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> GF decides to work overboard during summer
> her bday is coming up in less then a month
> just booked a flight to visit her and surprise her
> tomorrow booking the apartment there over airbnb
Tell me /adv should I be doing all this for a girl that:
> 5 years ago, we meet over facebook
> in that year we never saw each other
> just talk, sms, messanger, skype, late night calls that lasted forever
> Year after that,we meet, we make out
> nothing_special.png
> I leave the country, than decide to date her
> Return to the country, moved back away from family and everything just for her.
> 2 months in relationship, she cheated on me
> week after that comes clean to me
> continue dating
> hur dur summer, hur dur drunk guy from college calls her, sings songs ask her for drinks
> "Hey, Femanon this guy likes you"
> immediate i become jelly type of a guy
> NotTrue.jpg but fuck it go with that
> we break off after 4 months of that moment
> Total: 11 Months together
> Kill contact with her
> After 5 months hear info, she has a bf now
> Cook.jpg
> After 5 months, she hits me up again, talking almost everyday she is still with him
> Let's meet
> We meet
> She tells me she broke up with him a week ago
> Guy calls her while on a date
> She comes clean that she broke with him a day ago
> I say answer, she doesn't do anything just puts her head down
> We start dating again
> 4 months we are breaking up again.
>Cont?
>>17205423
> Cont
> While we sit at the coffee she starts
> "Promise me something!"
> I go "How can I promise you something that I'm unaware what is it?"
> "Just promise me, okey?"
> "Okey, I promise, but what?"
> "That you will never give up on love."
> Hur dur we speak about stuff, what happened why happened, hur dur she says that we will never date again
> Okey.jpg
Meanwhile in my life:
> Got a great job
> Got a second great job
> Payment is over average plus additional education with it
> During that time(This two times) we were on and off I was never with different girl
> Keep going trough life, sitting in this pitty country
> Keep working, everything goes great.
Back on her:
> After 4 months of our breakup
> New boyfriend
> Me: "Oh, cool that's nice. Not interested to know"
> Continues with life as normal
> Back in May last year friends birthday party
> Yeeey_Alchocol.jpg
> Some random girl, goofs around
> We make out
> Next day I'm leaving the country
> 7 days later.spongebob
> Returns from 24h trip, didn't sleep
> PhoneRings.jpg
> It's my ex
> Answer phone
> "hey Anon, can we meet?"
> "Sure, why not?"
> We go, we meet, lee coffee
> Start talking, what's the reason for the meeting
> I know her, I know something is bothering her.
>>17205444
> Cont
> "What's up Femanon?"
> "You know I'm going to work out of the country..."
> "Yeah?"
> "Remember that problem I had, has returned and I only can speak with you about it..."
> We talk, I promise I will be 24/7 available during that time no matter what
> She goes off there
> I stay on the promise
> Trough out the summer we talked mostly late on nights
> Or when I would be drunk
> We speak in words that cover up other words and only we know what we want to say but can't say it.
> NotNow.jpg
> Summer goes great
> Got myself a 9/10 gf
> Drinking, Drugs and Sex
> AllDayEveryDay.winrar
> I break up with her during mid-summer
> Still going great
> Still got my job
> Ex returned in country at end of summer
> "Hey Anon, let's meet I arrived yesterday"
> Yeah cool, let's meet
> We meet, talk how it was there.
> She gives me present
> Cool I like it
> Planning to cut contact now
> She still has bf, don't want to go in middle of that
> Month passes by she set's up an information to reach me
> It got to me
> "Hey Anon, do you know that Femanon broke up with that bf?"
> "Really, okey..."
> She starts talking to me
> She wants to meet
> She seems jelly of a fight me and friends had for a girl in a clup
> We start dating again
> Told her "Look, if you wanna start something and want to last longer, let's say till end of our lifes. Sure we can date, if not please leave"
> She says she is serious
> Okey.JPG
>>17205458
> Finial Cont
> Fast forward to this day
> She goes again to work there
> I'm supportive boyfriend
> FuckYeah.jpg
> Her BDay is coming up
> Me sitting home alone
> Planning whole new thing
> Got flight ticket
> Going to get an apartment in that town she works
> Going to Surprise her
Now /adv, tell me how fucked I am? Do I need to do all of this? Do I need to be this kind sweet guy, great boyfriend/husbend material after everything it happened?
> Tell me /adv, since I cannot tell no more.
>>17205465
Fuck her man. Lots of girls are cool you just gotta meet em. This chick is not worth it
>>17205476
It's not the problem about different girls.
> 8/10 want's me badly
> 4 year older then me 9/10 want's to date me
That 8/10 is my first love, forever lost or one true-love never won. Cannot allow her to be in my life now, due to situations that happened.
I can meat new girls, I can get new girls. But those new girls will be pain in the arse and I would not be same to them as I'm to her.
Please stop being so pussy whipped. This girl sounds fucking crazy and shes cheated on you before and went full attention seeking on you.
God everything is such a mess, why did you stick your dick back into all of this?
>>17205481
Who knows, maybe I risked bit too much for her? Giving out everything I had ever even better life than this one?
Maybe because I lost interest in meeting other girl at one point?
So you say I'm fucked badly ha?
Few more details
> Topics such as marge, kids, dogs, cars, apartments
> Done, that we have our goals straight now
> inb4 both of us are 23
> bump?
