Finally broke up with my SO of fourish years on and off. How do I stop falling immediately in love with people with whom I'm going on dates? I've been single a total of... 6 months in the last 6 years. And before that I was underage and a huge sex-less lameo. Should I even be concerned that I'm already falling in love with someone new? Or should I tell my friends to fuck off and let me proceed at whatever pace I want...
>>17182196
fuck your mates, you do whatever the fuck you want. the wholepoint in going on dates is to find someone you like, and part of being a good person is acknowledging and accepting when they don't like you the same way.
Just keep doing what you're doing and don't be a little bitch about it.
>you're going on dates
you're already 30 years ahead of all the whuny virgins on /b/ for example so be proud and fuck loud.
stop being such a fucking beta.
if you want a girl, get ripped (eyecandy)
talking to people might also help.
>>17182245
>if you want a girl
Gay, 58 year old man*
>beta
I'll ignore that for now, since I'm clearly getting out there and not hiding behind my excuses/computer.
>>17182257
I get that guy's angle, he's just trying to encourage you by being harsh.
But he's basically right. You're out there, enjoy it and do what you like.
Reporting back in if anyone has anything to add or to mock me.