Sex problems?
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>25
>been single for a year
>new gf
>find out now I can get very very hard at first but can't maintain it
>often cant keep it up through foreplay
>have sex with new gf 5+ times a day but often it's vigorous thrusting with a 3/4 chub and fear of going soft
>sometimes go totally soft while in her, especially in later rounds, have to stop or have her blow me
>still get very hard, almost painfully hard, erections at night and in morning that last a while
what do I do? I should also mention that I've had mild urinary retention for years (fq, incomplete voiding, straining, but hasn't been bad.) I dunno if I have some kind of chronic prostatitis or I'm just burned out on sex.
What about porn?
The stuff about later rounds is normal though.
>>17170649
seriously, is it normal to have sex five times a day? wtf. can you get anything else done at all?
>>17170655
this
>>17170649
At number 3-4 it starts hurting my penis and I've had injuries because of it. I have sex to enjoy myself, not to have a record count.
Plus her vagina is also made of steel! Wtf?
>>17170654
Used to have a problem with porn. To be honest, this all started when I did nofap/noporn for a while, then went to hookup with a different girl, got really hard and then lost it inexplicably. Been terrified since then.
>>17170655
Sometimes its more than that (15 times in 36 hours recently), but like I say, usually after the first 2 or 3 I literally just end up humping like crazy to try and stay hard and end up climaxing in a minute or two.
If it's the first time its better but sometimes I still get worried and go slightly soft if I back off
>>17170671
and why do you have sex so often?
>>17170698
I dunno, we just feel like it. Usually lay in bed talking for a while until I get hard again (but then I lose it)
>>17170649
Had the same issue for 3 months. You just have to stop caring, after that you will never go soft again. It's all in your head, relax.
>>17170863
Thanks man, that's really what I'm hoping so it's good to hear.
>>17171223
No dude he's wrong. No man can cum 5 times a day and not lose their sex drive.
If you don't have enough energy for sex, just tell your gf "I want to focus on you tonight." and just eat her out and make her cum in different ways.
When I first started dating a girl we had sex five times a day. After a few months, I lost my sex drive. I tried to have sex but couldn't get hard or finished really fast. Avoiding cumming for five days fixed it. Now I just try to only cum from sex once a day max, and I never ever fap unless I have blueballs and gf isn't around.
