>>17193857

my wife had an abortion. we had a one bedroom apartment and while we had plans for the future this just wasn't going to happen.

yes we were married, yes we were planning to have kids, but we weren't ready. she was still in school. i was just beginning my job. we were not in a position where we had any left over money at the end of the month and were already doing our best in terms of saving money, buying bulk etc.

so we got an abortion. it was well before the 'ITS ALIVE' time and to be honest i dont regret it. it will be an awkward conversation i have with my kids one day, but i do intend to ahve it, cuz i dont want them to feel ashamed of any decisions they might have to one day make regarding it.

i choose to think of it as no different then jerking off, or a woman's period.

>>17193857
If bringing a child into this world would make both of your lives significantly worse or if you would be bringing the child into a shitty situation, go through with the abortion and call it a lesson learned.

Don't fucking impregnate someone if you can't handle the consequences.

>>17193857
Don't feel bad about aborting, OP. I don't know your situation, but I'm pro-choice, so whatever your reasoning is to not keep the kid is your business. It will be stressful, you will feel a lot of emotions after it's done, but just hang in there.

>>17193857
I'll take your baby. I'm a decent person with a wife and job and kids of my own. Who knows, he/she might be a kickass kid. I am dead serious if there is the slightest possibility of helping you.

>>17193857
Whereabouts you live

>>17193857
Got 4 kids m80 and you will realize that they make your life better and make you a better person than any degree or job ever will.

>>17193857
Man up and fight for your kid, bro. There is no more noble, honorable, or decent thing. If she sees you are serious about keeping it alive odds are she will be too.