Guys: Suppose you're walking through a park or something and meet a girl who says she has two kids, one of them a boy. What are the odds that the other one is also a boy?

>>17205565
50%.
>not sure if tricking, stupid or trolling

Girls and guys

Why do people say girls and guys can't be actual friends?

I'm friends with a girl. Yes.. Before you all say it, I do like her. BUT, I understand and accept I'll never ever be in a relationship with her. We are close friends and I support her with what she does. She just told me she met some guy today that she really likes, and guess what? I'm being supportive. I want her to be happy, and this guy makes her feel happy. So I completely support her!

So why do people say this isn't possible?

>>17205565
The odds that a child is a boy or a girl is 50%, so in this scenario the odds are 50/50. If you're asking what are the odds of a woman having two boys the answer is 25%. (50% x 50%).

>>17205725
They're thirsty idiots so they can't imagine anything not having something to do with sex. Of course women and men can be friends.

How can I get a sweet girl for cuddling in a platonic friendship, if myself am flatulent?

>>17205725
>Why do people say girls and guys can't be actual friends?
I mostly state that not all of us are incapable of sorting out emotions. I mean yeah, if you're crushing on a girl good luck having a comfortable friendship with her. But I have a number of women I'm friends with that I have no interest in dating for various reasons.

>>17205565
>>17205599
>>17205729

typical poorly defined paradox

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boy_or_Girl_paradox

>>17205791
>>17205797

See, I actually like this girl. She's gorgeous and has a great personality. So yes I have some feelings for her. But I'm able to control them. I understand completely that we will never be togather, it sucks, but I accept the fact. So I'm able to hold down the feelings and just be a good friend for her. Giving her advice and I'm supportive of her new relationship. I just want her to be happy, I know it won't be with me. But she's important, so as long as she's happy I'm happy

>>17205565
1/3, since she didn't specify which child.

>>17205809
>So yes I have some feelings for her. But I'm able to control them.
Eh. Sounds like a bullshit situation, one that I wouldn't hang around for. Usually distance solves unrequited feelings.

>>17205816

What do you mean? I don't want to end this friendship

>>17205809
So if you're friends with her and she's friends with you and you're being honest here what's the problem? Does someone know you're into her and giving you shit for it?

>>17205817
If I had unrequited feelings for some woman I was friends with I'd just establish some distance and maintain it until I got over her. I'm not going to hang around a woman I'm interested in while shes seeing other people, but it's not like she's a bad person for doing that either.

>>17205818

People have said l am getting cucked. And told me I'm retarded because it's pointless

I have many questions for females, but I think they don't really know what they want consciously so it's a waste of time.

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>>17205854
They don't. But we don't either.
Welcome to the human race: we can put some funny-haired ape on the Moon, but we can't understand our own inner desires.

>>17205820

I think she would be hurt if I told her we should stop talking for a while

>>17205725
Im a guy and i have 3 female friends, i love them all but im not in love with then
They are like my little god damn sisters who exist for the purpose of bothering me

Some people need to realize its not just about getting your dick wet all the time

In my opinion girls can be as much as friends as any guy can be

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Girls,

How could I convince my girlfriend to care more about her appearance? She's absolutely beautiful, but her wardrobe consists of just t-shirts and jeans. And she never learned how to apply make-up. Would it be a good idea to just buy these things for her?

>>17205881
>I friendzoned 3 girls
Sure thing, hotstuff.

>>17205881
>White knighting this fucking hard

For girls,

what do you feel or think of when a guy you don't expect to like you confess their love towards you? I was thinking of doing so, but like
>>17205725
I can live without dating, I just want her to acknowledge my affection.

>>17205894
>Would it be a good idea to just buy these things for her?
No, that'd just be a waste of money. If she wanted to dress nicely and wear makeup, she would

>>17205725
>>17205951

Men and women can be friends, especially if they're married. But you guys are letting your self-esteem dictate your relationship, which isn't how they work. Someday you're going to look back on your days as a beta orbiter and cringe.

>>17205975
So does that mean I can't love her? or?

>>17205980
No, I'm saying you should be honest with yourself. Date people you want to date. Befriend people you want to befriend. Don't half-ass either of them.

>>17205988
So I date the girl, even if there really is no chance of me dating her?

>>17205995
So you're a mindreader, or at least dated enough women to make assumptions about what they're going to do? No? Then shut the fuck about about this "zero chance" bullshit. If this girl brushes you off, ask out a hotter one.

>>17206004
If she does brush me off, can I still be friends with her?

>>17206004
Oh please, I'm not that guy but some of us undesirables know exactly how undesirable we are. Asking increasingly hotter girls out isn't going to do shit.

>>17206053
this

So about 3 months ago I got friendzoned (I think) by this girl I went out on like 10 dates with. We haven't really talked as much since then but now she messages me 5 times a week, asking if I'm okay, how my day was, stuff like that. Problem is it's always really late in the night so I don't see it until morning. She wants to take me out on a date next month, and has been asking my friends about where I like to go. Is she just feeling bad about me taking her out so many times and trying to make up for it?

i have bad acne scars on my back/shoulders (but otherwise i'm pretty normal bodywise, kind of tall/skinny)

a girl that i know wants to go to the beach this weekend. is it weird to wear a shirt if it's like 80+ lol. i dont think she wants to go swimming or anything, just lay around

>>17206083
how the fuck do you get "friendzoned" after going on 10 dates? did you not ever make a move or what? i think theres like a 3 date rule that if he doesn't fuck then he's just weird. are you sure she knew they were dates and not just hanging out?

I think every time I talk with women I run out of topics to talk about or lose interest/focus in the conversation. I feel this has been happening with this girl I recently met.

What are some topics, other than school, that i could ask?

>>17205725
>Why do people say girls and guys can't be actual friends?

Because they themselves have low self-control and/or low emotional flexibility and they can't imagine that not being true for anyone else.

I'm a guy, I have female friends i'd never sleep with because they're basically little sisters in my head. I can even objectively say some are attractive as heck, but I just don't think of them sexually (ok, maybe the thought might cross my mind when i'm drunk, but that basically happens to ANYONE when I'm drunk). Part of it might be I know too much about them to want to get involved, another is I just have too much self control, whatever the case, they're just no fly zone for me.

My best friend is a girl. I've slept with her. We were never in a relationship, we've never considered a relationship, we both are now in relationships that we're very happy with, are still best friends, and get along with eachother's partners very well.

Even when it does happen, sex does not have to mean you can't be friends.

>>17205894
I'm a dude, but you could try surprising her with a special occasion that basically requires it (like a REALLY nice romantic restaurant, a super classy event like a ballet or opera, or whatever), and then compliment the fuck out of her--act all shocked and tell her how stunning she is, how beautiful, and how you guys should do this more.

Do girls really care about some acne scars? I only have a little, but they're like right on my forehead, basically in the worst possible spot. Other than that I'd say I'm above average, but I feel this really ruins it.

Is it a big problem in terms of attractiveness?

>>17206162
Somewhere I heard you can use F.O.R.D.

Friends/Family.
Occupation
Recreation
Dreams

Or some shit like that, I suck at conversations myself. Also heard you should avoid R.A.P.E.

Religion
Abortion
Politics
Exes?

Can't remember, whatever.

>>17206284
depends..you really need to post a picture if you want an actual opinion since all scars are different

you can block out your eyes and all that

obviously clear skin is preferable..

Girls, what are some good ways to initiate conversation with you at a bookstore?

>>17206423
>be attractive
>don't be unnatractive
>say words
>look in my direction

pretty much that..

you're not going to win over people with just words. learn to read the reaction and know when you're not wanted.

>>17206448
Ok, thank you for explaining the mechanics of conversation and attraction in such riveting detail. I'm mainly looking for things to talk about. Is it books? Authors? Genre? Something entirely unrelated?

>>17206463
the mechanics of the conversation are you can literally say anything if the other person finds you attractive. don't overthink it, kiddo.

What are some tips to lasting longer besides:

- thinking about something gross/distracting yourself
- edging
- wearing condoms

Okay parenting question.

How do you teenagers?

For girls, what do you expect in a more dominant man? Just blanket things. I have a submissive personality all around (especially around women). I'm not trying to inflict bodily harm, but I want to control the situation a bit.

>>17206477

Cum before the act of sex. I used to meet up my gf/ex w/e at her place. I would jack off an hour ahead and my libido was significantly cut, but enough for me to want to fuck.

Also try to pleasure her, do some g-spot stimulation with your fingers, or eat her out. If I was nearing my end, I would just focus on her.

>>17206503
Depends on the chick. When I want to be dominated, I want the guy to pin me against the wall, on the floor, wrestle me into positions he wants. I particularly love when my guy sinks his teeth into my shoulder while fucking me from behind. I also want spanks and I want him to grab my throat and tell me I'm nothing more than his sex toy. I want to leave his house covered in bite marks and bruises.

But most importantly, I want him to be confident in everything he does. If he acts like he's the best thing ever, and he commands me to do any type of weird shit, I'll do it

>>17206509
If he cums before sex, it takes quite a while before he can even get hard again. Even if he does cum, after he gets hard he cums in the same amount of time. He can only make me cum by eating me out, or fucking me if I also play with my clit, and I have no idea how to get him to make me cum by fingering me. I feel bad because sometimes I just want him to pound me for a while, even though I know I won't cum from it. I just like the feeling but I feel like I'm being unreasonable because he can't really do that

>>17206503
this is a good description
>>17206512

confidence is everything. you don't need to be full bdsm commando. just watch james deen's porn vids and youll kind of get the idea. he grabs the girls shoulders and pushes them toward him, he tosses them around and puts them how he wants, he doesnt "ask" permission but he's really not doing anything out of order either.

one example of my own time is my boyfriend used to just fuck me laying down, he would put his arms on the bed to support himself and just do the normal in-out. after a few weeks of dating he started grabbing my neck/shoulders and pulling my entire body towards him with every thrust. or he would grab my entire body and just go crazy while encompassing my body with his. it made me feel a lot more "desired" if that makes sense, it felt more animalistic

>>17206523
>or fucking me if I also play with my clit

i think that's normal. i've dated 3 guys and i could never "get off" with just the penetration. i had to use my vibrator while they were fucking me. that isnt meant as an insult to them or anything, i love sex and all that but the vibrator is really what pushes me over the edge

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>>17206403
I think it looks better in the photo but this is it.

>>17206530
>animalistic

Holy fuck this. Like okay, have some talks with your chick about her boundaries, because what's completely fine for some girls is completely unacceptable for others. Some chicks have really specific boundaries; I'm fine with being called a bitch, but being called a whore is unacceptable. After you figure out her boundaries though, go fucking wild. And always have a safe word just in case she gets a little intimidated from how into it you get

>>17205809
That whole pedistal mounting of your friend is sort of putting me off. Where does your happiness come from? Does it purley rely on her happiness?

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>>17206539
This is probably a better view

>>17206512
>>17206530
>>17206542

I haven't had sex in years, so I've actually been seeing a prostitue. I just feel like a bitch because I always end up asking for permission. I'm trying to get back into it, but my depressed mood doesn't help.

I thank you all! I've been having fun exploring the vulva and making her cum without penetration. But I do want to have full on sex where we both cum lol.

Do girls not like/not value a guy who sends grammatically correct messages? I've been talking to some guys online and not one of them has used correct grammar. It's not capital letters and no punctuation as far as the eye can see.

>>17206572
>I'm so much better than these guys, why don't girls like meeeeeeee

>>17206579
No, it's just that I'm the only guy doing it, so I'm wondering if it's worth it.

>>17206572
texting isn't formal, don't be a cockhead

>>17206523

I mean like an hour before you meet up or something. But if it take him the exact same amount of time to cum, then that's a bit hard to work with.

Clit stimulation is key, in basically everything. I think the statistic is 10% - 25% can actually cum from pure penetration. The fingering is actually fun to do, it's the "come hither" motion. I used to finger my ex in public. You might just want to explore erogenous zones too.

Btw, is it his first time in a sexual relationship? I used to cum pretty quick, but I assume it was the anxiety of feeling overwhelming pleasure. After a while I got used to the feeling and numbed myself.

There is also a drug option, but that would be horrible all around. I hear having sex while on e can actually cause you to feel number when having sex without drugs. But you also might not feel anything afterwards.

>>17206589
You aren't.

And she pobably doesnt like you so it wouldn't matter.

Ladies, what makes a good fuck buddy? Me and this girl have just started hooking up and the sex is fucking insane and I would like to keep having it

>>17206605
I'm not texting any girls, I was just curious.

>>17206618
Ah. Well. Yeah texting is best and easy with shorthand. Typing everything out wont make you smarter.

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Anon who has fallen for another girl online here.

>>17205700
>f you've both until now never had feelings like that for a girl, oh well, then I would consider both of you lucky for having randomly found each other and clicking so well.
I haven't asked her if she has ever loved another girl before. I'm kind of scared to find out. If she says yes I would be really intimidated.
I think it might be platonic feelings but, maybe not quite. The feelings I have are like, I just want her to be happy no matter what, I want to take care of her. I adore her. I think she's the best person in the world. But when she tells me she loves me it like, actually turns me on. We make each other so jealous too. Even just over the stupidest things that don't mean anything. Like I start to see red if I notice anyone else express interest in her at all. I've never felt like that for another person. I think about her all the time to the point of distraction. I got the courage to tell her that the other day. I was so afraid she would be repulsed but, she was so receptive. She asked me to tell her again. But half the time we just talk about hot guys we like and share pictures. Like this is fucked how am I supposed to make any sense of this? I'm so apprehensive to talk to her because I'm scared of messing things up. Did any of this happen for you? What happened in your situation?

Anyway thank you so much for responding thanks for listening to my rant.

Guys,

When you tire of your girl and stop wanting to spend time with her, what's the ideal course of action for her to take?


>>17206083
>Is she just feeling bad about me taking her out so many times and trying to make up for it?
Not quite. She wants to see you again. That's the main motivation here. The gesture of taking you out this time is being made to signify that. She doesn't want you to assume that she's only interested in getting another all-expenses-paid evening out of you.

>>17206572
I do. Not giving a fuck about that sort of thing seems to have become more trendy than usual lately. Those who appreciate fucks being given will appreciate it regardless of what's trending. Same for those who don't care one way or the other though. I think the question of whether it's worth doing or not just comes down to personal standards.

>>17206618

Like the other anon said, shorthand is easier, but I'm a dick and try to use proper grammar. If I may be so frank, it was for my own benefit. I have seen others write essays with; lol or idk and the ilk. I also was dating a girl for so long that my own writing was turning to simplistic drivel. I couldn't let myself deteriorate further, so I decided to write as correctly as possible.

I do think people in general might like texting/messaging people that speak in their own manner. Like mimicry and all that social norm bullshit.

>>17206667
>Guys,
>When you tire of your girl and stop wanting to spend time with her, what's the ideal course of action for her to take?

That's kind of ambiguously worded...

By tired do you mean in the long term? Like tired of the relationship?

Or do you mean in the short term? Like we've been hanging out every minute of every day for the last X days and he says he needs to go chill with some friends?

My ex text me who I'm not over and it made me physically sick
We broke up three months ago and stopped talking after a lot of drama about a month 1/2 ago
I was thinking of her and had a dream about her the night before, I shit you not, in the dream she said she needed to talk to me but it ended after that. She still obviously holds way too much control over me emotionally and I shouldn't text her because I was just starting to progress, but I want to reply? I'm already making a big deal out of it and nothing has even happened. Maybe if I reply back she won't even respond and then I can delete the conversation and not hear from her again?
I hate feeling like this, I don't ever want to be in love again

If a guy is Bi is that a deal breaker for girls?

Girls and guys, how shy are you?

I know I don't have THE best looks but I'm also not a burn victim either so some girls might like my appearance, the real problem is very likely shyness.

Yes I'm shy as well.

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I'm a neckbeard who has never intentionally gone out just to socialize at a bar or such, and I'm trying out online dating before I go out in person and fuck up things more. How do I talk to women online if I want to set up a date? I get a mental block when I try to think of something to say to get the conversation going.

>>17206732
Guy. Unless I'm good friends with you I won't even start a conversation.

What does the "I hope all is well/Hope you're doing well" text from an ex you haven't talked to usually signify?

Doubt the ex in question is genuinely interested in my current wellbeing lol

>>17205894
I'm in a similar situation I guess, I mostly wear jeans (and they're quite old) and tshirts/tops/bluses (sundresses sometimes) and never wear any make up because I don't know how to apply it, don't have much and don't want to spend money/time on it.

I'd be hurt if someone who met me that way started dating me expecting me to change, because I don't think it's wrong (especially the make up part, I just don't like make up and refuse to spend resources on something I don't like).

I am however okay with going to a make up artist on occasion/occasionally wearing clothes my partner likes.

>>17206732
Guy here too. Not at all shy, but really I have nothing to talk about? Or really anything someone else might be interested, like politics, economics, and gentrification in my area.

I don't really talk to other guys either. I might compliment both sexes, but because of a specific shirt. I'm a metalhead and nerd, so I'm often in awe of cool shirts.

Oh! I do talk to people to get information from them. Things I need at the moment, assignments from class I didn't concentrate on, or a missed bus.

>>17206732
Girl here, I'm probably somewhere in the middle. Not the most outgoing, but not totally shy either. I used to be a lot more shy but I've learnt to come out of my shell. I can strike up conversations with random people around me without too much trouble, but I know when to back off

>>17206693
Long term. Not tired of the relationship being a thing, just no strong desire to be an involved part of it.

>>17206743
Curiosity. Either because horniness, loneliness, or seeking closure. It's the "safe" way of asking how you've been. It's not phrased as a question in case it doesn't get any response, because "welp guess anon just had nothing to say" feels less shitty than "damn anon won't even talk to me".

I don't know if this is the right thread, because I want to see opinions from men and women.

A little background: Had a crush but she hasn't the same feelings for me. We kept "somehow" friends but we didn't have seen us much after a while. After that we didn't see or talked for over a year, then (for me out of nowhere) she messaged a friend to have a meet-up with him, me and a third friend. At some points at that evening I acted somehow rude towards her but the rest of the evening was pretty okay/fine (well that's what my friend told me after I asked him, if I might acted to rude against her).
Now: After that evening (6 months ago) my friend told me, he messaged her and asked her to meet him at his new apartment and this bothers me. I don't know why he invited her, I'm somehow afraid/worried about this, especially because this friend didn't invite me exactly, only told about her coming over. I think I still have too much feelings for and it bothers me that he wants to meet me. I might be speculating but is he wanting to fuck her? Does is seems so or am I over thinking this? This friend is a good friend but I'm asking myself why he has to take this ex-crush-girl instead of almost every other girl in the world. I also don't want him meeting her but I don't have any right to tell him to reject this idea, but at the same time I'm having such a bad feeling that this may affect the friendship.
So all in all, what should/could I do? Am I right with the assumption of him wanting to fuck her? And why might he told me about it and not invited me exactly too (I mean that's the reason I suspect he wants to fuck her)?

P.S.: This friend also told that he asked another girl too, but told me also he wasn't interested in having both girls at the same time there. He also talked about making a party but did not elaborate more on it.

American girls

Do you think guys with slight German accents are attractive?

Why should I get a hairstyle?

Every single one of them looks too stereotypical and cliché to me, and I feel like a copycat of I get one, I just get a simple haircut and take care of my hair normally, and that's it.

It's not like I'm some peacock or some shit, or one of those birds that hoard blue items.

Bitches love blue items.

>>17206537
That is in fact normal. I thought I was broken for the longest time but I read up on it and like 75% of women don't consistently orgasm from penetrative intercourse (while still enjoying it, though, orgasms aren't all that important)

>>17206616
Well, not falling for each other would be ideal, but we all know that's what will happen and then one of you will be hurt, friendship over, sex over.

>>17206765

If you're not in a committed marriage, there's not much you can do. You can try counseling, but both parties have to be willing to work on it.

If one person just flat out isn't interested in the relationship anymore and isn't willing to do anything to fix that, that's typically the end of the relationship and there's very little anyone can do to change that.

>>17206634
Yay, I'm glad you responded.
Okay, first of all, why would you be intimidated if she has had feelings for girls in the past? I thought that might be reassuring in a way, so you could tell her all this stuff you're telling us here, and maybe she'll get you better if it's not a super confusing first time thing for her as well.
And honestly the way you describe it, it doesn't sound very platonic. Protective, jealous, sexual, passing all checks here. If I may be so curious, when you say she turns you on, is she sexually attractive to you too, physically, or more in a "makes me tingly when she tells me she loves me" way? I mean, can you imagine sleeping with her, or would that be out of the question, gross, weird etc?
I'm not sure how much sense there is to make, sounds like you're in love, heads over heels. Yeah, it's with a girl and that's a novum, but apart from that, it's love. You should definitely NOT be scared of talking to her, the opposite, you should just tell her all this stuff - after all she seems to be into you as well. Don't sweat it, I know that's easier said than done but you seem like a nice, bright girl, I'm sure it will all work out for you two.
Now about my situation, it's really nothing exciting. Until I was 18, I didn't really think of myself as a romantic/sexual person. Guys barely got a passing glance, I said No to whatever dates I'd be invited to, if I did get turned on it seemed to be randomly (looking back, there were always girls on my mind but I didn't really realize that, or maybe didn't want to) and one night I was out with friends and met a girl and we just got along super well and talked all through the night without looking at anyone else, and she kept saying I was cute, and stupid me thought, huh, what a nice girl, I don't normally get compliments like that from my friends! In the end she asked me if I had a girlfriend, and if I wanted to have another drink at her place.
1/2

>>17206786
>So all in all, what should/could I do? Am I right with the assumption of him wanting to fuck her? And why might he told me about it and not invited me exactly too (I mean that's the reason I suspect he wants to fuck her)?

Why does this matter. This is none of your business. She's made it clear she's not interested in you. Move on.

If it's honestly bugging you, say something and let him decide (don't make demands or give ultimatums, just lay it out about how you feel), but be aware you're being a bitch about it all.

>>17206634
>>17206865
So, obviously the first thing on my mind was to politely tell her I'm sorry, but I'm not gay, but somehow I choked on the words and, suddenly, wasn't all that sure I wouldn't be lying, anyway. So I told her that instead, that I'm really not sure what I am if I am anything at all, and that I'm sorry if it feels like I led her on all night, and actually teared up (thanks alcohol and emotional stability). She was really sweet and understanding and said she'd still want me to have a drink with me in her apartment, if I wanted to talk things through properly. So that's what we did. Just talked through the night, about everything, my new feelings and I cried a bit and we hugged and cuddled a lot and, well, I did realize I was attracted to her. I mean, her eyes and her lips at first, but all of the sudden she seemed to be hot and I just wanted to kiss her. Obviously I was also a huge pussy, soo I didn't, but for the first time in my life I actually felt myself attracted to someone else, which was an incredible feeling.
So, in short, I did sleep at her place, we didn't as much as kiss that night though, but spent the next week together as much as possible, as friends at first, getting to know each other better, normal stuff. Didn't talk much about being gay. About a month later she just randomly asked me if I was attracted to her, or if that was just drunk rambling. Red-faced and stuttering, I admitted I was. Her response was "oh thank goodness, I've been waiting for that for a month!", we kissed and that's how I met your mother, kids. Joking aside, but we've been together ever since, a little over three years now, and I couldn't be happier. Looking back I feel so silly worrying about my sexuality or whether it was 'right'. The moment it happened, it felt like the most wonderful, natural thing.

Okay I'm rambling again, sorry! I hope this helps or was at least a bit interesting.

>>17206784
I'm definitely not feeling inclined to reply, but I guess it won't hurt too much. I'll just reply and then delete it and hopefully they won't try to further the conversation anymore.

Not at 5am though, that would definitely be suspicious.

I went on a date with this girl on Sunday, it was the best date Ive ever been on. Not cause of what we did, but because of how well we get along, we did nothing but talk and laugh. Shes so funny, Ive never laughed so much. Then we made out for a little bit at the end. I've never wanted to seem someone so soon after just seeing them. How do I proceed without scaring her I guess? Shes moving for school in August and doesn't know if she wants a relationship, and thats fine. I just wanna see her.

>>17206810
I got a fade for the first time ever last week, and it looks great. Just go to a good barber shop or salon and pay 40$ and ask them to do what they think is best. They are almost always right.

>>17205561
Yes I have question,If theres a girl I like from work should I ask her out even though like 3 ppl are already hitting on her

>>17206905
Probably not honestly, it gets annoying.

Can guys be friends with women they are attracted to?

How can I trust anyone completely?

How do I know they won't lie to me, or try to manipulate me, or try to kill me off or steal from me, or frame me of a crime I have never committed or planned?

>>17206914
You're suffering from paranoid delusions, find a therapist.
But quickly, they're getting closer.

>>17206870
I know it's not my business but I'm sitting here and feel that this might affect the friendship in a bad way and I want to avoid this.

Is it egoistic of me, that I'm asking myself if my friend doesn't think about my feelings or what might do this to the friendship?

>>17206913

You basically just asked this question?
>>17205725

>>17206914
>How do I know they won't lie to me,
You don't. You take a leap of faith.

>or try to manipulate me, or try to kill me off or steal from me, or frame me of a crime I have never committed or planned?

You seek professional help because you're paranoid and some deep rooted psychological issues that you seriously need to address.

>>17205725
Because it's (unfortunately) rare. I have a female friend (yes, I do find her attractive) with whom I have been best friends for more than fifteen years. We were in high school together and have stayed best friends since then.
We are now married to other people (there was no upsets when we were dating other people) and are still best friends. I have supported her through so much shit and vice versa.

Hang on to her. You have a very good and reliable insight into the female psyche, as long you tell each other everything, and are honest with one another.

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>>17206909
Well it was worth asking either way

>>17206914
You need psychological help, you have very deep paranoia that's taken root of you.

You cannot go through life thinking this way, and an advice board is the wrong place to look for it. You have to get professional help.

>>17206920
>Is it egoistic of me, that I'm asking myself if my friend doesn't think about my feelings or what might do this to the friendship?

Yes.

If it bugs you that much, TALK TO HIM. But like I said, know you're being a bitch and talk to him under that mentality (that YOU are the one who is in the wrong, not him).

Your issues and insecurities are your own, and he is not your mother. At most he should have your back, but it is not AT ALL his job or responsibility to take of care your shit--that you can't even handle yourself.

Sorry if that sounds harsh as fuck, but that's the reality of life.

>>17206634
Hi, I'm not the other anon. I am very curious as to how your situation developed (I'm an extremely curious person when it comes to such things) I'm a straight married man.

You don't have to reply. I'm just extremely intrigued to hear your story. You can change the names and places if you are scared of a stalker incident. I really want to know your story.

Please

>>17206919
>>17206924
>>17206936
>>17206914
>Psychological issues

It's called Instinct. It's not a mental illness.

Without instinct we would not be living beings.

>>17206523
My wife is the same you need to do things which provide internal and external stimulation.

http://badgirlsbible.com/cowgirl-sex-position
Don't listen to everything they say. I gave the link so that you can know what the basic thing should be. Your needs to be grinding his in a forward, backward motion as you are going up and down. He needs to arch his back slightly and push his tummy out in order to help with the intensity of the grinding.

http://sex.sofeminine.co.uk/sex-sexuality/sex-positions-for-a-large-penis-d49853c582581.html
That's my personal favorite. It also requires both of you to be physically fit (if either one of you have a fat belly, you will not orgasm from it)

http://www.examiner.com/article/the-ten-sex-positions-women-enjoy-most-belly-down

He has to use one hand to stimulate your clitoral region (not just the clit, the whole region). I have not been able to get my wife to orgasm from this one unless I was nibbling on her ear or whispering things to her in the ear.

http://www.examiner.com/article/the-ten-sex-positions-men-enjoy-most-full-mast
It's best that he rather sits on his heals instead of laying like missionary. He will then have to stimulate your clitoral region with the palm of his hand.
BE CAREFUL!! Tell him when you are climaxing, I got a penile injury from this one because my wife cannot control her hip movements when she climaxes and she bent my penis a bit too much when she climaxed.


You will need to tell him how you want him to stimulate your clitoral region and don't expect (you and him) to get it all right the first time.

>>17207011
*I meant to say that your torso needs to be grinding his in a forwards, backwards motion

>>17206820
Orgasm are not important to my wife either. They are to me though. It has a lot to do with men feeling that they didn't enjoy sex if they didn't climax. While this rhetoric doesn't apply to most women, we feel like it's our duty as husbands\boyfriends\fwb to make this happen to our wives\girlfriends\fwb.

Radical feminists think that PiV is rape.

Why?

>>17207022
Yeah I understand that (and I'm rather glad that most men want to pleasure their girls, of course) and the ones who don't are usually selfish assholes either way (not that there aren't incredibly sexually selfish girls as well).
I think the biggest issue is communication.

>>17207023
What's PiV?

>>17206865
I guess I would feel intimidated because I think that would mean she has more control in this situation than I do, since I have no experience and don't know what the hell's going on, really.
>"makes me tingly when she tells me she loves me"
It's this. Sleeping with her...that doesn't necessarily gross me out. It doesn't appeal to me either. But I don't think I would refuse her. Pleasing her makes me happy. I can relate to what you're saying about guys, I never had boyfriends, I thought I was asexual too. But, I got those feelings once I fell in love with someone for the first time. And I do lust after guys. That is the part I can't make sense of. I guess I don't want to talk to her because I feel like I'm living a fantasy right now. A lot of things are uncertain to me but things feel nice just how they are. I have questions but I'm afraid of knowing the answers. Thank you for sharing your story, it's really really cute. Such a sweet story and it's great that you guys are still together. I'm not necessarily worried about my sexuality, I think turning out to be gay would be super annoying though. I hope I'm not, no offense.

>>17206975
Oh we actually met on 4chan in one of these general threads. And we just started talking to each other a lot. We clicked. We can pick out each other's posts just by looking at them now. This is really recent developments so there's not all that much of a story, sorry.

>>17207023
Because they are stupid.

Stupid people will stay stupid whatever their ideology is.

>>17207194
Well that doesn't necessarily give her any control, just means she might know what's going on better than you and can help you both understand and deal with the situation. Doesn't have to be a power play.
Honestly if you've never been much interested in guys, who knows. You did say something about sharing guy pics or some such thing though? If you're just kinda indifferent about sex (with guys and gals), maybe you are asexual, you can still be romantically attracted to people of either gender of course. I guess it depends how 'tingly' we're talking here, so to speak.
And I totally understand being insecure and afraid, that's just normal in your situation, nobody would be all cool about something that's suddenly so confusing - like I said I was in the same spot, which isn't to say it'll turn out the same way for you.
And thanks! Yeah I feel like I'm very lucky with how it's turned out and it still feels unreal to me sometimes.
None taken, I understand that being gay certainly complicates one's life, but it wouldn't be the end of the world either, I hope you know that, too.

Another thing, if you met her on 4chan I suppose you live far away from each other, so it's not like the "sex problem" is one that's likely to arise anytime soon, so maybe just put that on hold for now anyway?
Well I mean there's cybersex and some such things but I dunno if you're into that.

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>>17207209
Yeah, we like talking about guys, who we find hot, etc. I think you're right about the sex thing. Indifferent. It's a good way to describe myself when it comes to that I think. But when I say tingly, I mean, really. It was quite the physical reaction. And yeah I think she may even live in a different country. I'm not sure if she would even want to take it as far as to actually meet. But I do. I have dreams us about being together. If I could hold her in my arms I think I'd die. I'm not into cyber/phone sex. I tried it once and I felt so lonely after I cried lol. So yeah, not for me.
And yeah I know it wouldn't be the end of the world. It just seems so ridiculous to me right now that I even have to consider something like this. This really came out of nowhere. I never even had the slightest feeling like this for a girl before. If anything does come of this though I hope it works out as lucky as it did for you. Thanks so much for talking to me, I really have no one close to me I can tell this to...

>>17207215
Well, a bit of tingliness hasn't killed anyone yet, so yeah I'd say unless it's crazily important to her that you further discuss or do anything about sexuality, just let it rest for the time being.
I mean maybe you'll wake up one day really wanting to sleep with her all of a sudden (if you dream about being together, that's a start, and heartachingly sweet too) but for now, it's not a priority I'd say.
If you feel like you want to meet her (which isn't to say land in bed together, obviously) I'd tell her that. Not pressuring her or anything, just letting her know that you care very much for her and if at all possible, you'd think it cool to meet her tête-à-tête.
For what it's worth, I get you about the cybersex, never saw the appeal myself. I mean I love to talk to my girlfriend when she's away and there's certain things she can say, in a certain tone of voice, that go straight down my spine and flip a switch in my brain from "normal" to "ohgodohgodohgod" buuut this whole dirty talk business isn't my thing either. Always seemed a little bit ridiculous honestly, role playing and such.

And hey, no problem! Really I'm glad if I'm helping, even if it's just listening and bouncing thoughts around. Besides, it's not like I'm doing much else today, I broke my ankle during ballet (yeah I'm gracious like that) so I'm sorta bed-ridden anyway.

>>17207184
Penis in Vagina

>>17207245
So there's people who think any sex is rape, they obviously hate fun and are stupid and can be safely ignored. Why bother wanting to immerse oneself in the reasoning of maniacs?

>>17207247
Kids believe bullshit easily for once, that's the real problem.

And once the kids become adults, they're afraid to have sex in fear of becoming a rapist by simply being or breathing or having genitals.

This shit literally needs to stop.

>>17206667
> She wants to see you again. That's the main motivation here. The gesture of taking you out this time is being made to signify that. She doesn't want you to assume that she's only interested in getting another all-expenses-paid evening out of you.
Why though? She's already said in really uncertain terms that she doesn't want a relationship with me. We talk a less, but still regularly, and she sees me almost every week.

>>17207249
Honestly I've never encountered that particular brand of bullshit anywhere but in incredibly small amounts online, most women, indeed most feminists even, are pretty normal, reasonable people.
And since the kind of person who thinks of all sex as rape isn't super likely to have offspring, I doubt it's all that much of a problem.

Questions for guys, how often in a relationship do you usually have sex? How often would you like to? Is once a week "sufficient" or would you eventually get bored/too horny or whatever and go looking for another girl to get it?

>>17207328
First 2 month as mutch i can get
Than it's slowly faiding away till I'm bored of it

>>17207328
I need it almost everyday and if its past day three I start to chew the leash off. Can barely handle a week without it during their period.

>>17207346
How do you mean fading away? Both of you just gradually wanting it less?

>>17207352
Really? Huh. "Chewing the leash off" meaning?

>>17207370
>Chewing the leash off
Doing unfaithful acts. I could only do this if I felt like my current S.O isn't loyal to me or a manipulative liar which would lead me to checking the one in twenty side bitches.

>>17207328
For most guys, once every three days is sufficient.

Most guys would not go and look for it from other women. But I would say that the best way to describe the urge to have sex is that it's a bodily function. Much the same as feeling hungry, or needing to go to the bathroom.
It's an urge that can be controlled with practice.

I'm not proud of it (primarily because I could have gone longer, if I were single I could have gone longer), but I went 3 months without fapping, sex or wet dreams (yes, I can control my dreams aswell (lookup lucid dreaming)). I did however encounter 'health side effects' during week five.

That really went off topic.

The point is, for most men, it's once every three days.

>>17207383
I'm confused, you said if it's past three days you start doing that, but also only if you feel/think your girlfriend is unfaithful as well? Like it evens out?

>>17207386
That seems somewhat reasonable - but as you said it's more of an urge and there's masturbation anyway. I was just wondering what guys generally consider normal because I recently met a guy who told me if he's not fucking his girlfriend daily he "might as well be fucking someone else who can satisfy me" which seemed absurdly macho to me but it got me thinking.

>>17207396
No it doesn't even out, I'm not a scummy cheater. I meant the leash as the only thing controlling me to stay.

>>17207398
So it'd be a reason for a breakup, though?

>>17207401
No, stop being weird.

>>17207405
Sorry. I'm just trying to get a bit of insight into the male mind.

How do you people have sex at 100 degrees in rooms without AC?

Its nightmare tier and makes me frustrated as fuck

>>17207413
I don't, personally.

>>17206859
Ok so as the guy in the situation what, from your perspective, would be the ideal course of action for her to take?

>>17206878
Eh you're not obligated to. Are you the sort of person who has a hard time saying no to people? If so I'd just as soon as let this one go and forget about it. Trust your instincts.

>>17206914
>How can I trust anyone completely?
You can't. You don't need to. Think of it like condoms. They're not 100% effective but 98% is enough to be widely accepted as reliable. People need to earn enough of your trust to be reliable. That's well within the realm of possibility. Family, close friends, partners, etc regularly achieve this level of trust between each other. How? By earning, reciprocating, and maintaining it.
>How do I know they won't lie to me, or try to manipulate me, or try to kill me off or steal from me, or frame me of a crime I have never committed or planned?
Just pay attention basically. Be aware of what kind of person they are. If you observe them doing shit like that to others, then you've reason to perhaps be a bit wary and keep them at arm's length. If the culture you live in is one where realistically the killing and framing people type stuff happens most often in stories and movies and shit, you'll know the douchey nature of such folks long before any situation arises where you may be tempted to allow them the opportunity to fuck you over that severely, and that's if you ever even meet people that shitty to begin with. (And if these thoughts & concerns are so intrusive as to impede daily functioning or your ability to form relationships, go talk to a therapist because that's legit paranoia and they can help you regain your ability to discern when a threat is genuine.)

>>17206919
lmfao

>>17207023
Because they are pants-on-head fucking retarded. Laugh and call them out on it when they say stupid shit. Laugh at the triggered buttmad tantrum they'll invariably launch into. Pop your earbuds in. Turn 360° and walk away.

>>17207260
No idea, that's just what I got from reading it. What prompted the transition from going on dates to not going on dates and talking less frequently, any idea? And
>She's already said in really uncertain terms that she doesn't want a relationship with me.
>really uncertain terms
Was this a typo? Like for the phrase "no uncertain terms" maybe, or was she actually not certain about it when she said she doesn't want a relationship with you? Also when did she say that? And did she happen to specify that she wants to take you out but just as friends, or is it a date?

>>17207581
>Turn 360° and walk away.

But I'm not a vegan.

>>17207626
Making me feel old here lol. Moonwalk then. Laugh at any vegans you pass too if desired.

This anon makes a valid point >>17207249, that's all.

>>17207386
>>17207328

"most men" that's not fucking true.
For me, at least, i'd like to do it 1-2 times a DAY, every other day can be great too if both of us are working and are tired, but less than that and i'll feel neglected

>>17207673
>That doesn't apply to me... THAT MEANS IT DOESN'T APPLY TO ANYBODY!
Fuck off, you underage twat.

Ladies

I've been told a few times my personality is very similar to Sherlock from Sherlock (on Netflix). Albeit, with some more humor and empathy. I kind of look like him too.

So, how do girls feel about "know-it-all" guys? Particularly guys that know what others think about them, so they refrain from being annoying, negative, etc..

Can it get "old" after a while? Like the feeling of knowing your man can just answer almost any question you have or know exactly how/why you feel certain ways.

>>17207673
Most men it's not every man.
My boyfriend can easily go a week without sex. My ex needed it every day.

>>17205725
this is how a cuck talks.

>>17207683
Your personality got old before I even finished reading your post.

>>17207683
Seems like it'd get annoying pretty fast. The constant need to shove down everyone's throat how smart one is always struck me as rather immature - teenagers eager to prove their intelligence.
That being said I doubt you, or indeed anyone, can answer 'almost any question' or know exactly how I feel about what at any given moment. Sherlock is unrealistic wank for teenagers to feel smart about themselves - and teenage girls to quite literally wank to.
Also Bentobox Candlestick simply isn't very attractive, to me personally.

Femanons,
which is your prefered way of masturbating and makes you cum the hardest?
I want to try new things.

>>17205725
Because of people like you. That's not friendship.
You're not her friend. You're her orbiter. You like her, she likes the validation she gets from you. You're just a hopeless doormat who wants to have some female attention, and she's a bitch that strings you along to get attention.

>>17207716
Depends, how much are you willing to spend? Because Lelo is pricey stuff.
If you mean without helpers, showerhead/pool jets in the bath. Not exactly creative but gets the job done and it's much easier/quicker/better than just my fingers.

>>17206667
Cuck him and cut contact.

>>17207683
Never seen it but I tend to love the type you're describing. Unless you're the sort who can't handle being wrong and/or is a dick about being questioned. Bit vexatious then.

>>17207741
>Cuck him
and into the trash it goes.

Appreciate the response but it's just not useful.

Both, will you help me get with Big Ass?

can unrequited crushes ever be a good thing? like you work hard to improve yourself for another person

>>17207807
Sure, that can be a good thing, if you strive to become a better person for the guy/girl you love, or some such thing.

Girls

Is there any significance when when a girl messages or talks to you, she frequently uses your name. Many of the text messages I get from her she has my name in it somewhere.

>>17207683
People who always need to show others how smart and knowledgeable they are always seemed pretty insecure and immature to me.
I feel like they are pretty worthless beside that, and they need to reaffirm their superiority through that annoying know-it-all attitude.
While I surely do like very smart and knowledgeable people and I would find it difficult to be with someone who doesn't challenge me intellectually, I think that some level of emotional intelligence and maturity is much more necessary and people with that kind of personality are very off-putting.

I also doubt, as >>17207714 said, that someone can answer 'almost any question' or understand me well without knowing me deeply.
But I disagree, Benedict Cumberbatch is sexy as fuck.

>>17207819
probably is teasing you/she feels close to you
doesnt have to be sexual - can be very platonic

>>17207825

Oh ok, well I see that as a good thing then.

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>Girls
Why do you keep your arms together most of the time?
Even when trying to reach something.
Pic related.

>>17207822
What part of Foetal Alcohol Syndrome attracts you, out of curiosity?

>>17206938
That's not harsh and I wanted to have some opinions on my current situation.

I'm scared talking with him would end in a worse situation. Even more I don't know what to tell him. I can't and don't want to tell him that I'm that kind of a guy who doesn't wish him his best. But at the same time I'm feeling somehow sad or lonely now.
I'm also scared what it might will be, if they come together. How should I act or should I leave the friendship because I'm an ass of a friend?

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How do I break up with a girl? Traded /v/ cards with her and been dating for about a year now. She's unemployed, no drivers license, required therapy 4 days of the week, medicated, no college education, mental illness, and the last time I seen her she told me :

>"I'm trying hard to get disability housing for free"

. . . because apparently she's too unstable to work. Which can strike a nerve when I'm in school full time, working full time (though its just retail), and I've been driving since 16.

We're both approaching our mid twenties. How do I pull this band-aid off?

>>17207900
"I don't think this is working and we should see other people"

>>17207849
I don't understand the picture. Do you mean keeping your elbows close to your sides?
It might be an attempt to look feminine, refined, petite. Maybe they're balancing/pushing out their boobs (I have itty titties so I can't be positive there)

>>17207900
You're not really required to give too much reason. I'd suggest not to tell her that you resent her for her mental illness holding her back. Just say you don't think it's working out, that you're going separate ways, it's time for you to move on. Be vague, it's fine.

>>17207880
Don't bail on your friendship. Do recognize that you're being jealous and irrational here, though. Sure, there are other girls out there. But meeting someone you connect with is more rare.

Try to spin your thoughts to be grateful. Two people you care about being happy. Isn't that cause for a smile?

>>17207906
Also cut contact afterwards.

does anyone know if this genre of porn exists and if so, where?

basically im looking for something like hardcore but not actually hardcore. for example girl has a dick fully inside her but it was only for the shot and they didnt fuck. or shes getting fingered, but only for the shots.

>>17207927
Are you asking for hardcore pictures instead of hardcore videos? That's how it seems.

>>17207927
What do you mean, only for the shot?
You might have better luck asking /gif/

>>17207916
That's exactly what I thought when she got a boyfriend last time. And I was fine with it.

I guess the reason is that I don't feel connected to my friend or it got less over the past.

Strangely I already talked to this friend once about how he acts towards me, if he tried to flirt with women if I'm around. I told him I don't deny him flirting with her. I told him it made me feel bad if there's a girl we (in a group) got to know, with whom he started flirting and if she's for example talking with me, then he interrupted the conversation (in a not good way, didn't contributed but changed the topic and wanted to put the focus on him). He said he was sorry, but there was no exactly sentence or hint that he wanted to change this. In fact I think he wants to change the way he flirts, so I'm not around when he flirts.
Another fact is, while I had birthday he had the idea of inviting this girl (the same as now) without asking me. I know it's a nice idea, but it bothers me that he did this without knowing if I'm fine with her or want to see her. At this time I haven't seen this girl for a few months and my friend didn't asked me or talked to me, how things have been (me and her). Even more: After I told him that I don't really like the idea of having this girl at my birthday he only said "but it would look bad if I [my friend] would reject her" (in terms of that's not nice and how she would look at him).

>>17207930
>>17207934
well somethinh like full penetration/genital contact but WITHOUT the actual fuck. it know it weird because youd need proof that there isn.t any actual harcore scene bing filmed. such a thing probably doesnt even exist

>>17207939
I'm confused. You told him you don't like it when he flirts with mutual friends? You're banning him from flirting with anyone you both know?
Or is it that you don't like when he interrupts your conversations? Because interrupting is rude. But if that's the issue, I don't see why you'd be upset if he flirted when you weren't around.

That was rude of him to invite someone to your event without telling you. Some people have the idea that it's the more the merrier, and don't consider asking first.
It's unfortunate that he put you in that position, but he's not wrong- it's considered very rude to invite someone and then uninvite them. It's kind of a slap to the face.

You might be able to play it off as, "oh this is more of a guy thing." But that won't work if there are other girls invited.

>>17207944
What if you just pretended that was the case?
What's the appeal?

>>17207944
I'm sure there's some backscenes videos of hardscore photoshoots that would meet your requirements.

>>17207960
the thought of some chick taking dick without actually get fucked like for the sake of art or whatever is fucking hot.

>>17207962
those are good too but im looking something that specifically ISNT some by product of a hardcore scene/shoot

>>17207975
Mate, what the fuck are you even saying? You're asking for hardcore porn that isn't hardcore porn but is done specifically to be still-images of hardcore porn. I think you might just be retarded.

If a girl didn't have a pic of herself as FB profile pic twice in a row does it mean something?
Also, maybe unrelated, but is it true that you should never ever under any circumstance tell a girl that she is pretty/good looking/beautiful whatever?

>>17207977
>>17207977
>Mate, what the fuck are you even saying?
try fucking reading

> dick fully inside her but it was only for the shot

as in d in v but only held in there for like the 30 secs in takes to get the shots but WITHOUT A FUCKING HARDCORE SCENES BEING FILMED. LIKE LITERALLY ONLY HAD A COCK IN HER FOR LIKE 5 MIN TOPS WITH NO ACTUAL THRUSTING. jesus

>>17207987
I have tried. I fucking told you to get a behind the scenes video of a fucking PHOTOSHOOT.

PHOTO
SHOOT
Not a fucking video. Not a porno. A fucking PHOTOSHOOT.

Kill yourself.

>>17207944

I don't understand what you're looking for at all.

>>17207994
I do. I have galleries of the stuff. I'm not sure he deserves it though, for being as retarded as he's been.

>>17207975
>for the sake of art
I suggest tumblr. You can probably find a blog just dedicated to artsy porn.
"Photographic erotic art"

>>17207985
>If a girl didn't have a pic of herself as FB profile pic twice in a row does it mean something?
What could it possibly mean?

>Also, maybe unrelated, but is it true that you should never ever under any circumstance tell a girl that she is pretty/good looking/beautiful whatever?
It's completely generic. Saying she has great makeup or a great outfit is okay because she put personal thought into those things so it means something that they're appreciated, but just saying that she's beautiful is fucking nothing.

>>17207997
Excuse me for saying "artsy porn". I know what you're looking for. It's still considered pornographic, which is why I used the term

>>17207997
>you can probably find a blog just dedicated to artsy porn
You can probably find a thousand.

>>17207990

/b/

For real tho

>>17207987

Don't get all pissy like this isn't an incredibly weird thing to ask for.

>>17208006
Kill yourself.

Women, do puns help me get laid?

>>17208002
>Saying she has great makeup or a great outfit is okay because she put personal thought into those things so it means something that they're appreciated, but just saying that she's beautiful is fucking nothing.
I agree completely, just asking to make sure.

>What could it possibly mean?
I don't know... maybe self esteem issues?

>>17208013
Yes.

>>17207990
dude do you not know how photoshoots for porn works? theres ALWAYS a hardcore scene being filmed. and if they are just posing for shoots they ALWAYS film a scene shortly after. i know exactly what youre talking about and its not what im looking for. im looking for a video posed shots WITHOUT the hardcore scene and WITHOUT thrusting

>>17208023
>photoshoots for porn
I suggest learning how to read. Or don't, since you'll be killing yourself anyway.

Are women trust worthy giving relationship and dating advice or will they always just stick to their "team" and hide actual useful information because they wouldn't want to help a guy get a girl ever?

>>17208005
>>17208004
>>17207997
i know about these but im looking for videos specifically

>>17207985
>didn't have a pic of herself
Do you mean like, having a picture of a Pokemon or something? Or do you mean by herself, as in there are other people in the shot?
She might be insecure, or maybe paranoid about people searching for her, maybe she's being stalked, or maybe she's just silly and likes the Pokemon showing up everywhere.

>is it true that you should never ever under any circumstance tell a girl that she is pretty/good looking/beautiful whatever?
Who told you that? Lots of girls base their value on their looks. This anon is right >>17208002 in that you will get better results if you're specific.

Context depends too. Imagine gazing at a girl over your coffee, completely absorbed in staring at her, breathing her in. You sigh, and say "Wow. You're gorgeous."

This will mean many different things if:

>She's your wife you've been married to for ten years
>This is your first date with this woman
>She has just woke up and hasn't done her hair or makeup
>She is a random-ass woman you've never spoken to before this moment
>She's your sister

Context!

>>17208025
i never said i was going to do that. go eat some balls

>>17208032
Go eat some lead.

>>17208028
Why are you asking this in the ask the opposite gender thread, rather than the many porn-dedicated boards out there?

>>17208044
because you scrubs will actually bite

>>17208036
ho ho

>>17208044
oh and a lot of the porn boards are no /r/ unless you contribute yourself

>>17208031
I see, thanks! Well she had a picture of some weird painting and then some movie character. Before that she had pics of herself. She's ridiculously hot imo but she once said she doesn't value herself enough or something.

As for the other thing, I think some male friends irl and some anons on the internet said you should never tell a girl she's (naturally) beautiful, for that reason that it's not something you make effort for. As for context, the only person I'd tell she's beautiful is this girl from facebook. But I'd rather compliment her on her clothes or style I guess. She never wears makeup anymore btw.

>>17205725
I have several female friends that I get along with perfectly, even asking for girl advice from them and having 'deep' conversations etc. so of course it can be done. But I also have some female 'friends'(1 or 2 cases where it just hasnt worked out/wasnt mutual) I feel I just cant be friends with them because I still have feelings attached and I dont want to do something stupid/just want to forget and move on.

>>17208009

Fuck you whore.

/b/ has that shit on there 24/7

>>17205725
I'm close friends with my (male) friend's girlfriend. I don't think of her sexually at all although she's really pretty.

>>17208058
Kill yourself.

>>17208053
>I'd tell she's beautiful is this girl from facebook
That is a tacky context.

>>17208076
I don't know her from facebook, we both are part of some charity group thing though she doesn't go there too often now.

My gf who is younger than me now currently makes more money than me. I make $13.70 a hour working 24 hours a week at UPS she makes $12 a hour working 30 hours a week working as a activities teacher at a school.

I didn't think it would affect me but it hit me when I went to work I felt like a loser and also a bit jealous, she had passed me educational wise and is on her second year of getting a degree while I have dropped out of college temporarily. And now she has passed me income wise.

For girls who make more than your bfs, does it change how you feel about them? For guys who make less than your gfs, do you feel like less of a man?

>>17208082
Would you be telling her over Facebook though? That's the tacky part.

>>17208026

You realise women want to get into relationships too, right? It's in everyone's best interest that everyone is the best potential partner they can be.

>>17208096
No, most probably not. Though facebook may be my only way of asking her on a date if she doesn't show up irl soon.

>>17207912
>Do you mean keeping your elbows close to your sides?
Yes, Kinda like T-Rex.
I'm was thinking, maybe girls are conscious about their armpits.

>>17208095
Work more hours. This is hardly fucking rocket science, is it lad? I get the impression you're actually the gf in this scenario, fishing simply for men's reactions.

>>17208099
I'm not sure that's what I meant. I mean if a guy wants to get girl A so he asks girl B for advice. Girl B doesn't get anything out of it besides knowing she helped the guy score with girl A.

>>17208095
I don't care as long as the bills are being paid. I'm not into this whole "man must be the provider" thing.

If we share bills, I'd like it if my partner made more than me, because then I could be a lazy piece of shit and work less.
But that's not my expectations. I see myself working for the rest of my life.

>>17208053
>Well she had a picture of some weird painting and then some movie character.
Sounds like she's showing off her interests rather than her face, so definitely don't just call her beautiful.

>>17208105
>Work more hours
Every opputunity I have I do, I even worked Memorial Day but i can't go full time unless I've been at the company longer.
>>17208107
I see thank you

>>17208026
>>17208106
Some people just like giving advice. You're on the advice board. It's swarmed with people who like giving advice as a hobby.
Some people don't like giving advice.
There are probably people who want to see you burn for the humor.

You can also look at a larger societal factor. If she encourages you to be a good boyfriend, you'll likely take your newfound knowledge to your friends as they ask your advice, and culture spreads. So it's still in her best interests. But whether she thinks on that global level is another question.

>>17208106

Well obviously no one on /adv/ thinks they're going to fuck you. It's always going to be for someone else's benefit.
But it's of no benefit to anyone at all to create a conspiracy that all girls love having spiders hatched in their hair while they sleep. Sure, that misinformation probably won't spread far enough to come back to haunt them, but what the hell is the point of spreading it in the first place?
No, women are not in a cult whose purpose is to preven you, specifically, from getting laid. You're not that fucking important.

>>17208124
>create a conspiracy that all girls love having spiders hatched in their hair while they sleep
I like the way your mind works.
The way my hair itches my neck makes me feel like there are spiders all over now. Thanks.

>>17208124
>>17208122
Good to know, thanks. When I say me, I mean guys in general though. I mean for example if they give advice that would make the guy treat the girl like a goddess but wouldn't help him get a relationship.
For example I once heard a girl give a guy advice on how to get a girl by saying "buy her presents". And other stuff like that. Just making sure those were just exceptions and it's not a general girl thing.

>>17207612
>We stopped going out because she started back school and I work in a different city (borough? Whatever)
As for talking less, I have no idea. She just messaged me less often after a while.
>What do you mean very uncertain terms?
When I asked her, she says that she likes me, romantically, as more than a friend, but not as a boyfriend. I have no idea what that means.
>When did she say that?
About a month after all the dates.
>Did she specify as friends or just a date?
She just said that she wants to take me out somewhere sometime next month. I didn't push to find out whether it was a date or not, which I kind of regret.

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>>17208129

Sweet dreams

>>17208133
I'd call that less a conspiracy and more a social maturity thing.
The girl thinks to herself, "What would make me like a guy? What would I like for him to do for me? I guess I like presents. I'll suggest that."

In some ways, it might be easier to ask guys for advice on what works than to ask girls about what they want. Just because, experimentally, it's easier to look at the perspective of one man's success with different techniques on different girls, rather than for a girl to conceptualize what she wants.

Everyone has a hard time understanding what they want out of life, out of a partner, etc. That's a universal human trait.

You could instead ask a girl what they've experienced, and what they did and didn't like. But you're limited to what techniques men have actually tried on them already, and there are a lot of lurking variables. What was his personality like? What did he look like? Etc etc
Girls rarely reject or accept a guy for just one aspect.

If you look at one guy's success, you have a matched pair experiment. His personality and looks will be more or less the same between his attempts. It's easier to attribute a success/failure to the change in his technique if most other factors are the same.

>>17208155
are made of this

>>17207328
I'm in a LDR, when we meet we have sex two-three times a day. Then it goes weeks without it for obvious reasons.

>>17208283
Yeah I understand that of course, I thought more about 'regular' couples who see each other often, I get making sex a priority if you only see each other irregularly.

girls, how do you feel about guys asking you if you feel that more than friendship could develop between you?

I feel like she might be into me but I'm a fucking autist and I can't just go in for a kiss or something

>>17208153
Might just be a matter of logistics that's influencing her decisions.
>romantically interested in you but doesn't wanna start anything serious since you're not close enough to get to see each other very often
>wants to reconnect now that the semester is over and she's on summer break for a few months
Assuming she's not taking courses over the summer, that is. Idk man, to me it still sounds like she just wants to see you again. Oh and don't kick yourself for not asking whether it's meant to be a date or not. If she wanted to specify she would have and you'll find out once you're there anyway.

>>17206667
Bumping for any more answers to this

>>17208381
>>17206667
You can't make him love you, anon.

Girls
Who is best gem?

Things are going wonderfully well with my boyfriend and I and recently we have discussed moving in together.

I've already done the whole living with a partner thing, as has he, so it isn't a new thing for either of us. I'm just trying to work out the best kind of time frame for something like this. I don't want to put a move off any longer than necessary but I also don't want to move too quickly and end up ruining that honeymoon period. We've known each other a very long time so there's no real issue of infatuation, just what seems to be a solid, sensible relationship.

Would it be worth asking if I can stay for longer periods, to simulate the idea of us living together before committing to a more suitable place for us both? I have my own place at the moment, so does he.

Question in general for boys and girls, how long would you leave it before you seriously considered moving in with a partner?

>>17208327
I think outright asking would be weird, but then again I also think just being kissed would be weird, so maybe I'm just weird.
But maybe asking something like "Are you looking for a boyfriend right now"?

>>17207849
She didn't shave so there is a stubble most likely.

>>17207328
I'm into the 7th year of this relationship and at this time i'd say once every 2-3 days. Slighly less for her, but that's OK as she gives me a helping hand or a bj to compensate.

>>17208481
>Ask to stay longer
No need to ask. Just do it. Just stay when you feel like staying. I doubt he'll object.

>>17208536
If he wishes you'd fuck off, then obviously it's not time to move in together, is it?

>>17208525

Yeah but I don't want that to have the opposite effect where he spends his time wishing I'd just fuck off. He lives alone for a reason (that he obviously enjoys it) and I just don't want to impose on him unless an entirely mutual wish. I hope that makes sense.

Sometimes I get an idea in my head and love the thrill of working towards it. I want to approach this as sensibly as possible as I really want it to work.

I also don't want him to freak out because we discussed it and I'm suddenly really keen on making it happen. I can wait as long as it takes, was just looking for other opinions.

>>17208229
Who wouldn't mind

Hey to the anon who helped me last time about the dude who you said was close to loving me--I messaged him thanking him for giving me a kick in the butt about my drug issues. He just responded saying that, all he could say on here was that we should hang out next time i'm in nyc.

Things are looking good? I think it's a good sign right?. I do have some friends who might be living there next year. It's not too far from where i am now. Oh god I'm freaking out slightly

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free for all:

How is a medicore guy like me going to "score", in the sense of interest, a girl into liking him?

I am seriously trying with all my might to improve myself,
yet I seem to fail becoming above average at anything.

For example:
> I am training regularly, but I am neither muscular and still slightly overweight (BMI: 25.5)
> Also I am quite weak and still lack endurance compared to other men my size (height: 1.88 m)
> I am studying (Master), but I am doing average at best even though I put effort into it.
> For a change I sometimes play video games (e.g. War Thunder), but I suck at them.
> On top of that I would refere to myself as boring, but I am so very exhausted after a day that I always fall asleep right after it. I do not know how to add in this condition any "remarkable" activitie(s).

>>17208436
Right. Why is it so hard to get an answer to the actual question I'm asking?

Question by a guy for guys but whatever:
Are condoms supposed to be hard to put on?
I just tried to masturbate with one to see what it was like and I had a lot of trouble putting it on. It seemed like the hole was too small or maybe that there wasn't enough lubricant. I doubt my dick is large enough to be a problem - it's 18cm and about as thick as my two thumbs put side-to-side. I'm also uncut. Is there anything I'm doing wrong?

>>17208580
you need large condoms

>>17208483
isn't that even more vague?
like with both questions she'll know what's up, but with my version I seem more determined?

>>17208583
That's true, but it seems too forthright for my taste. That's just me, of course, but I'd be kind of thunderstruck by such a direct question.

>Girls
Do you think a 27 y.o. virgin, 80 Kg, 176 cm hairy guy attractive?
And does it help that i'm a doctor that makes a 7000 $ a year?

to women:

Do you ever engage contact with a potentially interesting guy?

What do you look for, what a good characteristics about men for you?

I am asking because nobody send me a message yet...profile's been on for 3-4 months now.

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>>17208602
>a doctor that makes a 7000 $ a year?
i can't laugh too hard though, i'll probably graduate med school a virgin too

>>17208602
Impossible to say just by those measures. You're not overweight, that's good, but apart from that no idea.
I'm sure it helps, yeah. Shows you have your life in order and all that. I'm assuming you mean $70,000, of course.

>>17208544
I'm going to spin this for you, anon.

This is you:
>Actually works out regularly!! Immediately you are ranked above the general population. It doesn't matter how "good" you are. Especially since if you keep at it, you will continue to improve. You are a good influence to be around and are likely healthier and happier.

>You are really tall! That's hot! You're almost a foot taller than me. Damn.

>You are in higher education. You are improving your life. I don't care what your grades are. Are you passing? Will you get your degree? Amazing! That's not easy!

>You play video games! Cool! Let's play something together.

>You appreciate the joy of sleeping! I am passionate about sleep. Let's take a nap together.

Don't be so hard on yourself, anon. A relationship isn't about being some sort of superstar. It's about connecting with someone.
Do you have the same high expectations for a potential partner as you do for yourself?

>>17208623
>>17208625
>7000 $ a year
That's the usual income for doctors where I live.
>measures
Like what?