I can't be flirtatious with girls, because I have a deep

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2016-05-27 19:43:31 Post No. 17189572
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Anonymous 2016-05-27 19:43:31 Post No. 17189572 [Report]

I can't be flirtatious with girls, because I have a deep seated fear of saying something wrong, and not necessarily being rejected, but being attacked for 'sexual harassment' or being 'rapey'. I'm not talking shit like 'hey girl nice tits', but a 'hey, why don't we go back to my/your place for some wine?' at the end of a tinder date for example.

I went to a liberal private high school, where everything got around and getting rejected literally meant social suicide in a circle of >100 kids. I'm a decent looking dude with a healthy sex drive so naturally I tried to ask girls out with very limited success.

I enter college, and apparently it's completely normal among the rest of the population to just flirt hard with each other. Compared to my upbringing the shit I heard guys and girls say to each other was a fucking Brazzers script. I'd see guys that would literally pull an 'ey bb u want sum fuk' and girls would be down.

Apparently I'm physically attractive, because girls come up to me at parties and say so. Girls will show me attention, and some will even make the first move in fucking me. But I have never, ever in my life 'gamed' a girl into bed/a relationship etc. I'm just haunted by my younger days where if i were to say 'hey, maybe we should enjoy this wine at my place? ;)' just meant literal public shaming from SJW's.

Now I'm out of college and working, and I haven't shaken this hangup. With all this rape-culture hysteria and the gender-equality movement picking up steam, I just have a paranoia that if I try to make a move I'll just get an SJW fist to the face or something. Even if the girl is obviously flirting on me, unless she jumps on top of me (literally) i'll be really hesitant to make a move. What if she tells her friends I raped her? What if she tells her friends I'm a misogynist for xyz reasons?

tl;dr I'm piss scared feminists are going to ruin my life so I have trouble flirting and initiating sexual encounter what do

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Anonymous 2016-05-27 19:44:42 Post No.17189576
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Anonymous 2016-05-27 19:44:42 Post No.17189576 [Report]

>>17189572
>social suicide in a circle of less than 100 kids.

fixed

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Anonymous 2016-05-27 19:55:40 Post No.17189611
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Anonymous 2016-05-27 19:55:40 Post No.17189611 [Report]

Quit believing internet horror stories about "feminists" and "SJWs", what are you getting this from Breitbart? Your expectations are clearly false based on what you have observed other guys doing.

Drink more to loosen your inhibitions.

The internet is full of pickup advice, it is literally one of the most talked about topics next to videogames and porn, avail yourself of it.

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Anonymous 2016-05-28 02:02:56 Post No.17190542
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Anonymous 2016-05-28 02:02:56 Post No.17190542 [Report]

>>17189611
This.

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Anonymous 2016-05-28 02:05:10 Post No.17190554
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Anonymous 2016-05-28 02:05:10 Post No.17190554 [Report]

>>17189572
How were you asking girls to come back to ur place for wine in college???
Doesnt add up

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Anonymous 2016-05-28 03:15:57 Post No.17190773
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Anonymous 2016-05-28 03:15:57 Post No.17190773 [Report]

>lets go back to my place to drink wine

you sound like a faggot OP that's your first mistake. Just release all your inhibitions and go with what you want to do until she says no or indicates that she's no longer interested. Be confident in yourself that whatever sorry young woman that decided to spend time with you is there because she wants to be.