Is it possible to rape yourself?
Can you make yourself like sex if you don't?
>Is it possible to rape yourself?
No.
>Can you make yourself like sex if you don't?
That depends on why you don't like sex.
>>17203524
It fills me with irrational rage.
>>17203501
>Is it possible to rape yourself?
No.
>It fills me with irrational rage.
You need therapy.
>>17203564
I was assigned a psychiatrist. I was given a stupid estonian boy who told me to go to a gynecologist
>>17203501
>Is it possible to rape yourself?
Maybe if you had some kind of multiple-personality disorder. I'm having trouble imagining other scenarios, though.
>Can you make yourself like sex if you don't?
That depends. Do you have any sense of why iy makes you so angry?
>>17203569
You're the stupid one if you're asking questions about raping yourself.
Go back to therapy.
>>17203596
If someone wiped his snot on you and then acted insulted that you aren't delighted and thrilled to be worthy of his bodily fluids, would you be happy about that? Do you wish it would happen more often?
>>17203623
You can't judge me for refusing subpar treatment when you have literally no concept of how shitty it was.
If you want something done, you have to do it yourself. If I want it fixed I have to break the mental block on my own. By force, if I have to.
The first time is always the hardest, they say. If I can force myself to orgasm just once, I could do it at any time.
>>17203671
No, I'm judging you for asking whether it's possible to rape yourself. Clearly your opinions and thoughts are not trustworthy.
>>17203501
>Is it possible to rape yourself?
>>17203725
I don't give a shit, I need to make it happen.
People have orgasmed from being raped, right? So forcibly stimulating it for long enough should do it regardless of your mood, shouldn't it?
>>17203785
Women are physiologically capable of having an orgasm while psychologically not enjoying themselves, yes. But causing a woman to have an orgasm while being raped doesn't magically make her want to be raped again, does it? That would be retarded. If the idea of sex fills you with irrational rage, it seems obvious you have some underlying psychological problems that aren't going to be solved by masturbating. See a therapist, a different one.
If you really won't do that, then try to slowly acclimatise yourself to the idea of it by watching or reading or engaging in mildly sexy or erotic things over a long period of time, gradually building up towards the idea of some sort of sex you will enjoy.
>>17203806
It doesn't work like that around here. You can't just shop for a therapist. Besides, there are other problems they won't let me fix before I convince them that I'm ok in the head. They've put my life on hold and I can't prolong it by letting something like that slip.
I'm 100% with hardcore porn and other peoples' sex lives for as long as nobody makes ME involved. It's having sex done to *me* that I have an issue with.
How do I start? Men don't do "mildly sexual", a promise is a promise and if his dick is invested he WILL get his dick wet.
>>17203826
You don't think there might be a reason why they want to work on your other problems?
Look, you can try to force yourself to masturbate to orgasm and it probably won't do any harm but don't think it's going to solve your issues or anything.
>ALL MEN ARE
Just get your tits out on chaturbate or something
Just go back to therapy, your posts here are always asinine.
>>17203838
I know what their reasons are and 90% of their reason is that they cannot fathom how important this is to me.
I've tried whoring our on chat cams but in the end it just disgusts me. I'm just doing them a free service. Might as well mow a stranger's lawn while eating all the dog shit I find on it.
>>17203842
There is no therapy. All they do is punish me for showing symptoms and expressing distress. I find it cruel and counterproductive to punish someone for expressing stress in a stressful situation by prolonging it, but they don't see it like that. I am yet to figure out WHAT they want to hear, but I'll say it as soon as I figure it out.
>>17203864
Stop shitting up this board. Go to whine to reddit or something.
>>17203864
Have you considered not having sex? Partners who are down for that are harder to find but they are out there. Why are you so focused on it if it's so unpleasant for you?
>>17203864
>I did something to help myself but it was making other people happy so I stopped
Fuck off and penetrate yourself with the biggest, spikiest cucumber you can find then instead of just ignoring the advice you're given.
My God OP your insufferable.
>I wanna have sex, but I don't wanna have sex
>I go to therapy but I don't try there and they're "mean to me"
You sound like a two year old. If you don't like sex then don't try to like sex! I don't like Barbie's and you don't see me going out and buying all the Barbie's!
>>17203876
My ex knows my reddit account.
>>17203896
I don't want a partner. I want to be able to relax and feel joy.
>>17203901
You do not understand. Sex drive doesn't stop because of a mental block.
Being allergic to everything you see doesn't make you stop being hungry.
>>17203911
Just make a le new account then you idiot.
How can you be so fucking clueless?
>>17203911
You seem like a pretty angry person I general. I don't know if the sex part is a cause or a symptom but either way i doubt you'll get any useful advice here other than to seek a different therapist. Especially when you're asking questions like the op which are so loaded that all you're going to get is people looking for internet fights.
>>17203926
I think that "she" is looking for an internet fight. Mental fucking trans.
>>17203915
I don't want to.
He recognises my writing style.
>>17203926
It's a stymtom. You'd be mad too if you couldn't get off for 22 years.
>>17203931
I'm female-to-male tyvm.
>>17203952
I don't give a fuck. You're not going to be able to enjoy sex until you're comfortable with how your body is. Stop wasting everyone's time by asking for "advice" then coming up with pathetic excuses not to do any of it you lazy, entitled attention-seeking fuckwad.
>>17203501
it's possible to not rape yourself
>>17203959
I have to have some way to relieve this tension, to give myself an illusion that I am not trapped and that they are not wasting my time for nothing.
My life is draining away and I'm not allowed to be upset or they'll prolong my pain more. Posting here is a bandaid on a broken leg but it helps a bit. I need this.
>>17203671
>If someone wiped his snot on you and then acted insulted that you aren't delighted and thrilled to be worthy of his bodily fluids, would you be happy about that?
Of course not. And your perspective makes some sense, if one takes for granted the assumption that lovemaking is nothing more than an exchange of fluids, no different from, as you say, ribbing one's snot on someone.
But to be honest, I see lovemaking as something quite different, as, I suspect, do most people. If you don't mind my asking, where does your perspective come from?
>>17203671
>You can't judge me for refusing subpar treatment when you have literally no concept of how shitty it was.
I can't speak for other posters in this thread, but I have not judged you for refusing subpar treatment. To be honest, I am appalled at what has apparently happened to you in the name of "therapy".
However, this doesn't mean you should refuse all therapy. It means you need new therapists, and a new approach. Do you know what the approach used on you was called? If not, it would be useful to find out, so that you can avoid it more easily in the future.
What the fuck this isn't tumblr you fucking autist
1. Buy cheap dao huan fuck machine
2. Self bondage
3. Get fucked
4. Cum
>>17204174
Personal experience. From what I've personally found, sex is literally just that. A guy takes 15-20 minutes to inject bodily fluids into me (or to be exact, the condom in use) and then gets upset at my unexpected lack of reaction.
There was no therapy. There was the trans clinic, where I was stupid enough to give an honest assesment of my mental state, so they halted all processes so I could talk to a psychiatrist. This search for a therapist took a month.
The psychiatrist was this stuttering estonian boy who took 30 minutes to ask me pointless questions about phalloplasty and my childhood memories while a nurse with no reason to be there smiled and nodded. Together we (they) agreed that I will need to see a doctor who will prescribe me some pills or something for the anxiety. This will take another month.
These people took two months from my life because I was stupid enough to trust them with the truth about something. I should have learned by now, but for the life of me I just can't fucking figure our what they want to hear.
This play is a stupid farce and nobody gave me the script.
>>17204269
Bitch that's not oppression they're looking after your own good.
>>17203911
Smoke weed or play some video games, you don't need sex to feel happy or pleasure. Find out what sex triggers in the brain, and find something that triggers the same emotions. Also, rape doesn't feel good, you'll bleed and shit.
>>17204414
I've tried weed, it only makes me more tense and paranoid. I just need some kind of a relief or release, something to make the constant, endless tension stop.
What else is there?
>>17204422
Really? Do normal things that most people would find pleasure in annoy you or make you paranoid? Music? Meditation? Maybe this is more common than you think, even if just a few more people have it. If you find that it has a name than you can find a place to attack it.
>>17205333
What do you mean?
>>17203564
>>17203524
Sounds like a challenge!
Maybe you can set up some sort of raping machine that activates at a random time, so even though you decide to be raped at some time in the future, it will be a surprise and out of your control.
The problem is how such a machine would function, so it doesn't start without you. I guess if you spend most of your waking hours in one chair, you could build it into that.
