So this is pretty stupid I feel and I'm a bit confused at what to do at this point.
So me and my brother used to watch Game of Thrones together before he moved out of state. I haven't seen him in like a year and since I last saw him I got into a serious relationship with this girl and now he is back in town. Me and him want to watch some of it again like we used to since I only watch the show when he is around. The only problem is that my girlfriend really does not approve of me watching it because of all the naked chicks in the show, which I guess I can understand a bit.
The problem is that she is a bit self conscious when it comes to me seeing other naked females, be it in a game, show or just porn all together. I've tried to help her and I even told her she can watch it with us if it makes her feel better, hell I've even snooped so low to saying i'd cover my fucking eyes.
What should I do to let her let me watch the show? Sorry if I triggered you with my grammer, my first language isn't English.
You're going about this all wrong. All this trying to be nice, and trying to make her comfortable, and saying you can "kind of understand" is WRONG, because when you do this you're validating her absolute insanity.
What you're supposed to do is be a fucking man.
>I am watching this very popular show with my fucking BROTHER. And if you don't like it you can go suck eggs. If you want to dump me go ahead, but I don't want to hear another word from your stupid whore mouth on the subject ever again, or I am dumping you myself.
Every inch you give her on stupid shit like this just ensures she will try to exert more and more control over you. Lay down the law, you are a fuckign adult. Holy shit.
Watch whatever the fuck you want. If she sees people in TV shows as competition or gets jealous over that kind of shit, she's not well put together mentally. That's totally not your problem.
If she's like that with TV shows, imagine what will happen when if you work with girls, or talk about a female coworker or fellow student or someone you pass in the street. Think of what will happen when you want a female friend.
Don't let her control what fucking TV show you watch. That's pathetic
>>17204745
It's GoT, not even porn for christ sake. Tell her you'll watch what the fuck you want.
>>17204745
I could see being mad about watching porn as it shows what type of person you are and is just totally pathetic to see a 'man' be so desperate to look at people fucking, but tv is tv. Got is awesome. Watch it by yourself if you have to
>>17204745
Do you know why she is so uncomfortable with you watching naked women? You should talk to her about this issue of hers. She is being extremely unreasonable but, since she is your partner, presumably you care about her feelings and don't want to hurt her. If you can figure out the true root of the problem you can help her work through her fears and insecurities. Perhaps she fears that you are not attracted to her? Perhaps she has self worth issues? Maybe it's somehow triggering for her because of some trauma? If you can afford it, it's worth seeing a professional to help you work through it as a couple because she's being super crazy and your relationship will be greatly improved if she is more secure.
>>17204862
Yeah, good idea. Because someone who is so mind bending oh insecure as to get bent out of shape over OP wanting to watch a TV show is going to be super reasonable and open to discussing her deeply scarred sense of self worth.
I'll bet you $100 that a conversation like this quickly escalates into fighting, screaming, blaming, and uncontrollable sobbing.
OP needs to tell this woman what's what.
Dude fuck her, she's scoping out hunks on tumblr, tell her you will watch what you want or she can leave
There are plenty of girls out there but only one Iron Throne
