My girl talked about massaging my prostate to give me a wild orgasm, I shrugged it off because I didn't want to look like a little beta bitch.
Did I do wrong? Am I missing out on something great?
Will my gf think I'm a lesser man if I let her do it?
GIRL LITERALLY WANTS TO PUT HER FINGER INSIDE THE PLACE POOP COMES OUT OF YOU IN ORDER TO GIVE YOU WAHT SHE THINGS WILL BE AN EVEN AMAZING ORGASM THAN YOU HAVE EVER HAD
THIS GIRL LOVES YOU, SHE WILL NOT LEAVE YOU FOR A PROSTATE MASSAGE ITS LIKE THE MOST KINGLY SHIT YOU CAN HAVE DONE
PEGGING IS A DIFFERENT STORY, BECUASE ITS LIKE DOMINATION, PROSTATE MASSAGE IS LIKE TOTAL SERVICE TO HER MAN DOING WHATEVER HE WANTS
yeah you are being silly about this
The other poster has a good argument, but also my most amazing bodily experience came from finger in ass. Don't know why I didn't let her do it years earlier.
That said, she really knew what she was doing, studying tantra and yoga and all. I felt it all the way up my spine and it was mind blowing.
I tried prostate massaging to help heal from masturbation injuries affecting my prostate/bladder. It felt very intensely like I was about to pee or cum, but no fluid came out, and no orgasm. This was only in the shower after a shit, and strictly for medical reasons, otherwise stucking thinks up your ass is degenerate, unsanitary and absolutely disgusting.
It's kink. Either you're into it or you aren't. If a girl stimulates your prostate while jacking you off, hypothetically it should create a stronger orgasm, but either you're into it or not. If you're not, you shouldn't be ashamed of that. I personally wouldn't mind having a finger up there, but nothing more than that, and I'd want to do shit to her asshole too. 'cuz I'm weird like that. I also have a bit of a peeing fetish, and in porn I love massages. In actual sex I'm really into when a girl I like's armpits get sweaty, and put my face right up in it. 'cuz I'm weird like that. But I hate BDSM and would never do it in either role, and I'm not into feet. I like tiny tits and big asses. Different folks, different strokes.
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Maybe I'll give it a try
If she starts calling me a bitch after that I'll blame it on 4chan
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>>17177165
This
Honestly OP, the most beta thing you can do is care about what's 'beta' and what's not. You were literally about to deny yourself a new form of pleasure just to avoid 'looking beta' and that is the most cuck thing I've heard today. Try to just not care at all. And not in a 'hah yeha I don't give a fuck I'm so cool" way, but in the sense that you genuinely let go of the desire to be 'alpha' or 'not beta'.
>tf when your chances of finding a girl that would give you a prostate massage are like 2% at best.
I don't think I can handle it
I had recurring prostatitis (a stubborn infection that wouldn't go away) for almost a year, when I was about 30. No shit, the treatment was masturbation and antibiotics. My wife read about prostate massage (I had read about it, didn't want to try it), convinced me to give it a shot. Basically, she blew me while poking around my prostate with a finger.
End result is that yeah, you do have a somewhat more intense orgasm, but mostly I was just VERY aware of there being a finger in my ass, and it was disconcerting. The feeling of pressure and vague discomfort on top of that wasn't erotic at all.
You can get the same effect without all the negatives by having your wife/gf press somewhat firmly on your taint, just under your balls, before you get off. It's pleasant, and doesn't come with the negatives associated with having things in your ass.
We did that once a week for a month. I think it did help kill the infection, like squeezing an infected zit. At any rate, it didn't bring much positive to the table for me, but maybe someone else will be into it.
