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I'm pretty open sexually, so have no problem with my bf looking at porn and stuff- it doesn't affect our sex life and I have books that are just as foul (if not worse).

Thing is, I was using his computer because mine was down and ended up seeing he checks out loli porn. I didn't say anything, but I feel really awkward about it and don't know how to take it.

I know they aren't actual children and I mostly registered them as 'cartoon' when I saw it, but its still nagging me a little.

Am I ruffled for no reason? Pic related, closest I could find to what I saw.
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>asking if loli is strange on a mongolian pedo club board
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>>17167607

nope. i like shoota and its cuz im part pedo.

one thing to consider is that more people are 'part pedo' then you think. it isnt really its own sexuality.

i like young boys. but i also like guys my age. a lot. i also like guys older than me. i just like guys. and nature doesn't have a magic switch that says 'stop liking them when they are XX age' in your brain.

especially in terms of men where the development isn't all that different. as opposed to women wiht the boobage.

as you can imagine most of these people dont ever actually assault a child. its simply not convenient when adult pussy is so abundant. i wouldnt even worry about them with your own kids.

when i visit my nephews and nieces i never once pop a boner, eve nthough they are admittedly attractive. but its just like meeting any guy, i dont pop a boner due to interaction with every single guy i see. same way a beast person wont get horny just seeing a dog walk by.

you gotta remember that being part pedo doesn't make someone hypersexual. if his porn is diverse, i wouldnt worry about it. if you find hes exclusively into loli for long periods of time, you might want to make a break for it.
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>>17167607
I hope you don't think what you posted qualifies as loli porn. If you're willing to take this from a guy who also looks at loli porn sometimes: I'm not at all attracted to children. If he doesn't look at loli porn exclusively, I wouldn't worry about it.
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>>17167607
Men like youthful looks because it's cute and pure. That's attractive to men.
You're a woman; you don't understand this because you like the opposite. It's understandable but I wouldn't judge him.
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>>17167620
I know it doesn't, just tried to get close to the age I saw.

>>17167615
Its weird you said that. I brought the situation up to my gay friend (since he's a big anime lover and collects gay porn manga) without telling him about the whole situation and he told me he checks out shota too (I seriously didn't think loli had a male equivalent). I was pretty damn shocked about it, especially because he only dates older guys.


My bf does have a diverse set of porn, so I guess its a good sign? Now that I think about it he had young guy on grandma age-ish porn...guess that negates the loli in a way?
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>>17167655

>he likes older guys

hes probably likes me and likes to proxy himself into the shota. i cant look at shota on shota, it has to have an older man on it. i like to feel like a qt little boy getting used. porn is very much a proxy after all.

but yeah, i wouldnt say grandma age ish porn negates it in any way. it just shows that he is... human? and not afraid of it.

i mean have you ever looked at a little boy, or the image of a little boy drawn and just found it vaguely erotic? or even a girl, with a big ole man behind her?

you wouldnt consider yourself a pedophile really, but you might feel confused by it. sexuality is not really as set in stone as we think. sometimes even really disgusting things (like a grandma) turns us on in weird ways.

sounds to me hes just not afraid to explore his sexuality, but i dont imagine hed abuse someone to do so considering his interests are wide enough that it doesnt dominate him. if you feel he might be, thats your call to cehck out. maybe having a discussion where you talk about your new understanding of how diverse sexuality is might help.

but like wiht your gay friend, i think a lot of us are jsut realizing that sexuality is more diverse and now we have opportunities to explore it we didnt have before the internet.

not to make light of pedophillia, but evolution wise it actually does make sense. to boil it down
>in caveman days life is all about making sure you have children and pass that along
>fucking little girls guarantees taht as soon as they do become birthing age, you'll already be impregnating them

it has its own issues (like young girls being more likely to die in childbirth) but it has the advantage of guranteeing more girls for oyu if you do it.
cont...
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Check if real realizes the difference between 2d and 3d, as there are plenty of loli fappers that like 2d kids and think 3d kids are gross.
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>>17167675

I see where you're coming from. I did forget to mention one thing though:

He's an elementary/middle school teacher. My gay friend is too (we are all in the education field)
Thinking about it, that unsettles me the most. I've seen him in action and he doesn't strike me as preferring girls over boys in his class. Same with my friend (though his male student like him more for his comic assignments)

[spoiler] We all even have a joke that goes "Working with children, I can't understand how people could be pedos. Who finds these demons attractive!?" its a bad one and a bit mean spirited to kids who have great moments as good as bad, but y'know, drunk people talk [/spoiler]
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>>17167717

interesting. if you are worried, keep an eye on him. no reason not to. i imagine teachers are less likely to strike as thats their whole life gone and teh ycant control the kid at all. most sexual abuse of children comes from wtihin the family.

but just remember that it doesn't always come out in real life. he may be attracted to older women but has he ever flirted with a granny? or had sex with one? a lot of people love incest roleplay but would enver do it with their own family. same can be said about loli or shota.

there might be a sexual edge to some interactions, but its more common than you think. imagine all the male friends oyu ahd who were clearly sexually into you but not really romantically. there was an edge, a tension, and it can often strengthen. my boss is gay nad i know hes sexually attracted to me but hed never make a move. i thoughti t a little weird at first, but ultimately i realized it just strengthens the relationship. i am sexually attracted to my straight male friends but also wouldnt make a move.

the teachers might be sexually attracted to the kids, but it doesnt mean they will make a move. if anythign it makes the bonding with them more fun.

but again, always be on the lookout for signs of it getting out of control.
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>>17167607
>not using this to your advantage and dressing like a loli for him

he will get the most hard rock boner for you ever.
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>>17167717
>He's an elementary/middle school teacher.
Funny you should say that, I once traveled with a female teacher who was into shota. She was married though, and the rest of the group didn't think anything of it.
>>17167728
I really don't like the sound of "be on the lookout for signs of it getting out of control". If he has so far given no indication of being interested in children or being a sexual predator, you should assume that he has himself under control, not put him under suspicion for having some unusual interests.
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>>17167865

>you shouldnt worry about someone who has a sexual interest in kids molesting kids.

geez ur dumb. im not saying she should patrol his porn habits and keep tabs on that, but if you see any red flags, wave em.
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>>17167870
So do you think someone should be watching your red flags too?
What I'm saying is, he has not, in fact, shown any indication of being interested in molesting kids or "kids molesting kids"(how would he even do that without being a kid himself? Making some kids do it would just be molestation again.) If he had shown any indication of actual sexual interest in kids, I would agree with you, but he hasn't.(as far as we know)
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I have quite the loli collection, but I also no how to seperate what a sexual fetish fantasy is from the real world. Just cause the guy likes loli doesn't mean he's going to start raping every kid he sees. Please understand the difference.
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>>17167914
This

I watch rape porn and hentai rape constantly, but when I come across porn that looks like it could be -at all- real, it makes me physically sick to my stomach. I usually can't even fap after seeing it and have to go do something else to get my mind off of it.

I have sick and twisted fantasies, but that's all they are-FANTASY. The problem comes when someone starts to believe it's ok to do those things without consent from a willing partner, or, (godforbid), a child.

Now as far as your boyfriend goes, I say he is probably fine. It's always ok to be vigilant and not ignorant around small children, but you do not need to assume he is doing anything unless some other behavior has tipped you off.

If you are really concerned, talk to him. Try to casually bring up that you saw the stuff he looks at, and ask him what about it he likes. You never know, this could lead you both into a healthy sex talk and possible fantasy fulfillment for both of you.
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>>17167607
what do you mean by check out? does he actually look it up or does he just come across it on /b/ and look at it? sometimes it click on it by accident on /b/
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>>17167607
Until you see real CP (aka photos and videos featuring young children) then there is nothing unusual / wrong with your boyfriend.
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your boyfriend has pleb tastes, leave him

everyone knows the true lolicons never sexualize their daughterus

you must kill him
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