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2016-05-23 04:48:59 Post No. 17172918
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2016-05-23 04:48:59
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I don't know what to do..
So my "ex" (that I've been with for two and a half years) and I still continue to talk and we both have said that we still enjoy talking to each other and that we also still love one another. The problem is, he doesn't want to get back together; I live in Canada and He, in the USA. To him, it's better for us to stay friends or wait it out but I feel like he just expects me to get over him as time passes. He also has a girl friend that he's expressed feelings for to me and I am extremely jealous about it because him and her are so perfect together. Although he says that their relationship is perfect the way it is, and how they'd prefer to just remain friends (and have been for 6 years) I can't help but think hes just telling me these things even though they plan to be room mates (she can easily live with him since she's also in the US). He's also told me that it's irrational to think that getting back together at this point is the right thing to do because I am currently jobless and struggling with emotional problems and some drug abuse. I understand where hes coming from but the fact that he says "If you come here, have $$ and mature a bit we could be together" just really leads me on; I think he just says that to make me feel better... I feel like I'm only pushed to get better for him and not myself which obviously isn't right but hes the only reliable person in my life that I deeply love and value. I want to stay around and be his friend, his company is comforting and I just don't know what to think/do/feel.
Advice? Opinions?
