure me of one or the other pls.

Girls,
this girl at my work place tried for literal months to get my phone number, going as far as asking coworkers for it, then she texted me and we started talking.
She seems to like me a lot and has told me that I'm a "cute", I think she is really cute too.
The thing is that we don't really know each other and we hardly have anything to talk about, and even worse, I'm a really busy guy, got a full time job and a part time job afterwards, and when I'm not doing any of those I'm usually study to improve my skillset.
So, how do I approach this situation, I'm not really much of a social beacon, hardly have any friends and I like to be along a lot. She seems really social and outgoing, which is fine, but she seems to expeect sthe same from me.
I don't know if I want/could get something serious with her but I just feel bad that almost every time she tries to talk to me (via texting), I'm just doing some other stuff and texting would just distract me, so I keep on giving short answers. The few times we had long talks, we exchange some lines but I make a real effort and feel that I'm the carrying the convo all the way, which is exhausting too.
My question basically is, how do I keep in good terms with this girl without seeming like an asshole (she's been really nice to me) or that I'm uninterested (I don't really think that is a good time for me to get in relationship, even if is just casual)?
For reference she is 21F I'm 26M

>>17215469
Not a girl, but you gotta prioritize, mate.

Grilling isn't something you do in your spare time, you have to make time for it.

>>17215438
Love it a whole lot, but I have very sensitive nipples, to the point of hurting sometimes, padded bras and all that. But in a sexual context it's awesome and gets me super tingly super fast.

>>17214978
>i just realized how hypocritical it is for guys to give women the advice to be blunt about things and less subtle when the guy they like isn't showing interest. yet when this type of thing happens to us in real life and she goes a bit too far it turns us off because it makes her seem like a slut and want nothing to do with her
Is this bait? If so, 9/10, good work.
Pissed me off pretty effectively.

If any girls are actually worried about this, i have a simple solution: don't ask out mongoloids. They're not very good in bed anyway.

>>17215267
>getting engaged at 20-21
That's all the red flag you need, they're doomed.

>>17215535
Coolio

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(20M) In which glasses do I look better? Any other tips also welcome.

>>17215651
holy fuck, start lifting some weights

As a guy I wonder about a thing. What if I am genuinely not interested in the life of some girl, but just force myself to just because. Do girls notice this? I am not even impolite. Its just that the realm of men is usually so far away from the realm of women, with the science, politics, economy, industry, tech and more. That I at least dabble in. I long learned that no woman out there really cares for these things, so I try to care about the things that women do, but frankly its kinda disingenuous. It doesnt give me much real joy as I would get from reading news articles about those things.

The problem is that it doesnt matter if its in real life, or outside of it. How the fuck do I deal with this if I dont want to die alone haha?

>>17215651

I'd say the first. The second are fine, but kind of generic hipster. The first specifically complement your face and give you a bit more personality.
But either work.

>>17215685
I don't do that shit.
Ain't wastin my time pretending to be interested in the latest trends in women's footwear or whatever.

>>17215690
agree with this

>>17215651
nice face shape tho

>>17215693
Yea but there is an upper limit to things that you can talk about with women, I mean societal stuff, things that you share with humans in general, like the weather.

But what if as a guy, you are so extremely disinterested with even common things like that, that you are so far above this upper limit. That you just cant really feel joy in talking to them?

Like how the fuck do you recover from being too immersed into fringe (not autistic and singular, just rather too far away from the norm) interests, that you genuinely enjoy with others? I mean, we have these very specific communities here on the internet. Somewhere, some place, someone will want to know and to share information on how to avoid pm2.5 pollution (rough example). And a person like me may actually find loads of joy and interest to immerse myself into these kinds of things.

But good luck trying to connect with other people, normal people, when your interests are a diverse cast of these many fringe interests.

>>17215706
>But what if as a guy, you are so extremely disinterested with even common things like that, that you are so far above this upper limit. That you just cant really feel joy in talking to them?
Then you talk to only the few who feel the same, basically.
Only person i talk to right now is a chick. So yes they exist.

I don't want to make small talk with normal people anyway, that shit's boring. Got better things to do with my time.

>>17215706
Basically, you're being a picky faggot.

Meet more people, you'll surely find someone you'll connect with.

I happened to find a schizotypal druggie emo non-bi girl, just gotta look harder nigga.

Why do some girls like giving blowjobs? What do they like about it?

>>17215715
>>17215716
Fine, il keep on looking. Its not like I have been long back in the saddle anyhow. Its just fucking annoying. I am doing my best to not to appear too smug and try to approach things with interest, but its so goddamn hard. Even when I turn my ego off "reee normies etc.", some parts of my brain just give me the "social death" command where I just want to be at home, browsing some news website for some news bit that says that plants can feel touch, and then when I type out a comment about fucking them tenderly...

Somehow this specific news seeking behavior and/or weird posting is supposed to lead me to vagina's. If there was a map on these things, putting a pin on the area's and connecting it with string would be quite far away kek.

Friends please: >>17215344

>>17215751
What do you think you should do? Isnt it pretty obvious? If she likes you, you try to go further than just acquaintances.

>>17215726

It's a power trip, deciding when to allow him to come and knowing that his dick is between my teeth, so I could ruin his life any second. Plus, I love my bf, so I enjoy it when he enjoys it.

>>17215344
She decides whether or not she is "too good" for you, not you. You're presumably a straight dude, you can't judge how sexy you are or aren't. Let the one with the pussy judge here please. You never know what other people see in you. There are a lot of immature people online who seem to think that attraction is some system of points that can be easily broken down, but there is so much to appreciate about someone especially in a romantic relationship. Just something as being able to make her feel comfortable and at ease, like you're not going to get pushy on her or flip out over something, can be a big factor in growing to like someone. Give yourself a fucking chance here.

>>17215438
I like it, mine aren't supersensitive but especially licking I really enjoy. Not my favorite thing (neck licks ftw) but it feels quite good and I miss it a bit if it's not involved much.

>>17215469
What he said. Be upfront with her, say you don't want to lead her on and this is the situation, but you think she's quite cute and are flattered. Then leave it to her whether she still wants to be friendly occasionally or not.

>>17215726
It's really sexy to see someone you like a lot enjoy the shit out of himself because of something you are doing to him. Also the smell and taste of (clean) genitals can be really good, tender skin... It can also be seen as both a dominant (you are in control of the pace, easy orgasm denial) or submissive (serving the master idea) sex act. And you can just enjoy the sucking itself, most men like sucking on boobs right?

>>17213103
Women are selfish and immature.

They need to be the center of your attention constantly. They are irrational and succumb to emotional imbalance.

Basically children.

Ive convinced two close friends (not single handedly though) to drop their bitchy, leaching girlfriends and they are much happier with their new, older girlfriends who actually want to hang out with the group

>>17215908
Are you trying to rationalize this, or is this what you personally feel?

>>17215935
Most of it, just not really into dom/sub stuff.

Do I chase the girl and do some grand romantic gesture or let her go/give her time

>>17215952
Don't bother, that stuff shouldn't be necessary in real life. Spend your time on someone who reciprocates your efforts.

>>17215863
Thanks.

>>17215895
Thank you. You're so direct and nice at the same time.

For girls, how bad is it that I have a pantie fetish?

My closest female friends thought it was normal, but it got me instantly excommunicated with a person I liked.

>>17215980
You're welcome, good luck!

>>17216007
That would be a plus for me. Someone to appreciate my expensive taste in underwear, fuck yeah.

What does ":) xx" mean in an Internet conversation context?

>>17216442
smile kiss kiss

>>17216450
Oh. What the hell

>>17216007
i think this would be kinda hot desu

Signs a normal and non-sleazy guy is flirting with you and not just being friendly/funny?

>>17216502
spends quality time alone with you when he doesn't really needs to.

Does anyone here deal with having fear of intimacy?

How do you take steps to change this?

I have been lonely for about a year and it just dawned on me that my own fear of intimacy is why I am alone. I have ruined every chance I've had by not allowing myself to be comfortable with another person even though that is what I want more than anything.

I'm a really slow mover when it comes to women. Personality is at least 50% of attraction for me, and so I don't really get into a girl enough to make a move until I've gotten to know her decently. The problem is that this often gets taken as a lack of interest - I've heard through the friend grapevine several times that women who I'd be interested in getting to know were frustrated that I didn't seem to be interested - and I'm not sure what to do about it.

When I've tried to talk to people about this, they always seem to think that I'm some kind of purity weirdo who's only into super-romantic sex in long-term relationships or something, which isn't true. I'm totally down for hookups, FWBs, or whatever, it just has to be with somebody I like as a person.

Any advice for what to do about this?

>>17212191
>>17216794

Please respond

What is your best rape story?

>>17216811
It could be the fact that you want to really get to know a person, and also be down for whatever, which can make people feel you've invested in them only to lead them somewhere that's a hookup, and perhaps it feels bit meaningless to them if they're into you - also knowing you're hooking up with various others might be a turnoff and seen as a lack of interest in them

>>17215952
Let her know how you feel?

>>17216763
If you fall in love, accept it, surrender to it
A beautiful thing, I want to surrender

>>17215726
It's hot AF, big turn on if he's into it
Not so much if he's always take, and no lick action though

>>17216821
Being raped were the worst times of my life, there is no best - worst rape

>>17216878
Did you orgasm?

Sex is great because we want to fuck each other so fucking much, fuck! Because we"re in love! Not wanting to hurt each other, or make each other do something the other doesn't want to do, it's our life, fuck off!

>>17216881
Not from that. Fuck off!

>>17216902
I wasn't trying to be a dick I was just curious

>>17214175
Generally, girls like more masculine guys.

>>17216842
I'm not really leading anybody towards a hookup or anything, though. Only way I'd do that is if I liked somebody enough to date them but they only wanted a hookup, if that makes sense.

Also, I'm not hooking up with various others - totally to the contrary sadly, I got out of an LTR 3 years ago and haven't had anything since.

>>17217026
Ah, I see! Fair enough. I know what you mean, when there's someone you just really fancy so much, and it's more than physical, it's chemical bliss, only happened to me once I'm still in-it to this second, and I'm not complaining!

Do you hate or enjoy receiving anal sex?

>>17216924
masculine guys with soft hearts.

if you act too much like a faggot, that's going too far. If you act too much like a bro then that's too far.

Girls: femanon here: aside from masturbation I can no longer cum unless there at least two others present. I masturbate at least once a week and I used to be able to cum with one person in about one hour. When there's two people I can cum three time in half an hour. How can I fix this?

I have a male onlne friend whom I have known for years. When he was 16, he said "I think you'll be an amazing girlfriend... I mean... Hmmm, it's not that I think of you as my girlfriend but that was what I actually think of my "perfect girl" based on my hobbies at the moment. I'm sure perfect girls can be different and my image of what a perfect girl is like will probably change over time."

He was talking about what his perfect girlfriend was like (listing how she should share his hobbies) and I said I don't fit in the category then as I didn't like some of his hobbies.

Is he into me? Nowadays he sometimes say stuff which makes me suspect that he may like me, such as asking if I like his Whatsapp photo when I mentioned it.

So I got back into contact with this girl I stopped talking to a couple of years ago. Now shes assuming I'll be loaded shortly after I graduate and is flirting about being my french maid. She's my type physically to a T but my brain is telling me this is a bad idea.

Why is life so difficult

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>>17216763
>Does anyone here deal with having fear of intimacy?
Hell yes.
>How do you take steps to change this?
You quite simply just force yourself to do it. That's kind of what courage is about, after all. People who are naturally confident aren't brave, they're just goddamn stupid. Courage is when you're fucking terrified but go and do it anyway.

Find someone who's curious about you and likes having uncomfortable conversations and open up to them. Pic very related.
Actually talk to them. Reveal shit that scares you to say. The kind of shit that, after you press send and put your phone back in your pocket, makes you feel like you just pulled the pin on a grenade and jammed it down your trousers.

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Girls:
Do military men turn you on more

>>17217922
nothing sexy about a welfare queen. We all know you're a desk jockey when you wear your fatigues out in public.

virgin here and possibly looking to go to a prostitute to get it over and done with. do prostitutes care if their client is a virgin?

>>17217775
Probably.

>>17218000
No.

>>17218011
would you tell them that before you book with them or when you meet?

>>17218018
You wouldn't bring it up at all you awkward motherfucker.

Girls, do you find it pathetic for your ex to tell you they miss you? Currently feeling that type of way. Wanting to message my ex and see how things are, but I don't know if that would come off as weak/clingy/needy.

>>17218018

Althoughhhhhhh, there are prostitutes that are okay with "first timers" but that means paying for sex, not actually having sex.

You would benefit from expreience though, you might make it super akward, but at the end she's still getting paid.

>>17218029
where did this "you're paying for sex, not having sex" meme come from
If you're sticking your dick in a prostitute of course you're having sex with her even if you paid for it.

Men: Would you leave a current girlfriend (short term, not serious) for a girl you used to have strong feelings for?

>>17218043

I meant the term 'first timers' meant people contacting a sex worker for the first time, not that they specialized in men who never had sex before. Poor wording on my behalf.

>>17218292
The answer to a question that general can only be maybe. You need to give more context. And even then, every man is going to react differently. Some might stay with the sure thing purely out of laziness. Others are impulse driven and would want to chase after the greener grass. Some might want to just let the past stay in the past. Etc.

>>17218292
If the girl I had strong feelings for were into me all of the sudden then maybe.
Never been in that situation before.
I'd be seriously tempted.
I'd be sure to talk to the current gf though.

>>17218024
No, I'd love to get a message like that.
But that's because I miss him too and I think of him daily.
If we broke up in different terms, then maybe I would find it pathetic.

>>17218292
Maybe. There's a lot of different factors behind that question.

>>17218306
Thank you for your response.

I asked him out a couple months ago and he said he still had strong feelings, but because he was moving for work he didn't want to start something he knew would work only to have it hurt in a few months because of distance. He said it was the hardest decision he's ever made.

He started dating a girl a month ago. Now my work is moving me much closer to him (same company actually) and I feel like there could be a chance, but the girlfriend... Will probably just say something for closure.

How popular are ginger women really? I want to date one but that can obviously be hard to achieve if she's got a lot of people chasing her already.

Guys, do you think he'll respond to my offer at all? Or did I fuck up? I don't know how to deal with these things

i had a complicated thing with a guy that ended abruptly and badly for reasons out of both of our control and we didn't even get to say bye. I reached out to him recently to apologize and wish him well, and he responded saying that we should meet up if he's in town or if i'm in town (most likely to talk). So i messaged him an open offer to come visit my city(not too far from him) and hang out. He's seen the message but hasn't responded with anything.

to the women:

circumcised or uncircumcised, what do you prefer?

i've always felt ashamed for having an alien-dick, but i'm also proud that it's "the way it was made". what do you women think?

>>17218340
He already said yes didn't he?
Cautious optimism advised

t.pessimistic guy.

>>17218351
Don't care, though I'm from a place where circumcised is pretty rare and only really done for religious or medical reasons.

>>17218024
Yes

>>17217922
No, why would they?

>>17216811
>Personality is at least 50% of attraction for me
You're not a special snowflake for this

>so I don't really get into a girl enough to make a move until I've gotten to know her decently
That's what dates are for - getting to know someone.

>>17218366
god, i wish i lived there. i'm in USA and a lot of women think it's "dirty".

feels bad man.

>>17218360
Thanks. I feel cautious optimism too. The thing is, do I 'wait' for him? This opens a can of worms. I don't know how long he is going to take to respond if ever. I met someone new but if he asked me too i'd be with him in a heartbeat. But I guess that's my answer?

cautious optimism...maybe he could still want to be with me and thats why he wants to talk. Maybe he's so angry at me he wants to tell me to f off in person. I wouldn't blame him

Girls, why would you talk about your sexual fantasies with a male friend ?

Hard mode : She is my ex, we broke up several months ago and stayed friends

>>17218386
>Girls, why would you talk about your sexual fantasies with a male friend ?
No
>She is my ex
Maybe, depends on what our relationship is and was like

Girls, any of you here have that "I never fall in love" and/or "I don't want any relationships" attitude? Can you provide some insight on that? Like, where does it come from, how do you feel about it honestly, how does it align with your idea of your future, etc.

>>17218397
I don't know if it really counts, but until I started dating my boyfriend, I wasn't particularly fussed about relationships.

>>17218397
Yeah this is me. I just don't need that sort of drama in my life. I don't want to have to answer my phone when my bf calls me, or to make time for someone or text them back. I want to do whatever I want, when I want. If I want to lose my phone and drop off the face of the earth for 3 months(I've done that a few times) then thats what i'll do.

I had a relationship with a guy who broke my heart so that's where it came from I suppose. I just realized that I was too dependent on him and would have dropped everything for him which I'm not ok with. And i don't like feeling annoyed with people when they don't do dishes or laundry, because those are silly things to be annoyed about.

I want to do a lot of different things in my future. I don't think marriage is for me. I'd get so bored and I hate kids. Also I just really love dropping off the face of the earth too much. I think it might be sad as i always dreamed of getting married, but I realize now why every relationship I have was doomed to fail. Some people aren't made for things that others are

>>17218340
it was his idea to meet up, so its strange that he doesn't reply. maybe he changed his mind?