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As a 23 year old girl is it weird for me to sleep with a 16 year
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As a 23 year old girl is it weird for me to sleep with a 16 year old guy? It's legal here
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>>17164670
Nope, you're in the clear!
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You're seven years older than him, he's probably not even completely through puberty. Yeah, it's sketchy.
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>>17164680
Oh he's very well developed.
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>>17164680
Seconding this.

>>17164684
Not in terms of brain development.
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>>17164684
I think he might mean mentally. Most guys are stupid idiots at that age.
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>>17164670
Well, for being socially acceptable the general rule is [your age/2] + 7 rounded up, so for that your lower limit should be 19. Also, there is a MASSIVE difference in maturity between a young teenager and someone of your age. Even though it's not against the law where you are that doesn't change the fact that you're an adult engaging in sexual activity with a child.
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>>17164670
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>>17164694
Am I harming him in any way? I don't think I am but I'm open to having my mind changed about that
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>>17164680
That isn't that big an age gap.
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>>17164680
>>17164688
>>17164690
>>17164694
Stop acting like you faggots wouldn't have wanted this at that age.
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>>17164703
It's not about whether it is in absolute sense. Someone of thirty three with a forty year old is obviously fine. But you change and grow and develop a lot more between the ages of sixteen and twenty three than between those years.

>>17164701
How much initiative has come from him as opposed to you?
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>>17164708
Mostly from him
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>>17164708
A guy wants his dick wet at that age. There's no problem with it if it's consensual.
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>>17164670
It's only wrong if he's in the average range of mental maturity for a 16 year old. Otherwise, I like em young too
so cute
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>>17164713
>if it's consensual.
That's kind of the whole point of age gaps. Most young folks are insecure in general, and feel pressure to be cool in the eyes of older people. A healthy sixteen year old guy with a healthy sex drive who does not want to have sex with OP, and for example save it for some girl he likes (yeah some guys want this, too) is going to feel pressure to act like a stud once this older gal shows interest. The more pushy she is the bigger the chance he will just roll with it regardless of his actual feelings on it.

>>17164712
That's something at least.
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>>17164717
I get nothing but enthusiastic consent from him, which is to be expected from a teenage boy
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>Double Standards: The Thread
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>>17164832
Well girls are more likely to be the victims of an older man with bad intentions right?
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>>17164915
That doesn't mean you should ignore sex-flipped situations when they happen.

If it was the other way around, everyone would be calling OP a predator and clinging to an 18+ only belief like it's gospel.
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>>17164750
But it seems like you still feel worried about it, which is why you're asking if it's okay. I feel like you already know it's not.
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>>17164750
of course it's enthusiastic! :) you are a hot goddess. do you let him hit it raw and creampie?
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>>17164670
I fucked a 17 year old as a 28 year old. She was the one going after my dick, she was already involved in a lesbian relationship so it was just sex. If it's legal, don't have an issue with it. However people will socially have issues with it, so it's probably not something you should broadcast.
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>>17164670

Is it legal in your country?

If yes: Yes.
If no: No.

Then again, you are a woman. If it gets found out you won't get as harshly punished as a man would in the same situation.
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>>17164915
Yep of course, got to save them from those evil men! I mean pedos yeah pedos is what i meant

Thanks feminism
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>>17164935
I feel like it's fine but all of this stigma has me worried that I might be wrong. I'm double checking
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>>17164670
Would you be fine with a 23 year old man fucking a 16 year old girl?
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>>17165009
If he wasn't in a position of authority over her then yes
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It's weird but if you want it and need it, I wouldn't date a girl going that young in her past guys obviously something going on I can't be fucked to fix.
Enhoy your time older people always will have sex with younger people so I wouldn't say it's wrong.
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>>17164684
Confirmed roastie whore
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As a fellow 23 y/o girl I can say that to me it's both creepy and disgusting that you fuck a 16 y/o guy. It might be because I find most teenagers obnoxious and stupid, but I feel like it also reflects badly on you (desperate, can't find a guy her age, goes for young guys ergo possible pedo tendencies).
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>>17164670
i'm 19 and my gf is 26, same age diffrence but your situation is different.
i would never reccomend this, i love my gf but i struggle a lot with the age gap.
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>>17164962
>If it gets found out you won't get as harshly punished as a man would in the same situation.
In terms of real punishment, this is actually not true. There's a respectable collection of young women ex-high school teachers in jail for nailing their students.
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what do you like about it?
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>>17165303
>sexualy interested in 16 year old
>pedophilia

Pick one and only one dumbass. Learn the meaning of the word you are using to accuse someone of being.

>>17164670
From my perspective(guy), at 16 I was dating a girl older than me. It was only a 2 year difference and things worked out fine until it was time for her to graduate and go to college.

If this is just about sex and no relationship, Id say go for it. He is open to it and you seem to be physically attracted to him. It also sounds like you are legally in the clear.

Teach him how to pleasure women. Trust me he will thank you later on in life.

Older sexually experienced women > teenage girls who are dead fish
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>>17164670
But who is in the photo?
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>>17166139
I can't remember her name. She does some great incest/deepthroat vids. And she has a huge tongue, and some great tiddies.

OP, post some shots of yourself... For research purposes...
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>>17166130
>possible pedo tendencies
I.e. She's testing the waters before moving onto someone younger, it's definitely possible.
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>>17166275
larkin love, according to googs
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>>17164705
>stop acting like you faggots wouldn't want a 23 year old guy dating your 16 year old daughter
Holy shit now it's such a different game. Not the same thing, right guys? Logical fallacy, and whatever defense you want to try to pull for the exact same thing.

>b.b..but titties

No, you fucking slimeball. Be fair. You saw OP's picture and said "I'd fuck that" but that's not OP. OP could be some Jabba the Hurt looking thing trying to use youth as a card to get laid.

Stay barren, she-demon.
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I wish a 23 year old fucked me when I was 16
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>>17164670
Yes
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>>17166412
>larkin love
>OP of all people chose her
>not ODA Ingrid
>not Aya Sakai
>not Chaka T
>not Tyra Moore
>not even Penny fucking Porsche, who's the same caliber

Bleaurgh
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m18 my gf is 24 and whe slept with me when I was 17
I dont see it as a problem
As for you the guy is 16 he is in high school
I belive he is not working or grasped the idea of money and work or what is life
but what I do belive that you love your little shotta and sleeping with him.
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>7 years age difference
No problem.
>He/she is 16
Big problem.
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There's nothing wrong but remember that a 16 year old kid will never be able to keep his mouth shut. He'll be bragging about it to all his friends and eventually he'll mention your name.
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>>17164670
When I was 16 I probably would've given one of my nuts to score with an older chick. Or a hot teacher, for that matter. Unless that guy is a total faggot, he'll have zero regrets about this, and you should too.
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Give him the P
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>>17165009
Almost moreso because guys at that age are still stupid af
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>>17164670
It's unusual. Normally women seek out more mature men. That being said if you're just going for a quick lay nobody is going to really bat an eye about it.
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>>17164670
it's all good and I would've wanted to be in that situation as a 16 year old but, what's up with you? Are you socially inadequate? Can't you sleep with people closer to your age?
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>>17164694
Teenagers aren't children. Now, this would be a little more of a grew area if it were say, his mother wanting to have sex with him-which could seriously fuck up his perception of a healthy relationship.

However, hormones are peaked during the teenage years, and there is a reason it's legal in some states.

However OP, I hope you're only looking for sex with this kid and not a serious relationship. If you trick this boy into having a baby with you, or some similar bullshit, then you are a shit person.
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>>17164670
As a girl it's wrong for you to do anything. Down with the matriarchy.
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>>17168647
Gray area*

what the fuck is even a Grew?
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>>17164670
Post pics of you so I can judge
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>>17164715
Posts your pic too
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>>17164670
He is immature but in now way regretting it. Now as for you, well it would be a little weird but you know this world has some crazy double standards. If it's legal where you live then why the hell not? Don't let prudes tell you how to carry yourself.
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>>17164701

Psychological studies show that an age difference like that during a sexual experience at that age (mid teens) majorly fucks them up emotionally and impacts future Relationships. I reAlly wouldn't if you dont want to go through life knowing you fucked up this kids sex life forever
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Ok, lets put it this way:

At 16, there is no way i would have refused an attractive 23 year old. Even if she were a butterface, i would've hit it like my life depended on it.

HOWEVER, I also think that it would've affected my relationships with girls my own age, and probably not in a good way. I would expect them to be able to do what a 23 yr old could and i wouldn't had a harder time relating to them.
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It's weird that you keep reposting the same question.
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>>17164670

Take your age, divide by two and then add seven. That's the lowest you can go. For you that's 18-19, so yes it's a bit weird for you to be playing hide the sausage with a 16 year old, but hey like you said, it is legal so do what you want I guess. Just bear in mind that he will tell everyone who will listen about the 23 year old piece of ass he's tapping.
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>>17164670

>it's a roastie episode
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