I've had enough.
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I've just about had enough of this shit. I need a fucking GF, I've followed all these memes and guidelines, I present myself well, I'm not a fucking autist or sperglord. I'm tall, dark and fairly handsome, nowhere near fat and yet NO fucking women take interest in me. I have no fucking friends, I'm literally alone all day playing shitty games and dreaming of the impossible.
I see couples every single day, every fucking where at it pisses me off. My blood boils at the sight of a happy couple because it's not me. What the fuck is wrong? Why the fuck don't I have a gf, how the hell do i get a gf?
Please help me before I an hero, I have no intention to die alone. I NEED GF
>tfw no gf
>tfw no qt agf
AND NO, THIS IS NOT BAIT.
pls help. i am furious hence the outburst.
>>17170467
>I'm literally alone all day playing shitty games and dreaming of the impossible
why would you want a gf when there's this problem to deal with?
Have you thought of what you would do once you got a gf?
>>17170474
I'd hang out with her, treat her right and do all the fun things i've always wanted to do with someone.
I'm not a neet, I'm a student. I know what I want to do, but literally nothing happens. Wtf
> alone all day playing shitty games and dreaming of the impossible.
Here's your problem
Hang out with people, do interesting stuff, etc
This is coming from a guy who hangs out with people and still doesn't have a gf.
I know how it feels to crave for a gf, but this shouldn't be your main goal.
Because if you're not happy with your life, a gf might make things worth for you.
You will have to be there for her, provide and all, and if you can't even do that to yourself, chances are you won't be able to do that to her
having a gf feels good, but if you're not happy with yourself, you'll become paranoid, jealous, always asking yourself questions about her. She'll see it, and slowly lose interest for you, then she'll leave you and you'll feel even worse than when you were tfw no gf
I know this whole thing sounds depressing but it's usually how it goes if you don't get your shit together before getting a gf
>>17170482
>Because if you're not happy with your life, a gf might make things worth for you.
*might make things worse
sorry i'm a retard
>>17170482
>This is coming from a guy who hangs out with people and still doesn't have a gf.
seems like its fine to ignore you
>>17170467
maybe you're a dick.. girls hate dicks.
>>17170492
except i don't want to kill myself like OP because "tfw no gf", and i know how it is to be with a girl when you feel shitty about yourself. It's not something you want
>>17170482
I literally have no one to hang out with, 99.99% of my friends i met online. Even though i want to go out and hang out and do fun stuff, there's no one to hang out with.
>>17170500
I'm far from a dick, not being cocky or pretentious but I'm a genuinely nice and selfless person.
>>17170501
The killing myself bs was just edgy nonsense out of rage.
>>17170517
>Even though i want to go out and hang out and do fun stuff, there's no one to hang out with.
>needing people to do fun stuff
not gonna make it
>>17170624
I wanna make it brah, but these days things are so shit. Being alone for so long makes it not fun at all.
>>17170691
You won't make it, like I said before there's like an age limit (around 25) before making new friends become difficult without prior experience.
>>17170728
I'm not 25 though
>>17170742
If you're still in education, you can join geek/nerd/anime clubs, I have no idea if they're full of normies these days.
>>17170758
The anime club in my university is full of autists. Plus is just a bunch of indians from what I saw on their page.
Other than that, the other groups/societies are shit. Not even making excuses, there's no variety they're all shit.
>>17170467
>>17170467
>. I have no fucking friends, I'm literally alone all day playing shitty games and dreaming of the impossible.
probably why women dont take interest in you. i wouldent be interested in a women who done fuck all with her life. playing games is fine but you have to find a balance.
>>17170774
Look, dude, you don't really have much of a choice.
Same problem. What's wrong w/ me?
>>17170815
You have no self esteem and you try too hard to fit in
>>17170778
kek, im not actually that buttblasted you autist.
>>17170799
There's not much to do outside studying and education. I've done alot 2bh, I'm just saying what I resort to due tot he lack of things to do.
>>17170808
I refuse to hang out with autists who post 4chan bullshit on their facebook page.
>>17170467
>I'm tall, dark
>dark
I think I found the issue.
>>17170815
Is that you? You'd be very cute if you'd smile every now and then. It works wonders, no matter which gender (making friends with guys or girls or for flirting with girls)
>>17170866
(You)
>>17170885
Ima girl actually
This one to be exact >>17170884
>>17170848
>I refuse to hang out with autists who post 4chan bullshit on their facebook page.
>mfw no autists at my uni
i'd gladly trade with you, OP
Nothings gonna happen unless you make the first move op
>>17170958
Honestly, I wouldn't have minded having 4chan autists at my uni, since I know practically nobody these days.
>>17170848
>I refuse to hang out with autists who post 4chan bullshit on their facebook page.
Dude, you got no choice, it's either 4chan retards or no one.
>>17170890
That's not me (OP) just some random anon.
>>17170958
Too bad you don't go to my uni.
>>17170967
Yeah I'm.pretty shy but I haven't had the opportunity to talk to new people out of the blue. Idk what to say and I don't want to embarrass myself. I always thought maybe if I present myself well, they'd come to me but so far nothing.
>>17170986
>>17171019
I guess so. Well there's always next time I can check it out though it's not too much to my interest.
First step, stop bitching for not getting what you want.
Second step, stop looking for help on an anime image board.
Step three, go outside, socialize, people watch, pay attention to their behaviors.
Dating is marketing, you're only as good as what you can give to another person. If your life is boring, you're boring. If your passed off all you can give another person is stress. If you're even somewhat of a tolerable person to be around, you can at least get a girl that wants to help peel back the barriers and help you.
>>17171116
>I guess so. Well there's always next time I can check it out though it's not too much to my interest.
Good, otherwise you'll be kicking yourself years down the line posting on a chinese cartoon board.
