Im trying to do so, but its so hard. I see happy couples and, despite me knowing i can't have that, i still yearn for it. What do?
>>17182233
>stop watching anime
>improve yo self
>hygine included
>promote not only your success
>but your flaws
>get grill
>profit
>>17182233
I have accepted i'll never be happy but it changed nothing.
Acceptance is not the answer, anon. Wish i knew the answer though.
>>17182233
>never have a gf
people say this, but when you say
>i will never have a gf
what you are really saying is
>i refuse to have a gf
you can have a gf if you wanted to.
>>17182265
Thing is, too, that you don't have to be perfect or be ripped or ridiculously intelligent or whatever to get a girl.
All you need is excellent hygiene, self-confidence, and a healthy helping of humility / compassion to balance your self-confidence.
>>17182233
Relationships don't make you lastingly happy, unless you're in a really good marriage.
Girls will cheat on you and break-up with you, and it will suck. There will be plenty of pain to counter the pleasure you feel. Even if you have a good relationship, the dopamine high wears off after a year.
Listen to your rational side. Jerk off.
>>17182328
and also, the willingness to date within your own league.
>>17182328
>>17182342
Yes. This is a very good point.
>>17182265
I do improve myself, but its not possible for me to get a gf.
also i can't get a grill, like i mentioned before
>>17182328
>>17182342
>>17182351
how do i know what is my league?
>>17182338
well being single isn't happy but i have no other choice!
>>17182233
>i can't have that
yes you can faggot the only person stopping you is yourself so get your fucking ass out there you degenerate.
>>17182328
that's a fucking lie
>>17182233
op take it one day at a time like I do
>>17182233
Just keep on saying it like a mantra till the pain stops. Find a new angle from which to approach it that hurts -- like "I will never have children" -- and repeat. Carry on until there's nothing left to feel pain over.
You may end up depressed as fuck, though. I did, but it also worked.
>>17182377
one thing
>degenerate
i don't smoke, drink, be promiscious, or race mix, how am i a degenerate?
>>17182388
what do you do to get over it?
>>17182373
generally by who will turn you down. i mean girls can stil lturnj you down if they are your league or lower. but you can tell if you are attractive.
just dont be that guy who says
>I SEE OTHER UGLY GUYS WITH HOT CHICKS ALL THE TIME WHY CANT I GET ONE
hot chicks dont want a guy who insists on a hot guy.,
>>17182399
>on a hot girl*
Freudian slip, or typo? you be the judge.
>>17182398
distract myself with memes and friends
and late at night desperately wish for death
>>17182373
Only you know your league! That's something you have to figure our for yourself.
>>17182388
Seriously, it's not a lie. No one is perfect and anyone who expects that has outlandish expectations. Not to mention not every chick out there wants a ripped dude (and it also has a lot to do with what anon above said about dating within your own league.) If someone wants to "upgrade," then yeah, they'll have to work on themselves, but otherwise there are still plenty of chicks out there.
What matters most is it being obvious that you take care of yourself, that you put some effort in, like wearing clean, ironed clothes or whatever, and that you have some self-confidence. And I'm not taking arrogant bravado, I'm taking about legitimately being comfortable enough with yourself to know how to act around other people, and to not come on too strong, or too weak. And that, very simply, just takes practice.
And as a disclaimer (and I am certainly not claiming that you are amongst this type, since I don't know you at all,) regardless of how ripped, how smart, how rich, or whatever a guy is, if he is an arrogant asshole, the ONLY type of chick he'll get is one who wants to use him, abuse him, or is too naive to see through him.
>>17182399
that doesn't tell me much, i guess im at like 1-2 then?
but i won't like those girls, so i have no options.
>>17182373
>>17182445
And sorry, I misread your question. You'll only know your league through practice. It involves the possibility of rejection, but after some trial and error you begin to figure it out, more or less.
>>17182445
>great hygiene
>outgoing
>lots of good friends
>great at talking to women
>literally impossible to convince any woman to date me
i guess i'm just unlucky
regardless i'm gonna die alone
so maybe you're right, but it only applies to normal looking people
>>17182453
thats fine. i think its better to be on your own than with someone you dont like.
but i also believe that if ur so god ugly that no one you are attracted to will get wtih you, then you should consider companionship of just the companionship variety. all you need to be attracted for is sex after all.
but again, i think its better to be independent. girls dont make your life happy. maybe happier. but not happy. so make your life happy as is and you'll be fine.
also consider self improvement though. even if you gotta get plastic surgery. if you think being attractive will benefit you and you dont know what else to spend the moeny on, id consider it.
i likely will when im a bit older maybe. idk.
Not OP but I'm depressed and unmotivated to find a GF because it doesn't even seem like it would make me happier.
First off I haven't found any girls that would be interesting, all people seem boring to me DESU (though less boring than me I guess). And even if I did find someone like that, what do you even do with them? Sure we'd go out for a week and have fun and stuff, but then what?
The only thing I can imagine a GF being useful for is sex and someone to talk to once in a while.. Like, twice a month or so. The rest of the time I'd probably be sick of her and not want her near me... So I just want a toy for comfort and sex, not a GF I guess.
Now I've never had a friend and never fell in love before so maybe my opinion will change if I do, but I wonder if there's someone out there I could feel differently about...
Well at first i didnt want to accept it so i spent a couple years in the gym working out, taking care of my skin, and general health.
>none of it worked for getting women
I am in fact much healthier and still work out 5-6x a week.
Now i just recognize that women are not attracted to me at all and maybe if i got plastic surgery it would change, but im not willing to go that far.
Girl here,
I'm tired of you thirsty beta complaining about not getting pussy. It's a real turn off. I'm considered a very direct woman, so follow these crucial steps to at least get a 6/10
>Be attractive
Now being attractive isn't everything, but if you don't at least 8/10 looks, women will not even pay attention to you. Take care of your face and work out. If you're still ugly, get surgery or settle for some landwhale
>Be rich
The bare minimum is exactly $100, 000 a year. That's the economy for you. It's just the way it is. We want to be taken cared of. Even you do get a girl, she'll just leave you for the next rich alpha
>Social status
Chicks love it when you have connections and actually know how to talk to human beings. Not lonely social autist that can't even say two things to anyone. Having connections can come in handy in the future and doesn't hurt to be a person lots of people know.
>Nice car
All we want is to driven in a car that's not shitty. Just get a $20, 000 car. It's not too much to ask for. Oh and if you can't drive, consider suicide.
>Be tall
HOLY SHIT PLEASE BE TALL!
Why would a girl want to go out with a manlet? Theirs plenty of tall men for us you are not even worth the competition
>have big dick
Yup, size DOES matter. The whole "ocean" thing is bullshit. This is why we let black men do us.
>Don't be a virgin
Virgins are disgusting! They should be condemned to death. How are you still a virgin? Girls don't ask for much you know.
>Get rid of your pathetic interests
No more vidya, comics, anime weeabo shit, no porn, no more cartoons, MLP, and stop coming to this stupid Filipino image board. You're grown ass men, act like it.
>Be an asshole
We don't show it, but we love to be treated like stupid children. Why do you think women would stay with their abusive cheating boyfriends? But hey, if you are really nice, maybe we'll let you be our official orbiter.
That's it. Real easy if you ask me.
Don't forget-- just be yourself! :)
Have you ever aspired to be someone that wasn't a giant faggot?
Girls like people who have similar goals to them, just try to be nice, genuine and not fucked-in-the-head while you do it.
>>17182627
Please heed not this pasta.
It feeds only the misconceptions circulating on this board. Some women are like this. These women are horrible.
>>17182638
i do have goals, but its not possible for me to get a gf, its like asking a crippled kid to swim. I just want to know how toget over it but no one is helping
>>17182752
after i saw the height thing i knew that, but im 6'3" so i wouldn't need to worry about that.
>>17182265
>>stop watching anime
why stop watching anime? yeah, some anime is cringy, and shit, but not all of it is terrible. some anime is great.
>>17182233
people are just telling me to get one even though i can't
i thought /adv/ was supposed to help.
1. is chemical castration legal and 2. woiuld it kill the desire for a gf?
>>17182765
its considered a geeky or neet thing. so if you arent aiming for anime chicks, dont watch it.
my friends a really hot 8/10 or 9/10 guy. his girlfriend is also about 8/10 or 9/10. but shes into anime and obsessed with naruto, considered even getting a naruto tattoo. and hes a DC fanboy. like obsessive goes to see the movies three times in theaters and we talk about it daily and is working on a fan film where he plays the joker obsessed.
but you gotta remember if ur ugly watching anime doesnt help.
>>17182757
Crippled children can swim. They might need different tactics and equipment to successed, but its doable. Any things possible if your willing to try different tatics until you successed. But you rather jump into the deep end without water wings, and the bitch because your a drowning retard. Guess who's fault it is?
This ends the metaphor, go try to get women in a way you've never tried before. Rinse and repeat you lazy asshole.
>>17182782
1. Depends
2. Nope
>>17182809
>Crippled children can swim. They might need different tactics and equipment to successed, but its doable.
then their not really swimming, no one would be impressed by it, it doesn't count
Also, i CAN'T get women, thats a fact. Now, can you give me advice on how to get over it?
Im not butt ugly, I'm pretty normal looking, make decent money, in good shape, etc. But I refuse to date, because all I pull are black chicks and chubbies, the rest of the women race ignore me.
So I stopped dating. Fuck women.
>>17182794
any girl that is judgmental enough to not like someone, simply because they watch anime, isnt even worth dating. obviously there is a difference between being obsessed, and watching it. all a girl has to do is ask a few simply questions to find out if he is a neet or not. yeah, the anime community is pretty edgy and cringy, hence why alot shitty anime is popular. i think its wrong to tell someone to stop watching it if they enjoy it. i know plenty of people that like anime and they are completely normal.
i can understand a girl being put off by a guy if he is obsessed, to the point where his room is covered is action figures and shit like that, i mean, i would probably be putt off by a girl like that. nothing wrong with watching anime though, like someone watches breaking bad or some shit
>>17182816
My advice is to stop always looking for a reason to say "I can't."
>I can't get a gf
>I can't stop wanting one
>I can't be helped
The only thing you can't do is stop being a little bitch, and only God knows why that is it isn't that hard for everyone else that's over 4. Seriously, go buy some ballons for your pity party, I bet everyone who feels bad for you will show up. You and your lonely ass should have fun.
>>17182826
what is wrong with black women? lol
>>17182830
This isn't a fucking pity party, this is a FACTUAL FACT
here are some other facts
>i will never fight in the revolutionary war
>i will never ride a dinosaur
>i will never explore the Andromeda galaxy
and
>i will never have a gf
Im willing to listen to reason about how to look past it, but so far no one has suggested anything.
>>17182830
>Stop saying you can't. So what if you are a midget? Just grow taller! Then you can be in the NBA! Stop being a little bitch!
>>17182233
I know your feels, OP. I see all of my friends getting married, getting new relationships, going on dates and I just can't ever picture myself doing that. Besides the sex, I don't understand the need for romantic relationships. I see the things that people do for their significant others and I don't see myself every being able to do those things. They seem so contrived like they only do those things because it's what you're supposed to do when you're in a relationship not because it's what you want to do. Perhaps I'm just an autistic sperglord.. I don't even know these days. I've resigned myself to the fact that I will most likely never have a girlfriend. Strippers and whores will be my life until I die.
>>17182836
how can you know this for a fact? what happens when you approach women in a bar or club and talk to them?
>>17182831
they smell and have gorilla faces
>>17182836
start a revolution
clone a dinosaur
build a space ship
fag
>>17182836
No one alive today will do those first things. Almost everyone of those will get a gf or a bf. You shitty flare comparison shows a very insecure person. Comparing those things is the throwing yourself a pity party, that's why you can't get over this.
Getting a gf and accepting that you'll never have one requires the sane thing, about 10 years of missing emotional maturity.
>>17182846
nothing ever comes of it, ever
i may get a good friend, but thats it
Its just not possible.
>>17182839
exactly
>>17182850
good meme
>>17182861
if manlet shitskins and south america can lead a revolution you can too
>>17182857
yeah and getting a dinosaur requires 10 years of emotionial maturity too
Listen buddy, im not like you, i don't have it easy and can get a gf. Some of us are born without the ability and have to struggle to live without it.
>>17182862
im not physical strong and can't use a gun
>>17182627
i thought this was real until the be rich part lol
>>17182861
maybe you're not direct enough with them? i mean, women will often friendzone a guy if he doesent be straight with what he wants.
>>17182839
Shortest player was 5'3. Yes, plenty of things are physical impossible. But even short fat retards with drinking problems have found mates, so when you compare that to somthing like time travel or even somthing more realistic like becoming famous, you look like an self pitying idiot. Which is a huge turn off to almost everyone, unless you wan a date /r9k/.
>>17182866
>muh can't
fucking learn
stop whining.
>>17182863
No, riding a dinosaur is impossible, no human has ever done that. Millions of people who are shit people have found mates. I mean dont get me wrong, your making a strong case for being worse then them. Your inability to understand that just because somthing is impossible due to time being a straight line and physics being around doesn't mean its a valid comparison for your inability to get laid. That a pretty basic life skill most 10 year olds have, so I might need to bump up the estimated amount of emotional maturity you need to under this situation you are in.
>>17182866
>Can't get strong
>Can't learn to use a gun
Weird how no one ever needs/wants someone whose only trait is a can't do attuide. No wonder you can't move past this, you can't do anything.
>>17182908
funnily enough if he moved to Venezuela and started dealing drugs/murdering people/ leading a revolution he would likely be drowning in women
Thanks nothing guys
I do try to get better at some things, but I can't help this
>>17182940
>boo hoo you guys didn't fulfill my badly disguised request for pity
get gud or get ded
>>17182961
Not pity , just want to get over this
>>17182940
I feel you anon. I just don't know how to help you.
You know what's sad?
We analyze our situation, think of ways to improve ourselves, read about the subject, actually try to get better at it etc
But there are ugly, fat neckbeards with no career or actual goal in life fucking girls every now and then. And they don't analyze shit, it just happens for them
That no-tooth cashier skeleton guy working at McDonalds? Probably going to fuck his gf that night
That drunk homeless man at the corner? Probably has a family of 5 somewhere
Everyone has sex. No matter rich or poor, tall or short, ugly or handsome.
Maybe it's because they don't even think about it and it just happens naturally, but fuck if I stopped caring I wouldn't even see a human being in weeks.
I don't even know anymore
>>17182233
I've been there too man. You'll hit rock bottom soon and decide what to do from there yourself
I decided to improve myself as much as I can. Nice car, awesome job that pays pretty well, currently working on furnishing my house.
But it's all not for some stupid fucking girl that suddenly decided to drift my way in between boyfriends.
>>17182979
i'm like that too. get gud or get ded
i am choosing to get ded this sunday
>>17182233
I'm 5'3", ugly face and wide hips dude... if anyone can't get a gf it's me
>kinda want a gf
>Kinda don't
Anyone feeling this?
You know what's even worse? Being someone who has a shitty personality. I'm /fit/ (like top 1% fit, not just meme fit), smart, relatively handsome (7/10), and kind. But I'm literally autistic, so even though I can talk to girls just fine and even make them laugh, there's just something about my personality that drives them away. I can just tell they're not comfortable around me, which makes me not comfortable. Just my shitty personality. It's like I'm SO close, I can literally gets girls to initially like me, but so far away because I'm just shit.
Serious, if you can make a girl feel comfortable around you, such that she feels like she can be who is really is around you, she'll begin to like you.
My paraplegic friend is great at doing that and gets girls to fall in love with him all the time. Paraplegic.
>>17183028
I didn't have my first girlfriend until I was 22. The only thing I liked was sex and cuddling. Fucking her brains out and then cuddle/kiss each other to sleep. The rest sucked... being expected to plan things myself, paying for her, talking to her parents, her annoying friends, having to text her all day, and having to deal with her problems...
it's just not worth it. Sex/cuddling/kissing is where it's at... the rest, not so much. Don't really care about getting a gf anymore. Funny thing is that when I stopped caring, more girls started approaching me even though I'm ugly as fck. Some sort of placebo effect?
>>17183061
>having to text her all day
i hate this too. this is the main reason why i havent had a peroper relationship for about two years. i have tried dating women but i cant stand all the bull shit.
>>17183028
I'm with you. I'm burned out.
I meet women and they slowly but surely unload all their neuroses and flaky behavior on me, and I'm just like "been there, done that". It probably doesn't help that I had an LDR in high school which, frankly, really soured my interest in ever going after a woman again. Sometimes I put my self out there and get rejected. The last woman I thought I had a pretty good shot with but still got turned down. I'm mostly over it now but at the same time it seems like no matter what I do, I've always got a dealbreaker that's just too much to handle. Should probably work on whatever it is.
Can you guys at least point me some here I can ask for assistance on this issue ?
>>17182233
>>17183134
Thanks for the meme and not helping me
For me OP it's not that I can't get a gf. I could always get some 2/10 or a fat gf. But the fact that I'll never have a cute girlfriend just kills me... :/
Thanks for nothing
Well all I've come up with is to drown out the desire to get a GF by watching anime and other escapist measures. I still feel depressed while lying in my bed at night sometimes though :(
>>17182839
Fucking idiot. The max a midget can reach is 4'10. And Mugssy wasn't a midget, he was just really short. Learn the fucking difference.
This thread is full of retards using Just World Fallacies, Name calling, and anecdotal evidence. It doesn't provide FACTUAL ideas and solutions for The OP.
I'm the guy who made this copypasta
>>17182627
While yes, it's satire that pokes fun at how womens requirements can be a lot for a guy, at least it gives detail on what is expected on you and how to achieve it. Many of these aren't achievable or worth the effort, but at least it gives a guideline.
