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Where can I find decent women in the 18-21 demographic who would
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Where can I find decent women in the 18-21 demographic who would be interested in some sort of committed relationship?

I go to a tiny satellite campus to study mechanical engineering and it's all guys here, so meeting people at school is out of the question. I've tried Tinder, and even had a couple relationships from the app, but in the end they all turn out to be cheap skanks. Where do I look? I'm in the Seattle area, by the way.
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I personally just use online dating and for me it works pretty good so far. there are enough alternatives to tinder out there look into OKcupid and POF.

Basically all girls that are rather introverted seem to be interested in a LTR, also aim for the same intelligence level as you are.

They are not as visible as all those loud extroverted girls, but they are great
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>>17163477
Church
Volunteer work
Clubs
Coffee shops
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>>17163477
>how do I meet people in one of the largest cities in the country.

Step 1:
Leave 4chan

Step 2:
Keep spaghetti intact.
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>>17163489
Not OP but i want to find a person like you described so thank you
Maybe ill do just that
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>>17163477
Do you want a vergeen kiutipai gerlfreind?

If so, my advice is to kill yourself.
If not, my advice is to go out and meet new people outside your classes. Make friends, create a huge social circle. Theres will eventually pop up girls, and eventually one will pop up thats good for you.
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>>17163489
To be honest, the girls who you're talking about aren't that hard to find in real life. It's just that they're hard to get close to, and picking up conversation with them is a pain. My advice for OP is to smile (make sure you have a dental plan because fucked up teeth is a huge turn off) and to not overthink this shit. Good hygiene and making yourself seem approachable goes a long way. Even with introverted girls.
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desu op tinder worked out really well for me but that's because i was really selective. i'd only talk to dudes who were legitimately interesting to talk to

which, of course, made a lot of dudes mad, but i ended up meeting the love of my life, so

anyways, if you're fed up w/ tinder etc... look everywhere. and if you see a girl you like, just fucking say hi to her
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>>17163725
>>17163732
Cheap skanks detected
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>>17163477
Do you have friends? Go to their parties, people with common interest usually gather together
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>>17164043
Difference is youre a girl.
Being picky on that app doesnt work for guys
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>>17163477

i'm finding as the times change and I watch people of that age group that it is becoming more atypical that girls are interested in a committed relationship.

especially enrolled in college.

so expect having a tricky time if thats the only social circle you can look in.
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>>17163477
> Seattle
> Corporate headquarters of Starbucks
> Biggest coffee shop chain in the world
> Duh, where do I go to meet women?
I think I may have detected a clue why you can't meet women.
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>>17163477
>cheap skanks

you know most women are like that because they want to have their fun first. I would focus on my career instead if I was you because women are a bad investment. they do not exert any real benefits like your career would.
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>>17163477
>18-21
don't do this to yourself. let them get it all out of their system and think about commitment later
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>>17164664
This. Focus on your self right now. Even if you do find someone, in a few years they will wonder if they made the right choice, no matter how great your relationship is. And then you'll be back to square one anyways but with a lot more heart ache.
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>>17164664
>>17164682
Cheap skanks only turn into old, gross skanks. They don't appreciate in value.
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>>17164664
Absolutely disgusting.
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>>17164664
>let them get it all out of their system

No you dumb degenerate, literally no one wants to long term date used goods. Used goods are good for the corner, FWB and short term flings but long term relationships have sailed. They will never be good wife's because they cant commit and they don't respect themselves nor you for that matter.
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>>17166473
>implying women want to commit at all
>Implying men would rather be alone
Bitch, get real
Even if she has done the worst things possible,like i mean done porn, BBC porn, been a hooker, party slut and kicked your dog she can STILL find a respectable man...to you know play around with and make him feel bad
The shortage of girls in the dating scene along with the massive abundance of guys means as a dude you cant really be picky
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>>17164597
i dont understnad this comic
is it saying all girls do through college is screw around while guys study?
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>>17166759
Its saying that as a guy you dont get to fuck around and have fun or a girl so youre left to study in the hopes of getting a girl later on in life and what youre left with is the "used up" girl who has had her fun and is now using you for money
Or something, i dont know i cant remember all the redpill nonsense ive ever heard
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No redpill, just the power of observation
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just go out, sluts are rampant these days, you'll get laid even as an ugly schmuck
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I take it youre 18-21?
It's pretty dumb to want and expect yourself and women to want such a relationship when youre so damned young.
At your age you should be having fun and only be committed to a career or school. Having a relationship at a young age will only cause problems down the road.
Have fun now, get a career, save up money, and then get into a relationship.
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well you can always find hobbies that you think would bring you closer to girls of your choice. For example, like a community service group or concerts. Music brings people together. You can strike up a convo with girls of the same music interest at shows of bands you like! Or start a band and gig all over the city. That's my plan:D Hobbies man, find passion and then find people with similar passion
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>>17167636
>Have fun now
what does this mean
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>>17167636
o the irony
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