I am 26 and know very little about expressing male Heterosexuality. I feel so uncomfortable expressing sexuality to women. It always feels inherently predatory and weird or creepy. Like it doesn't feel natural to express it. I realize I am heterosexual but expressing it is the problem.
I feel like women are so free when it comes to this stuff but I as a male who doesn't want to cause anyone trouble... Have trouble expressing what should be natural.
What is the appropriate way to show male heterosexuality? Is it even possible?
>>17164200
Do you watch porn a lot?
Try to love someone before having sex with them, it wont feel creepy or forced. If a girl loves you or even just wants to have sex with you, she will let you know and you will feel welcomed.
>>17164225
I do watch a staggering amount of porn. Like a lot...
I try to lay off it but can't because naked females sooth my mind.
I just hate how telling a woman she is pretty could make you seem hella creepy. No body takes compliments anymore. I don't think any woman has liked me more than a friend. What a weird feeling.
Really interesting problem you got there. As that guy said, watch less porn. I also think that spending times with females you don't want to fuck might help you, for some reason.
Something porn might have taught you is that sexuality is often "serious". Most of my sexual relationships (which means like 3 different girls, I'm not the best guy here) were full of laugther, fun, and awkwardness, and it was perfectly okay. You have to let yourself go and have respect for your partner, I guess.
Also, I don't want to sound like an asshole, but maybe a therapist might help you with that or something.
>>17164423
I see... It boggles my mind seeing how this comes so natural to some guys. Like I am super aware when dealing with women. I become really aware of my hands and facial expressions so I don't creep women out. The few women I do know describe me as looking very unsettled and jumpy sometimes. Never calm. Which may be true.
Anytime I deal with women, I feel like I have to strap on someone else's face to not seem strange but end up still seeming strange.
>>17164440
>Like I am super aware when dealing with women. I become really aware of my hands and facial expressions so I don't creep women out.
Well that's your problem, you seem really anxious about it. I know it doesn't leave just by saying "lol guy just try not to care", but that's the whole thing: letting yourself go. When you're flirting or even more, nobody cares about how stupid your face looks or what you're doing with your fingrs. What counts is what you're actually doing.
