>>17171396

Google pearl index (failure rate) for condoms.
Realize that it is 2-12% depending on study.
Ask yourself if a 2-12% gamble of getting an STI is worth it.

If the answer is yes, go for higher class prostitutes that don't do drugs and work on their own.

>ALSO: How to avoid getting HPV because i'd rather die of AIDS than have a wart covered cock.

By using a condom AND NOT LICKING HER.

>>17171396

id vote no. mostly because i dont consider sex with a condom to be worth it at all. but i dont have a sensitive dick, for others it must be good. i just never understood the appeal.

just realize that having sex with her will only make you technically not a virgin. but 'spiritually' or whatever you are still basically a virgin.

>>17171396
99/100 4channers who post about escort or prostitute services say they regret it. Like not worth the money. Or it was over quick. Or she was a diseased looking crack whore type.

OP try tinder.

>>17171396
I say no, but depends your ideals in love, I waited until I was 19, found the perfect girlfriend out of nowhere. We lost it to each other and it was great and is great knowing that we haven't done shit with others. I would have even waited until marriage for this girl, either way, just think about one day finding a perfect girl who is a virgin and she cant feel as special and you could feel guilty. Up to you though, sex isn't that important, it's just this thing thats like your drivers license. Feels bad that everyone else has it and you don't, but once you do it, you don't feel that different.

>>17171410
Anything over a 1/10 chance is a little too high for me... The women on the escort section of backpage look fairly clean, but I guess you never know. My friend fucked one and he's fine. Also why would I give oral to a whore? I'm paying her to fuck me so she's obviously not going to get any pleasure from it.
>>17171422
I'm not going to have unprotected sex regardless... Too paranoid. Also wtf is a technical virgin? This shit is fucking stupid man, either you've had sex or you haven't. We may not even have a spirit, we die and rot in the ground, so why not live life to the fullest before then?
>>17171431
There's this thing called backpage. It has a gallery of whores that you can look through, and you can call them up before you do anything. The pics have a chance of being fake, but according to a close friend he fucked the woman from the picture. I think $100 for 30 min is pretty worth it to fuck a woman that isn't 200 lbs overweight (because god knows i cant do better otherwise).

>>17171396

Noooooooo. Was in your exact same position. Grow a pair of balls and just try to fuck everything that moves that isn't a prostitute. It sounds scary but it is a lot less shameful in the long run than paying for sex.

This is one of those things like killing someone, having a kid, or cheating on your wife. You are not going to know how it feels until after you do it.

Take it from someone who did it, I would recommend AGAINST it.

>>17171467

>why not live life to the fullest.

spirit has many meanings. in this case, i mean to say, that you did not actually lose your virginity. as you said you 'give' it to a prostitute.

for instance, lets say you wanted to go through a different right of passage. for instance, making a friend. you didn't make a friend if you simply paid someone to hang out with you. or for instance you want to kill an animal while hunting. doesn't count if you pay someone to hold an animal in place so you can shoot it. say you want to get a job... and your father simply lets you work for him.

what i mean by all this is that these thigns when paid for do have their own merits, but the idea of 'losing your virginity' is that you prove yourself worthy of someone wanting to take it.

paying a hooker for sex and fun, the way you say 'dont like thei dea of going 2 full decades withotu shoving my dick in something' is not a bad idea.

but culturally, spiritually, significantly, you are still a virgin. im not saying dont do it. im simply saying you gotta remember it doesn't fix the problem itself.

>>17171454
>Feels bad that everyone else has it and you don't, but once you do it, you don't feel that different.

Yeah man, i'm like the only one at my university that doesn't get laid. I may have a long dick but i'm ugly as sin, so I think i'm a perfect candidate for paid intercourse. It's extremely frustrating because my penis is always bothering me to pleasure it but I'm too ugly to have sex. Maybe if i had a small dick i'd be more accepting of the fact that I can't get laid because it wouldn't take control of my brain when it got hard.

Also about the perfect gf thing... I will never have that. I am what many would refer to as a jackass. I've never loved anyone except maybe my father because he's given me all I have.

>>17171396
No. Losing one's virginity isn't important. Stop being a degenerate. How about try gaining skills to get you out of minimum wage instead of wasting money on something retarded that you'll regret?

>>17171495

post pic? worst case scenario we give make over advice. /adv/ isnt an asshole about it like other boards.

just saying. you gotta rememebr there are some girls who are ugly as sin too. unless you are paying for a REALLLY expensive prostitute, most of em are ugly too.

might as well fuck an uggo for free, and maybe one who might really be into you.

>>17171491
Sex is sex. Paid companionship is not friendship. I am paying for sex, not love.
>you prove yourself worthy of someone wanting to take it.
I'm not worthy... that's my point... I used to be in great shape when I was younger and girls used to take interest but i've recently had to start working exhausting night shifts and along with school it's very hard. It's a shame to think that once i started really working on succeeding in life THAT'S when I stopped being attractive. This fucking world we live in...

>>17171496
I AM gaining skills to get a better job. Working on a bio degree.

>>17171516

>i know i could earn it but i choose not to
>paying for sex is different than paying for other things

whatever helps you sleep at night. you know... alone.

>>17171528
I'll probably start exercising once I'm out of college, but for the time being it's kind of useless considering I have extremely limited "free time." I put that in quotations because my free time is my 3-5 hours of sleep time, and if you know anything about exercise you know you won't see good gains if you don't sleep. I don't even have time to eat. I lost 65 lbs (all my previous gains and more) in only a few months.

Don't listen to the fags telling you no. Get her and then do all the nastiest degrading shit you can think off. Shit on her chest and but a load in her eye. Being a virgin is for faggots.

>>17171557
I was honestly expecting more replies like this. Honestly people are telling me no for once, so maybe it's a sign.

I'm thinking maybe i'll just pay for an asian massage and get jerked off. That way I can still say i'm a virgin but be satisfied.

Don't do it Op! Having Sex in itself is not that gratifying. It's the conquest of getting someone to be intimate with you that is great. Losing it to a prostitute is like giving up and 19 is definitely way to early for that.

Did you have some prior sexual experiences with girls?

>>17171578
Good idea