>>17202684
As a married bi woman, I can't help but wonder why you seem to think we're all bad. Being bi doesn't mean you want to experiment with people, have threesomes, etc. It just means that, if you were single, you could go either way. I'm in a long-term relationship and wouldn't even think of asking for a threesome--it's not my cup of tea. I may be attracted to some women, but it's not anything I would ever act on. Because I genuinely love and respect the person I'm with. I think a lot of people use the fact that they're bi to do/say a lot of things that are just over the line. But don't let some assholes taint your relationship. Women, in general, are also more fluid with their sexuality when compared to men.

>>17202684

it depends. do you think shes a slut? there is the idea that oen partner (being only male) wont be able to fulfil her and you are afraid she will leave.

but ultimately you have to ask: were those six years of faith a lie?

your call. it would be kind of a dick move, but are you going to stay with someone you dont want to just cuz its a dick move?

honestly though id worry less about who is 'marriage material' and who you actually fucking like.

>>17202709
>it depends. do you think shes a slut? there is the idea that oen partner (being only male) wont be able to fulfil her and you are afraid she will leave.

Nah, I don't think she is is, but a lot of girls I've seen who claim to be bi are pretty loose and/or have a lot of issues. I guess I'm paranoid she'll attempt to warm me up to letting me give her the ok to experiment with other girls. Last year a co-worker who was a known lesbian was hitting on her pretty hard and she jokingly play around her advances until she finally said something that basically let her know she's taken and happy. I kinda now have weird feelings when she

>but ultimately you have to ask: were those six years of faith a lie?

>your call. it would be kind of a dick move, but are you going to stay with someone you dont want to just cuz its a dick move?

>honestly though id worry less about who is 'marriage material' and who you actually fucking like.

These 6 years were a growing process. She is my first girlfriend. I don't want to lose her, but I'm kind of scared that these insecurities are going to pop up in convos about girls, porn, or dating. Like, the obvious passive aggressive comments and what not. I'm trying to cope, m8.

>>17202892

fair enough. ultimately this thread gives you perspective but i doubt it will sway you one way or another, or that you will make your decision now.

my advice? if you love her, stay with her. worst case scenario you get a little more time to enjoy her.

i know you're all gung ho wifing and whatnot, but its okay to just enjoy a relationship while oyu can. everyone else does.

>>17202707
I guess its from my experience with meeting or hanging around girls that say they are. A lot of the ones I've seen are either sexually loose, have emotional issues, or end up expressing their bisexuality damn near everywhere they go. Like, I just plain don't imagine myself telling my future kids that mommy likes vag too.

>>17202707
My best relationships were with women who were bi or bi-curious. One of them liked to explore this side of her nature with my clessing and participation because it made her feel secure and the other was like you and simply needed one fulfilling partner who could of been of either sex.

I'm bi but I've never told anyone, I just don't see a reason to do so. I simply found a boyfriend before I found a girlfriend so that was that. Well I would tell my partner if he asked but other than that I don't think it's very important.

I've avoided tattoos and cigs too, and still do. But you've been dating that girl for over five years so you should know her by now: is she sexually loose? An attention whore? Does she have issues? If no, then I see no reason to dump her. If she does, why didn't you dump her before hearing she's bisexual?

>>17202907
Why would you discuss her (or your) sexuality with your kids in the first place? Would you be comfortable telling them that mommy loves dick?

>>17202892
>I don't want to lose her, but I'm kind of scared that these insecurities are going to pop up in convos about girls, porn, or dating.
That's an internal issue of your own, and if you break off this relationship, the issue will still be present in any other relationship you pursue.

>>17203091
>Why would you discuss her (or your) sexuality with your kids in the first place? Would you be comfortable telling them that mommy loves dick?

I didn't mean it in the literal sense of talking about our sexuality to the kids, I meant giving signs that she's attracted to the same sex like commentary beyond "oh she looks good"

It took you six years to find out she was bisexual?

You have bigger problems op

>>17203304
A year or so back she said she might be bi-curious and I thought it was just confused feelings because she told me she had a dream about a girl that went to our high school years ago. Time went by and I didn't really bother her on the subject until recently when she told me she watches lesbian porn. Caught me a bit off guard and conflicting feelings began to rise in me again.

Yes OP, you should end a 6 year relationship because she finds women attractive. Makes perfect sense. Why are you even asking?

After all, she's now guaranteed to cheat on you.

>>17203392
Wat

>>17203780
He's obviously being sarcastic.

>>17203317
I watch lesbian porn and I had a dream about a friend of mine, but it doesn't mean I'm bi.
I'd never have a relationship with a woman and, while I do find some women attractive, I wouldn't probably have sex with them.
Women sexuality is much more fluid than men's.

>>17202892
Hi Op hope you're still around,
A lot of this depends on the kind of person you are. For example my relationship with my girlfriend is what many would consider crazy. It would be the end of the world if either of even found another person "hot". We both just are so in love and have been that way for 8 years that if I see some girl with big tits and a good face I won't even have a thought about it. For my girlfriend and I if you love each other then there's not even any slight attraction to other people. What im saying is the circumstances of your relationship and who you guys are is what matters. I would never know if I'm gay, my gf would never know if she's bi, because we love each other enough that it other people don't mean anything sexually. Blah blah blah you're born that way blah blah blah, my point is even if there is something in your brain that says wow that's hot and it has the same genitals as me, it's kind of odd to me because if you love someone enough, well that thought should be surpressed. Again these are all my relationship, think about your relationship and what it means to you.

>>17204034
Yeah, I'm still around and I appreciate the input. I thought about it during the night when I made this thread and I guess I came to the conclusion that I'd feel pretty shitty for dropping her after all we've been through.

When we texted each other yesterday (when she dropped the bi bomb on me) she said she could see herself romantically involved with another girl, but did say "if it eases your mind that won't happen because I am with you".

I guess I thought I was "the lucky one" for still having a GF who wasn't into other girls as I have a few friends who dated and had GFs who were bi. Even my brother has a bi GF.

>>17204074
Well you're a strong one, if my girl ever said she could see herself being romantically involved it would eat away at me, even if she said it won't happen.

>>17202684
You gotta be asking yourself what -after 5 plus years- has her realizing this now?

>>17204158
I'm trying to make sure it doesn't eat at me. If we were just dating I'd would of dropped her like a hot plate

>>17204395
I kind of just guessed that she was just curious for a long time and after schlicking to lesbo porn (I don't know how long she has been doing that) the train jumped both tracks.

>>17202684
>I'm not cool with having threesomes with girls I date.

You're an insecure faggot.
What are you afraid of; disappointing 2 girls at the same time?

>>17204894
Because It's not my cup of tea when I'm emotionally invested in a girl I'm with? Just because you like double teaming your lover doesn't mean everyone else likes to share, you cuck faggot.

>>17202707
Too bad you're not an actual woman but a white knight douchebag.

>>17205506

>Afraid of other women
>turns down other women

yeah nah, you're a faggot.

>>17205605
>not wanting to share your GF makes you gay

What a time to be alive. Hue.