I'm a virgin, but I usually don't care about it until a friend mention they had sex or anything about it. I just get uncomfortable about me being a virgin in does moments.
I don't want to have sex just to not be a virgi, but evertime sex is brought up I just get all awkward and sad
Same Bro, it means sex nowadays is not only an activity but also social status. You should try to improve yourself in other ways
>>17180834
Just lie about your sex life like everyone else.
>>17180834
Your friends are all lying. Join in.
You must not be very old as that's not very adult behavior.
>>17181687
what? adults can be insecure. i know some adults that are incredibly insecure, and even liars.
>>17180834
as you get older you will find that most of life is conflicting.
for instance, you may take great pride in how you are on a healthy all natural diet and kicking ass and getting fit, but you'll also feel really bad when your friends invite you out and proceed to chug beers and eat pizza and donuts in front of you.
you are going to want to stay in and study some nights and your friends are going to brag about how they can just get a C- and still go out and party that night.
you are going to want to get a summer job and your friends are going to brag about how much fun they are having while you're stuck making minimum wage to pay for school.
its going to happen a lot. every day of every year. and its okay. stand by what you think is best for you, and dont be afraid to explore options when they present themselves.
there is nothing wrong with being a virgin imo. hold on to that while you can cuz you will look back and notice a difference.
>>17181698
>hey ooooo I had sex
Not exactly a subject of casual conversation. Well, ok, I can mention to a good friend that yea I fucked her. But that's about it.
>>17181706
sex can come up a lot depending on your social circle. it is not considered weird for friends of the same gender to talk about their sex life. especially at an age where they are just beginning to explore sex.
its not 'casual' conversation. it is intimate conversation. lots of people are that intimate with their friends.
my friend and I discuss our sex lives almost every time we hang out, sometimes even when his girlfriends right there and some times she even chimes in.
OP here
it's not like I don't want to have sex. I really so. But not just for losing my virginity. just for the experience
>>17181750
and thats fine and great hence my advice:
>>17181705
its something you're just gonna have to deal with. but you got a good head on your shoulders and arent pathetic like all the 'I AM THINKING OF GETTING A HOOKER SO I CAN LOSE MY VIRGINITY'
as if that will really make a difference. you'd still be basically a virgin.
nah, keep your head where its at, be ready for whatever happens, and try to ignore your friends.
there is nothing wrong with being virgin, if your friends do not accept you they are stupid asholes
>>17181750
Your virginity means nothing.
in elementary school a guy said he was a virgin, a bunch of other guys made him go to a cheap hooker, i think the guy got herpes and got his sexual life ruined forever, the moral of the story is not to go to cheap hookers and of course not to fall under social pressure
I honestly see no issue with getting a hooker to lose your virginity. It mainly pisses normie women off because hookers devalue their pussy power.
That said, I wouldn't get one off the streets. I'd shoot for an escort if I still had my virginity and was desperate to lose it.
>>17181917
you're still basically a virgin if you see a hooker, at least socially.
the whole point of losing your virginity is proving you can do it.
thats like saying you're a 'hunter' be cuz you shot a deer someone put in a cage for you.
>>17181918
>at least socially
There is no such thing as being a "social virgin". Dick goes into vagina, bam not a virgin.
Prove you can do it? To who? You sound like you just left high school. You don't need to prove anything to anyone, all that matters is that you aren't a virgin anymore, and when someone asks all you have to say is "I'm not a virgin". You don't have to list every little detail for your faggot friend to prove you aren't a virgin.
God you're pathetic.
>>17181934
>all that matters is that you arent a virgin anymore
why? if you arent trying to prove anything to anyone then what does it actually matter if you are a virgin or not? most of the conversations here on /adv/ are started, like this one, due to the social inconveniences of being a virgin. this OP isn't interested in hookers, but all the other ones ive seen are doing it simply because they want to be able to say they arent a virgin. as in, say to people.
>im pathetic
you're the one suggesting hookers. i could only assume you've used them.
i actually lost my virginity like a normal person does, but sure im the pathetic one.
>>17181963
I lost mine when I was 17.
The idea of being a virgin is irrelevant when people are questioning you. All you have to say is no I'm not, and almost never will anyone pressure you about it, unless you're in high school.
Also, having it stuck in your head that you're still a virgin post 20 is probably pretty shitty for a lot of guys. Does it really matter what route they lose it, just so they can get it out of their minds and feel better? I lost my virginity to the fattest bitch in school, and she was easy as fuck. Does that mean I'm still a virgin because she was easy, or fat? No, all that mattered was that I wasn't a virgin anymore, and I instantly got a huge boost in confidence and moved on.
People aren't desperate to lose their virginity to tell people they aren't a virgin, they are desperate to lose it so it isn't looming over their psyche and shitting on their confidence.
>>17181963
>if you arent trying to prove anything to anyone then what does it actually matter if you are a virgin or not?
16 year old spotted. I didn't lose mine until I was 23. It feels immensely fucking awful to be a virgin at that age. The how loses its meaning as you get older and remain a virgin, its like above just said, you go the easiest route to lose it, so it isn't looming over you. Not so you can say to people you aren't a virgin.
When you remain a virgin after 18 it fucking hurts man.
>>17182036
and getting a hooker wont fix their confidence, cuz again it betrays what they know to be true, that losing their virginity does give you status. and if you are the only one who knows you lost it to a hoooker, it does literally nothing to your confidence, except maybe hurt it becuase you know you 'lost' it the wrong way.
you found someone who was willing to sleep with you. you didnt pay her. you did the correct course.
getting a hooker is like saying you lost your virginity to an onahole.
>lost virginity to an easy fat chick
but sure, im pathetic.
>>17181706
I'm 26, and sex is a pretty common subject of discussion. Maybe it just depends on the type of people you are around. But my co-workers often talk about women
Like, OP, I feel like shit when my co-workers talk about sex. I haven't had sex in 6 years. Granted I'm not out looking for sex. And I choose to not have sex. But because of the whole social aspect. It makes me feel like shit
>>17182040
>16 year old spotted
>says the guy who didnt lose virginity til 23
i did lose my virginity before 16 and im 23 now.
>it feels immsensely fucking awful to be a virgin at that age
yeah cuz its pathetic. yet you insult me...
>being a virgin is soo hardddddd
And you act like im a 16 year old jesus.
you guys got some fucked up views on the world
>>17181918
the real important matter is to have the skills to convince a non-hooker woman to have sex with you, any piece of shit can have sex with a hooker
