I don't know if I should see a doctor or not but I'm 20 and can't maintain an erection during sex. I find my girlfriend completely attractive and I still cant I don't know if it's psychological or if I have real ed or something. I've been off porn for weeks now and I still feel like that hasn't done the trick
well if you were getting an erection from porn its probably not ed.
I've read about performance anxiety and I think it may be that. I'm just curious if anyone could tell me what to do to overcome it. Or even if there's like over the counter shit to take
smoke some weed before sex
I would but sadly drugs are a nono for her and she would be mad if I did.
>>17179698
don't tell her. i fucked this girl and couldn't get hard sober smoked a blunt and I was rock hard solid and fucked the shit out of her
>>17179673
Well its either that or you fap too often with a "death grip".
If its fapping the answer is easy, stop fapping you fucking degenerate.
If it's the anxiety thing well.. that's harder. You need to realize and accept that sex is just a primal act done by everyone, even fucking animals, it's not brain surgery. You're biologically programmed to do it, you don't need to worry about how you perform because it's not a test and you're not there to impress her, you're there to satisfy a natural urge. Like taking a shit, kind off.
I'll try to keep that mindset tomorrow when I see her. No fap is easy as fuck but I can get a erection outside of sex is what I was trying to say. I'm just happy that this girl is patient with me about it. I don't leave her hanging either she gets hers i just feel stupid having her stroke my half hard Dick to no avail