How do I stop being jealous of other women's appearence?
Be more attractive than them
>>17202022
And how do I do that
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4nBSPHe1RCc
Become a lesbian
>>17202035
I don't like women at all
I don't want to please them
>>17202024
>Go to gym, workout. Lose weight if you are a fucking land whale, if you aren't just get fit AND LIFT. Lifting will help give your body definition. Don't worry about becoming a muscular eyesore, it won't happen unless you start taking massive amounts of protein.
>Increase your personal hygiene.
>Improve your wardrobe, even if it's a little.
>>17202039
What else?
>>17202037
Then please men by getting beautiful women and bringing them to the bedroom as another girl for your man
>>17202048
If anything that would exacerbate my jealousy problem
>>17202039
>>17202043
I think you should start slow, step by step. First try getting your ass to the gym and learn how to eat healthier. Maybe you should lurk in /fit they got plenty of info about this.
If you try too much at once you will burn out quick. Make the changes gradually so it isn't so much of a shock for you and your body.
>>17202068
I already go to the gym, there's one literally on the corner of where I live so I thought why not
so really, what else?
Ok, ignore these fucked for a moment, and ask yourself this.
Are you jealous of their appearance,or what you think their appearance gets them?
>>17202227
Their appearence itself
I'm very keen on visual stuff
It's like some people are walking art worthy of awe and admiration and you are just an ugly hairless mammal
>>17202080
Not her/him but you sound like a bitch. Work on your personality.
>>17202484
Why?
>>17202496
Because no one want to be around a vapid, self absorbed, bitch.
>>17202017
grow up
>>17202504
Then they don't have to, I won't force them
>>17202523
As in aging? I believe I'm doing that as we speak
>>17202525
>>17202530
How do i know you're no older than 16?
>>17202545
I'm 22
>>17202504
>Because no one wants to be around a vapid, self absorbed, bitch.
Kek. Tons of people do. The entirety of pop culture is centered vapid, self absorbed bitches.
Vapid, self absorbed bitches are a billion dollar industry, kid.
>>17202555
But only if they're pretty anon
>>17202555
Yeah because OP is a celebrity. Are you literally retarded? Have you even tried leaving your basement? Act like a princess syndrome bitch in the real world and you will get shit on. No one has time for your daddy issues.
>>17202552
I hope you don't act like a cunt in the real world
Post a pic OP. That'll stimulate some gud shite rite there.
>>17202582
I don't want to incite the bullies
>>17202582
I don't like to be part of the "post a pic" crew, but there's not a whole lot of useful advice we can give without knowing what you look like. i.e. are you perfectly attractive and have self-esteem issues, or is there anything actually wrong with your appearance that we could help you fix? etc etc
>>17202576
I kind of do. I'm not mean or anything but more like most of the time I'm completely stoic. I look unfriendly.
A friend once described be as having a face that says "don't talk to me unless you're gonna ask for a gun to kill yourself with"
I accept it
>>17202484
What about the post you quoted seemed bitchy, I don't even get it
you are a sperglord
>>17202080
You sound eager, but change happens gradually. First figure out a workout and meal plan. Once your figure improves you will notice the extra attention from the opposite sex.
Don't forget your hygiene, this should be priority #1, getting fit is #2 and wardrobe improvements #3.
Good luck op.
>>17202576
>Yeah because OP is a celebrity. Are you literally retarded? Have you even tried leaving your basement? Act like a princess syndrome bitch in the real world and you will get shit on. No one has time for your daddy issues.
Kek. Butt-hurt levels at 100% I see.
I'm sorry that vapid, self-absorbed people can and are glorified in our society but I think you're letting your resentment cloud your view of reality.
Plenty of people have time for daddy issues. Plenty of people have time for a bitch with princess syndrome. Doesn't mean they are good people but they do exist.
If you're a sexy, empty-headed blonde white girl with big tits and full lips you can toss a rock in either direction and hit someone who will beg for the pleasure of putting up with your bullshit.
It is what it is, man, calm the fuck down.
>>17202017
The gym advice is good, however, you stil need to balance that with proper food intake.
Less carbs, less calories, healthier meals and portions. Ask /fit/ or /ck/ for advice.
But your face may suck, so consider blowing some money at a salon or something. Basically get a makeover. Ask someone fashionable to make you fashionable. I'm sure there are people who make that their entire business.
Even people with bad faces can find ways to manipulate their appearance with hairstyle and makeup. It goes a really long way.
When you finish all of this, see a counselor if you still have trouble. Remember, AFTER!
>>17202597
This is true, it's pretty clear that your insecure so you probably won't post a picture, but if you actually are looking for advice then if we could see your current appearance/vibe we could help
>>17202607
It wasn't just the post, it was the overall vibe i was picking up on, made OP seem kind of bitchy, which is evident from future posts.
But i'm the sperglord. Right.
>>17202607
It was the "what else"
People see being curt as being bitchy.
>>17202610
Not the same guy you've been talking to
But, he's right and you're a bit mixed up.
You should probably shut up, you look really stupid right now.
>>17202634
Just fyi I never said anything outright mean. Just very curt, short and blunt. But I know that's part of the definition of being a bitch
>>17202026
By the way guy who posted this I'm going to check it out
But it's one hour long and I'm on mobile so I can't actually hear it while I do something else so I'll wait to hear it later as I fall asleep or something
>>17202643
Top fucking kek. Sorry you have a hard time swallowing the truth.
I under no circumstance agree with it but you're kidding yourself if you think the entire world joins you in being sternly against entertaining the idiocy of beautiful people. Our culture has entire magazines and TV channels dedicated to glorifying beautiful idiots. If you think thats incorrect then you're just ignoring reality which I suppose you're entitled to do.
I think you're mixing up your opinions with reality, friend.
>>17202612
I really think that even after multiple fix ups and looking as good as I potentially can I would still resent other women for being beautiful. So yeah maybe I will need s counselor, but how do you approach them about this
Like, what should I expect to get from them
>>17202669
Anon I'm not either of these people you're arguing but you're making a mistake on the... nomenclature
The million dollar industry is beautiful people, not vapid self absorbed people
>>17202035
this pic is so over airbrushed I can't even find it hot
YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL
YOU'RE BEAUTFIL
YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL
IT'S TRUE
>>17202035
Amazing this pic is so hot without even being airbrushed (mocking the idiot above who thinks this is airbrushed)
>>17202473
ok, this points more to a self-confidence issue.
do you have no assets in your own mind?
jealousy is 100% born of insecurity. fix the insecurity, fix the jealousy - find inner peace.
>>17202644
no, a bitch is someone whos actions are taken without any regard to consequence or responsibility, or both. So you've already got a broken understanding of that atm...
>>17202959
So I'm not a bitch
>>17202939
probably not if you're not out to hurt others.
now answer this:
>>17203033
>>17203033
No you're not a bitch. You're just very to the point and unkind. That's not feminine. Work on it. Why are you angry at everyone? Try to find your own happiness instead of being a killjoy and you will gain self confidence as well. What is it about your appearance that you find lacking?
>>17202939
Ehh... I'm not all bad but I don't think I have anything that is truly an asset
Like not incompetent but not really anything special to offer
>>17202676
>The million dollar industry is beautiful people, not vapid self absorbed people
The two often go hand in hand. Beautiful people are statically less intelligent, less challenged in their professional and personal lives and held to drastically different standards than "less" beautiful people.
I'm not arguing the point that it isn't impossible to be both incredibly beautiful and smart but this poster >>17202610 called me retarded and asked if I had ever left my basement for implying his statement that "no one wants to hang out with a vapid, self absorbed bitch" might not be 100% true in certain circles.
The stupidity and vapidity isn't the trait that's technically being glorified but you know what I mean when I make the statement, so stop being purposefully daft.
>>17203163
you're probably wrong, you realise.
you also realise your terse responses aren't giving us much to work from.
people want pics because they want to know if you're just fucked in the head, or if you have a justifyable reasoon to be jealous of other women.
if its the 2nd one, then the advice will get more specific about what you can work on.
you've come this far, anon grill
>>17202610
I'm the anon you first replied to. Yeah i see your point now, but there really wasn't any need for it. I was telling OP to stop acting so full of herself and you reply to me with your /r9k/ bullshit about how people do want to celebrate vapid, self absorbed cunts.
Obviously people favour attractive people and they can get away with alot more, i know plenty of girls who would have no freinds if they weren't attractive because they are boring as hell, do that mean that OP should act like a boring bitch?
>>17202673
You should expect them to be understanding and generally kind. Since most are basically humanists, it's kind of like having a friend / confidant who you can go to in order to work out your issues/ feelings.
If that's not clear enough. You're gonna sit in a room and have a discussion on a topic of your choosing. He will listen and provide feedback WITHOUT telling you what to do or how to feel. If he's worth his salt, it'll take him about 2 sessions to begin to zero in on the underlying issue or thought process. After 4 Sessions you should begin to understand why you feel this way and what you can do to counter it.
Psychiatrists are expensive, avoid them.
Counselors are much cheaper and closer to what you're looking for.
It should cost you nothing or next to nothing to sit down and go over what to expect with him.
There is nothing wrong with getting counseling. The issue is not silly or a waste of time. I had counseling when my parents divorced, and it worked out great for me. I was more understanding and less angry; more open to change and less guilty.
PS.
Nothing is lost by improving yourself physically and nutritionally. Reconsider these as options.
